Why Should A High-Performing Man Hire A Personal Confidant?

It’s like sex or your laptop or your yacht. Can you survive without it? Sure. Do you really want to? Not particularly.

Look your best in public, and let someone else erase your weaknesses backstage.

We want to have everything that makes our life and work faster, easier, more efficient, more pleasurable and comfortable.

That’s always the goal, right?

Look better, be better than the rest, while not revealing anything to anybody that remotely resembles weakness.

What you do behind the curtain in order to achieve that, is nobody else’s business.

You get educated then hire coaches and get post-graduate training to become even better…

"But who ya gonna call

If there’s something weird an’ it don’t look good

Ghostbusters!"

"If you’re seein’ things running through your head

Who can you call?

Ghostbusters!"

You want to look good and feel good in your skin on a consistent basis.

You want to function and operate optimally mentally, physically and emotionally.

You want to prevent high-blood pressure, heart attacks and strokes.

You want to tune up your business intuition.

And I could list a million other reasons to have a personal confidant by your side.

To have someone you can unequivocally trust who is non-judgmental, who supports you through thick and thin is priceless in and of itself but it goes way beyond that; it goes beyond serving as a sounding board for you: it means to have someone who RECOGNIZES and REMOVES your subconscious negative thoughts, feelings, emotions, limitations FOR YOU as a ‘done for you’ service and then is able to “pull out” the optimal and best solution possibilities for you, so you can thrive, be at the top of your game so effortlessly that if feels like “wu-wei”, and that's absolutely indispensable!

I know some of the excuses men might have against having one, like:

“I should be able to do everything on my own” 

“I don’t have time to talk about it”

“I’m better off thinking and talking it out all by myself”

“I don’t need (or trust) other people’s ideas”

“I can’t open up or talk about what’s really on my mind” - I can’t even admit it to myself…

“ I can’t trust anybody, I have secrets, I’m ashamed to have an issue in the first place, let alone express it”

“ I don’t need another useless meeting - I have plenty of those”

“ I don’t want to be told what to do”

“ It’s a waste of time to get something off my chest because it doesn’t do anything and doesn’t solve any of my problems”

Those might be all true, however, there is a good reason why even the uneducated, most bigot, stubborn, paranoid, vicious mafia bosses had their own “Consigliere”/ trusted advisor.

Having witnessed my father literally be destroyed by “stress” that he held onto, and then having studied and been trained in psychology, NLP, Positive Intelligence, and other mindfulness techniques and healing modalities, tuned up intuition, etc, I know exactly how businessmen are effected by the combination of their circumstances and their own inner world- and my mission is to help them to stay at the top of their game but effortlessly and without stress.

You want somebody to be there for you, who is a professional, not your friend, wife, child, employee, psychiatrist or business partner.

Those are important relationships to have but this is solely there for you, to bring out your best, relieve your stress, enable the best possible decisions, make sure you thrive and feel alive.

Remember:

Whatever you think consciously is your problem, is never what your true problem is - and that's why it gets you!

It’s never what it seems.

And there is nothing more frustrating than not knowing what’s below the surface, what’s behind the perpetual symptoms and what is your gut feeling telling you.

“BEHIND EVERY GREAT MAN IS A GREAT CONFIDANT.”