'What's Next?' : My Top Secret Attitude at Failures!

Getting trapped with the consequence of mistakes is a sin.

Zooming in the mistakes done is the first mistake we do.

Mistakes are not mistakes. Holding it back tightly is the first mistake.

It's okay to attempt anything new!

It's okay to do what you like!

It's okay if you fail at something you tried!

It's okay to find the reasons for that failures!

It's okay if something unexpected stuff will happen to you!

But it's NOT okay to stick with either of those reasons or the bad outcomes.

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I've attempted to start a startup, that I had no experience with.

I've done hundreds of things that I've not done before.

And yes, I've faced thousands of failures simultaneously. At all levels. At all angles. From all perspectives.

But I never get attached to either of them badly.

Just I say to myself - 'It's okay. It happened. What's Next?'

That 'what's next attitude' saved me from lots of self-depression, cognitive imbalances, negative behavioral issues, etc.

Every time I failed, I ask 3 things to myself -

1. What was my internal Score (out of 10)?
2. What were the external factors behind my failure, if any?
3. What's the next plan?

And you know what, very often, I found my internal score below 5.

So, I never get depressed about any of my failures; rather I've tried to improve my efficiency and performance.

And, I consider, so-called 'failures' to be the world's best professors, who can teach you with an n-dimensional real-world screen. :)

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So, don't underestimate the power of any failure you did! Utilize them.

And don't overestimate the negative outcomes of any mistakes you did. Ignore them.

Everything needs a balance. And hence the failure is too!

So, welcome and celebrate each of your failures. It may be smaller or bigger, no matter.

And don't forget to draw benefits out of them as much as possible.

Be a Marwadi (who draws maximum output from a unit input) at your mistakes/failures! :))