What's in a Name?

"A rose by any other name would smell as sweet."

William Shakespeare

When I was twenty-one, I was out on a first date with a young woman whom I met through a friend. We went to dinner at the Summer House, which had dining and a theater-style bar. It was a great place to see a live band.

We were seated at a perfect table for two in the center of the room. Just before the band came on, an extraordinary thing happened. I was looking toward the stage, and walking up the aisle strode Mary, whom I had a crush on in high school, though she never knew it.

I had not seen her since graduation, and I stood up to say hello. She paused, and we talked for a moment. I turned to introduce Mary to my date and realized I had forgotten the name of my date. It did not come back to me, and neither did she after that evening. I never again saw Mary or the nameless young woman, whose name still escapes me.

A couple of years later, I was at the movies with another date. Before the movie began, she saw an old friend walking up the aisle toward us. When she rose to greet him, I did too. Then my date turned to introduce me, and she couldn’t remember my name either.

I guess turnabout is fair play!

I made a resolution around that time in my life. Never marry anyone whose name you can’t remember, or who can’t remember your name either. It’s not a good sign.

Thankfully for me, my wife forgives me my flaws, and has never forgotten my name.

-Hank

"What's in a Name?" from The Saturday Morning Post, at hankfrazee.com