Why Doctors Keep Saying that Your Scans Are Fine: Here's the Truth about Unexplained Pain and How to Cure It

Hello! I’m Rose, the Pain Recovery Specialist for professional women living with pain. I’m writing to you now because I cured my own pain with a science-backed emotionally focused methodology, after knowing that I would live in pain forever. People recover from pain all the time - and I am here to share my experience and expertise so that you can be next.

After recovering fully from pain, I spent years building the skills, knowledge and capacities needed to help other women recover from pain as quickly and effectively as possible.

More on that later.

So the point here is that I get it - how pain stops you in your tracks. One moment, you’re climbing the career ladder, the next moment, you’re still climbing, but spending most nights on a heating pad and crossing your fingers that it won't get too bad to take that work trip. You struggle to put on a brave face, but all you can think about is the pain. How bad it is, how bad it could get, and what you can do to make it go away?

So if you are tired of not being able to show up fully for your life because you never know when the pain is going to flare, you are in the right place. We’re going to unpack exactly what is causing your physical pain and why it’s so common among professional women like us.

First things first, when you are experiencing pain, you should always rule out any specific medical cause - including a fracture, tumor, clearly diagnosed nerve damage, or autoimmune disease that would need medical treatment. If you’re here, likely you’ve already been to all the doctors who have told you ‘everything is fine’. Maybe you have a few bulging discs or questionable alignment, but other than a few incidental findings, nothing medical explains the severity of your pain.

Second, all pain is created in the brain. All pain is REAL. There is no difference in the experience of pain caused by a physical accident - like a fracture - and pain that is caused by unprocessed emotional trauma. The good news is that, once you've ruled out a specific medical cause - you can rest assured that your pain is actually curable. So what's causing the physical pain? Unprocessed emotional trauma.

What is trauma and how does it cause physical pain? Trauma is any experience where you were unable to mentally, emotionally, and energetically process the experience at the time. So your system - your mind, body, and energy triggered a survival response at that moment. An emotion is energy in motion, so when that survival energy gets trapped in the body, it creates a protective mechanism - like armor. This is intended to prevent you from getting hurt like that again. So when someone ‘feels triggered’ - it’s because something in the current moment has touched one of these old protective mechanisms.

That emotional armor accumulates as it is triggered again and again in your life, and with enough stress, it can turn on the physical pain signals in your brain - the ultimate danger signal. For professional women, for leaders, this most often shows up as migraines, back pain, or unexplained GI issues. That said, there is a list of around 30 symptoms that can show up in your body.

But as a high achieving woman climbing the career ladder, you are still forcing yourself to perform. The thing is, you know that pain is getting in the way of you showing up fully in your life. You aren’t living or leading the way that you were meant to, because you never know when the pain is going to stop you in your tracks.

Whether the pain is intermittent or chronic - no matter how well you can cope, no matter how many heating pads, injections, chiropractic adjustments, or supplements you take - nothing is working to cure this pain that is holding you back from living - and enjoying - life like you were meant to. All of that is about to change.

When you heal the emotional trauma that is causing the physical pain signals to be stuck in the 'on' position, the brain can turn the pain signals off. Your entire system recalibrates from hypervigilance to safety. No more pretending that you're fine when all you can think about is the pain - this is an embodied life, free from physical pain.

If you’re ready for a radical approach to recovering from pain as quickly and effectively as possible, I want to invite you to message me ‘TRAINING’ for a link to a 30 minute free training that goes into the details of exactly how to heal your pain using a science-backed emotionally-rooted approach. 

After I recovered from pain myself, I trained in chronic pain recovery, pain reprocessing techniques, nervous system regulation, trauma healing, somatic body-based techniques and EFT tapping. I wove these elements together into a unique method - the Recalibration Effect - to help other professional women heal the emotional trauma that is showing up as physical pain, as quickly and effectively as possible.

People recover from pain all the time - and you can choose now to be next.

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