The Winding Road: Reflecting on an unpredictable year.

2023 certainly took me on an unexpected detour. The thriving tech landscape had instilled a false confidence that jobs would always be abundant. But this past year, I felt stuck in an endless loop of interviews, battling thousands of other candidates in the unemployment hunger games.

They say “when it rains it pours.” Soon after my daughter also lost her job. Dealing with our emotional ups and downs, along with sorting out COBRA, unemployment benefits, and health insurance was about as much fun as a getting a root canal.

It was the year to “turn wounds into wisdom.” I was surprised and frankly disappointed when some people I considered close connections ghosted me during this difficult period. But I've learned not to hold grudges—sometimes people are dealing with their own unseen struggles. This experience showed me the true value of a listening ear and moral support. I was incredibly touched when acquaintances and friends alike reached out to chat over virtual coffee or lent their ears to listen. Those short but heartfelt messages kept me going through some of the tough days. I’ll forever be grateful to those who offered compassion when I needed it most.

While we were dealing with all this, I realized how fragile and unpredictable life can be after the tragic loss of my young niece. This devastating and untimely loss jolted our whole family. In the blink of an eye, her bright light was gone. This tragedy put everything into perspective and reminded us how fragile and fleeting life can be.

After news of her death, my own problems and unemployment stress suddenly felt insignificant. Her absence left a hole in our hearts that can never be filled. I realized that time with loved ones is the most precious, non-renewable resource.

This painful experience taught me to embrace each moment, leave nothing unsaid, and let go of petty grievances.

The year started with many companies "trimming the fat" as a metaphor for the massive layoffs, so I decided to trim a bit of “fat” myself and managed to drop nearly 40 pounds this past year. Likely one of the best side effects of a turbulent year.

Well, fast forward to today and things are looking up. After weathering some storms this past year, both my daughter and I have navigated back to employment. We may be a little battered and bruised but we've emerged wiser and more grateful from the challenges, knowing what matters most—health, family, and meaningful connections.

Well, if 2023 taught me anything, it's that life is unpredictable - but I wouldn't trade the downs for an ounce of the wisdom gained. My sincere thanks to everyone who lent a hand through the fog. You know who you are and I think the only truly meaninful I can thank you for this gesture is to pay this kindness forward. So if anyone needs an empathetic ear as you navigate your own unexpected detours, please know my calendar is open.

Here's to a 2024 filled with new beginnings, purposeful connections, and bright horizons ahead!

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