What the heck, I am going to say it....
Hello, my beautiful friends,
How is life treating you? How are you treating yourself?
I am in an “anything’s possible” vibe at the moment.
No obvious reason.
I simply feel good.
Just because…
Energy is strong, #mind is focused, and connections with other humans in my life are close and loving.
But especially my own #relationship with myself has been going through some serious upgrades in the last few months, and I can feel the shifts within myself.
I’ve been pulling apart the question of my own SELF-WORTH.
How do I see myself?
Who do I believe to BE?
What’s my relationship with myself?
What’s the language I use when I talk to myself?
I’ve been on the quest of getting really, really aware of MY OWN SELF-WORTH.
I deep-dived into HOW I SEE MYSELF.
What do I think of myself?
What a mind-blowing journey…
Have you ever tried it?
Have you ever tried to make yourself the center of the Universe?
Not because you’re a narcissist 😊.
But because you’re genuinely curious about who is it that you’re living with 24/7.
Who is “YOU”?
As I had been moving along on my journey of deeper self-discovery, I kept coming back to one question over and over and over.
DO I TRULY BELIEVE I’M WORTHY? Like truly?
“Worthy of what?”, you ask?
Worthy of anything.
Love.
Money.
A great life.
Abundance.
Fun.
Joy.
Anything.
OR Do I believe that I need to DO anything to DESERVE being worthy?
Maybe that I need to work harder to deserve more money.
Or that I need to do what others expect of me for them to like me.
Or be a good girl in order to be approved of.
Whatever.
Do I truly believe I am worthy?
And – the answer often was no – when I was 100% honest with myself – I often did not think I was worthy of the things/connections/money/love I still want to experience in this lifetime.
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I have a lot AND I WANT SO MUCH MORE!!!
An immediate reaction in the past would have been to justify my desire to want more.
Try to explain.
Not sound greedy.
Not appear arrogant.
The FEAR of you judging me as you’re reading this newsletter would have in the past stopped me from writing such outrageous statements.
Why?
Because I thought I needed to DO something to DESERVE more.
I thought I was NOT WORTHY of having what I wanted just because I wanted it.
Not consciously.
We are often not aware that our relationship with ourselves is broken.
We don’t see it.
How could we when we focus all our attention outwardly to appear good?
But when I consciously decided to take the mask off and genuinely explore my own relationship with myself, I started seeing where the cracks were.
Everywhere😊.
The work is still in progress, and it will never finish, as the layers of our #subconscious programming are never-ending.
But writing an article like this today comes easily.
There’s no need to justify myself.
There is no need to explain anything.
There is no need to do anything to feel my own worthiness.
What IS inside me very strongly today is my desire to help YOU find the same ease when it comes to your own relationship with yourself and asking for what YOU want.
Voicing it out without feeling like you are too daring, too arrogant, or that you are NOT WORTHY of what you really want.
Because it’s not true.
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All this internal discovery inspired me to help those of you who want to ask for a pay rise or promotion but are scared to take action because… …well, because you don’t believe you’re worthy, my friend.
You’re either doubting yourself, or you’re scared of #rejection, or you don’t quite know how to ask for what you want.
Something is stopping you.
And resentment is building up…
If this is you, I am here to help you break through that block.
It’s time, and you don’t need to do it alone.
I am here to show you how and have your back.
Join my free MasterClass on 16th May and learn what needs to happen for you to find #courage and ask for what you want.
Because my friend, we are definitely worth it.
You can register HERE.
And I am going to say it again.
I have a lot AND I WANT SO MUCH MORE!!
Come and join the “MORE” club.
As always, my friends,
With so much LOVE.
Michaela xx