YACHTING: A YOUNG WOMENS GAME? Is Yachting's Beauty & Youth Bias Limiting The Industries Growth?

THE OM BLOG CREW TAKEOVER Introducing contributing author Sophie Barber Sophie Barber Ex Superyacht Deck Crew |Passionate Recruiter |Harp Player |Sunrise Hiker |People Person |Fast Talker|

After a career onboard superyachts working initially both on the interior and then far more happily on deck, Sophie came ashore with a vision - convinced that her hands on yachting experience, combined with her love for connecting people made her ideally suited to a new role in recruitment, she has spent the last five years ( with a brief detour as a personal trainer) developing her ability and skillset , constantly learning, striving and honing those skills to follow what she sees as her natural path.  Her experiences working in recruitment and her passion for the sector, often leads her to write of her experiences, observations and insights. This week she has collaborated with THE OM Blog. Read on for an excerpt from her thought provoking post, where she explores the challenges the industry faces to create a truly inclusive, non discriminatory employment landscape.......

YACHTING: A YOUNG WOMENS GAME? -Is Yachting's Beauty and Youth Bias Limiting the Industries Growth? 

For me, yachting was all about fun and adventure. At 23, I was carefree and full of wanderlust, and yachting seemed like the perfect way to combine my love of travel with the chance to earn good money. What wasn’t to love? That is exactly how I felt during my first few years.

I joined the industry at what some might consider a “late” age for certain roles, aged only twenty-four. After over three years in yachting, a few ill-fated boat-mances, and an invisible clock ticking in the back of my mind, I began to wonder: Will I ever meet someone, settle down, and have kids?

Motherhood had always been a dream of mine, and like many other women, I began to look for opportunities ashore. I hoped that by making the transition, I would meet someone lovely and eventually start a family. Of course, that was not the only reason I left yachting. One of the key reasons was that I did not particularly enjoy cleaning—a major component of the role, especially in interior positions.

When I made the switch from interior to deck, I enjoyed the work more. There was something satisfying about a full washdown, leaving the yacht sparkling. But eventually, at 28, I decided to move land based. I stayed within the industry, working in recruitment for over five years across two agencies, and it led me to question: Do women have a “sell-by” date in yachting? Is it still a young woman’s game?

Many women leave yachting for similar reasons—to have children—and returning to the industry afterward can be a challenge. Others find that as they age, the opportunities dry up, and the roles on offer become less enticing. Yachting’s beauty bias is still very real. More mature candidates often face an uphill battle as the industry tends to favor youth, with owners sometimes deeming younger crew “the look” they want onboard.

This bias does not only affect women. I have come across many older captains, men with extensive experience, who struggle to find work. Meanwhile, younger captains with less experience but perhaps more “appealing” appearances seem to get the jobs.

It makes me wonder: Is yachting’s beauty and youth bias limiting the industry’s growth?

Each spring, new candidates flood into the industry—many straight out of school, with little life experience but youth on their side. Alongside them are more mature candidates with valuable land-based experience, who often have a lot to offer but can be overlooked for junior roles due to age preferences on some yachts.

You can understand the hesitation. A 26-year-old chief stew may be reluctant to hire a 30-year-old junior stew with more hospitality experience, perhaps feeling threatened by the candidate’s knowledge or simply preferring someone younger who they can mould. Or is it easier to work with someone with less life & work experience, who is more willing to follow instructions without question.

I recently had a frank conversation with a close friend, a highly experienced Chief Stew now in her early forties. For the sake of anonymity, let us call her Jane. Jane has enjoyed a long and successful career in yachting and, unlike many others in her age bracket, has no plans to transition to a land-based role. With no family commitments, she is fully committed to continuing her life at sea. Yet, despite her wealth of experience, she has noticed a shift in the industry's interest in her profile since she turned thirty-seven. She suspects that age might be a factor, even though anti-discrimination regulations mean that recruiters technically cannot discriminate based on age. Still, Jane feels that the reality is far more complex, especially when yacht owners have specific preferences that can create a grey area.

Jane’s experience mirrors what many mature crew members encounter in the industry: finding new roles becomes increasingly challenging, especially for those who are seasoned and have developed a low tolerance for nonsense (to put it politely). She described how, as a mature Chief Stew, she is much more likely to question decisions, stand up for herself, and offer honest feedback, even when it might be confrontational. This does not mean being difficult, it means having the confidence to ensure things are done right. But while her straightforwardness and exacting standards are assets, they can be perceived as liabilities by captains or owners who are uncomfortable with such assertiveness.

Navigating Power Dynamics Onboard

The power dynamics between a Captain and a Chief Stew can be delicate. While many captains value a Chief Stew who knows the ropes and can run the interior with minimal oversight, there is a fine line between appreciation and feeling threatened. In some cases, a younger candidate may be seen as more "moldable" and amenable to instructions. For more experienced crew members like Jane, there’s often less willingness to tolerate micromanagement or a dysfunctional work environment. This raises an uncomfortable question: does the industry still prefer younger, more compliant crew members who may be less likely to challenge the status quo?

The Reality for Mature Women at Sea

Jane has encountered several recent opportunities that seemed promising at first—what she calls "Golden Egg" roles. Yet, they often turned out to be plagued with deep-rooted crew issues or unrealistic demands from the owner, which are no longer acceptable to her. She has become more selective, unwilling to settle for just any role, but her strong-minded approach seems to have narrowed her options. Jane's experience leads to a troubling realization: there may be a limit to how long she can continue working onboard before the younger generation inevitably steps up and she finds herself edged out.

That said, I do think the industry is slowly starting to shift towards valuing candidates with more experience and a broader skill set. Soft skills, honed over time, are becoming increasingly recognized. However, with shows like Below Deck, we have seen a rise in candidates entering the industry for the wrong reasons, chasing the glamor and Instagrammable moments, rather than being serious about the job. I think most recruitment agencies would agree that the standard of junior crew has declined, with many entering the industry expecting charter and rotational roles right off the bat.

Back in my day, those were perks you earned after years of good service and solid references, not something you demanded as an entry-level candidate.

The Need for a Cultural Shift

It is time for a cultural shift in yachting that values experience and maturity, especially in senior roles. Rather than favoring youth and appearance, the industry should recognize the strengths that come with age: resilience, problem-solving skills, and the ability to navigate complex interpersonal situations. Jane’s story, and those of other women like her, should serve as a wake-up call. If the industry continues to favor youth over experience, it risks losing some of its most seasoned and capable professionals.

Challenging the Norms

Interestingly, a young female deckhand recently shared that she had removed her photo from her CV to challenge the industry's focus on appearance over merit. Her goal was to be hired based solely on her skills and experience—a bold move that signals a potential shift in mindset. If more crew members take similar steps, perhaps the industry will start to appreciate the value of hiring based on capability rather than conforming to an unspoken "yachting standard."

Yachting is evolving, and if it wants to grow, it must embrace change.

The question remains: will it be willing to move past outdated biases and recognize the untapped potential in hiring mature, experienced crew?

As a yacht owner, you have crafted a concept of luxury where every tiny detail reflects your unique needs and desires. When money is no object, it’s easy to see why owners strive for nothing but the best in every aspect, tailored to their individual tastes. The yacht is more than a vessel; it is an extension of their brand, making the crew essential to the yacht’s image and atmosphere. In today’s competitive yachting industry, where the pool of crew members is vast, owners can afford to be exceptionally selective.

But as a recruiter, ethical challenges often arise. How do you maintain integrity in recruitment when occasionally dealing with someone at the top who may not share the same ethical standards? We can present a diverse selection of qualified candidates, but ultimately, the final decision rests with the owner, whose preferences can sometimes be narrow or even discriminatory.

I recall working with a 100m+ yacht owner who, rather explicitly, requested only blond women over 5’10” for certain roles. As a recruiter aiming to fulfill specific requirements, one can feel torn, understanding that by presenting candidates outside these parameters, we would not be meeting the brief. Such experiences highlight the delicate balance between catering to client demands and upholding values that respect diversity and inclusivity.

So, where does this leave the industry?

Will there be a shift toward hiring more mature crew with greater life experience, as entry-level candidates become increasingly focused on their influencer aspirations? Are we evolving, and will women finally be valued more for their skills, experience, and professionalism rather than their appearance?

Of course, we can try to guide owners towards appreciating the value of selecting candidates based on skills and experience. However, in a world where they already have everything they could possibly want, will the bias for youth and beauty ultimately continue to win out? This remains a pressing question in the yachting industry, as the balance between meeting the high aesthetic expectations of yacht owners and promoting a fair, skill-based selection process remains a complex and nuanced issue.

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