WHO -> Why -> What -> How

WHO -> Why -> What -> How

Some time ago, I stumbled upon an idea by James Clear, author of Atomic Habits, that profoundly shifted how I view personal and professional development.

Clear argues that success isn’t just about setting goals or building systems—it starts with clarity of identity.

Every action you take,” he writes, “is a vote for the type of person you want to become.

This resonated deeply with me.

I realized that many of the challenges I faced, whether in coaching, teaching, or running my own business, stemmed from a lack of alignment between my identity and the goals I was striving for.

This epiphany inspired me to explore how clarity of identity can be a powerful lever for growth—not just personally, but in our careers and businesses.

The Power of Identity Clarity

Identity clarity means having a clear understanding of who you are, what you stand for, and where you’re headed.

It’s not static but evolves as we grow.

When your actions, choices, and goals align with your identity, you unlock focus, purpose, and resilience.


Here are three strategies to leverage identity clarity for growth:

1. Define Your Core Values

Your values are the foundation of your identity.

Take time to reflect on what truly matters to you—integrity, creativity, learning, freedom?

Use these values as a compass to guide decisions in your personal and professional life.

Example: If your core value is learning, seek roles or opportunities that challenge you to grow rather than staying in a comfort zone.


2. Ask Identity-Based Questions

Instead of asking, “What do I want to achieve?” ask, “Who do I need to become to achieve this?”

This shifts your focus from outcomes to the habits and character traits required to succeed.

Personal Tip: When I started my coaching business, I repeatedly asked, “What does a successful coach do every day?”

The answer shaped my daily actions and consistency.


3. Align Goals with Identity

Your goals should reflect the person you aspire to be.

When goals feel disconnected from your identity, motivation wanes.

Periodically review your goals to ensure they’re aligned with your evolving sense of self.

Example: If you identify as a creative, pursuing rigid, uninspiring goals will feel draining. Instead, set goals that allow flexibility and innovation.

The Ripple Effect on Growth

Clarity of identity doesn’t just elevate personal growth; it transforms careers and businesses.

Leaders who know their identity build authentic brands.

Professionals who align with their core values stand out for their integrity and passion.

What’s one thing you can do today to gain clarity on your identity?

Reflect, journal, or have a conversation about what matters most to you.

And if you’re looking for guidance in this journey, I’d be honoured to help.

Let’s align your identity with your aspirations to create growth that’s not only successful but deeply fulfilling.

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Timothy Asiedu

Managing Director (Information Technology Consultant) & at TIM Technology Services Ltd and an Author.

4w

Thanks Jeremiah, for sharing some materials on Clarity of Identity, which helps in Personal branding and thus improves your marketability. Do have a fruitful week.

Anh Nguyen

I help startups build a full-code Minimum Viable Product in 90 days | Providing instant 4+yoe developers to scale up your tech team | Saving 3x time on development & tech hiring

4w

Success isn't just about checking things off a list. Your framework is a great way to ensure our actions are aligned with our values. Thanks for the insightful read! Jeremiah Teo (赵汉昇)

Wayne Brown

I help Businesses Achieve Sustainable Growth | Consulting, Exec. Development & Coaching | 45+ Years | CEO @ S4E | Building M.E., AP & Sth Asia | Best-selling Author, Speaker & Awarded Leader

4w

Great insight! Charisma plays a significant role in leadership and business. It’s about connecting with others, inspiring trust, and creating meaningful relationships. Developing your leadership skills can unlock your true potential.

Gregory Fok

Doctors and Business Adviser, Biz strategies, wealth transfer, working with senior leadership to grow and ringfence their business and financial assets. Dream Builder, Time saver, Stress reducer, Simplifier, Risk expert.

4w

Who we want to be is a powerful way to move forward, Jeremiah. It starts with the end in mind!

Am so very much inspired, with this words.

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