If you keep searching beautiful in this world, you will eventually become one

I find immense beauty in souls who are unafraid to be who they are meant to be, unafraid of the labels created by society, untouched by fear, you see the fire in their eyes. Beauty is the capability of being vulnerable, and not being afraid of its effects. Beauty is change and the the acceptance of it. Beauty is bravery and strength during the most difficult times. Beauty is not caring what others think but in solitude in the strength of your soul and the decisions you have made in your life.

Beauty is forgiving one self for the mistakes they have made in the past. Beauty is imperfection in souls, in life, and everywhere. I love the scars on the people because I think they are evidence of survival. Maybe it was survival of something small, like falling on your elbow as a kid…or something larger, like cancer - an accident - or a surgery. I know that people try to rid them…to minimize them or even cover them, but I never really understood that. Scars are beautiful in that they tell a story about who we are, maybe who we once were,would give us an opportunity to share that story with others. Scars are evidence of our life in a very demonstrable and physical way.

Sometimes I see scars with funny stories - of tripping over a pet. Stories of great athletic injuries. Sometimes scars are from things like giving birth (c-section) and of some wonderful moments where our lives changed for the better. Sometimes the scars I see are painful for others - evidence of cutting or self-loathing. Sometimes the scars I see are disfiguring from car accidents and even physical abuse.

But all of these individuals are survivors - they are warriors in their own lives. There is something really valuable scars offer. We are not invincible, we are not impenetrable. We are human. Capable of deep wounds, and overcoming. To me, perfection is unnerving and unnatural. When I see someone without a wrinkle on their face and ten years my senior, it’s odd. I much prefer scars and all the marks we carry - and the beauty they hold to me is in the reality of life. So I guess scars are definitely something I think is quite beautiful, that other people dislike.

Unsurprisingly, God has made women most beautiful things in the world. It involves the fairer sex. Women in general are works of art, but there is something that you all do in relation to me that wrecks me. However, my particular liking for art involves the fact that I tease without actually offending anyone; its harmless. And whether you (dear ladies) are 8 or 80, you all do this thing where you pretend to be mad or irritated, but you try not to smile (and to some extent, fail). This melts me like ice cream on a hot day. I love to point it out by saying, "don't yell at me and smile at the same time; it doesn't work," which only magnifies the smile. Smiling ladies look so beautiful like flowers blooming in the garden of Eden.

Again, a habit of women everywhere universally. That killer one long 'lock of hair' that falls artfully in front of your face that you are constantly pushing out of the way, and the dozens of other things that you appear to do without conscious effort, but that in reality are extremely purposeful. Ladies look extremely beautiful when then tie their hair with both the hands into a bun or knot or whatever.

People with different interests. Like mine? Tell me all about it. Really like a specific character in a show or game? Tell me. Have anything at all you really like and want to talk about/nerd out about it? Please tell me everything I will happily nerd out with you even if I'm unfamiliar in the subject. This goes both ways though, they have to be willing to listen to me too because I do not watch much of TV or movies either.

I find feminine Shyness/quietness in ladies very beautiful. Even thought I also like rowdy individuals, I like shy quiet one too. Something about it is cute, and I just wanna protect you and give you love. The noticeable height differences not exactly an attraction thing but if you're small, it feels great to hug you and feel how the small one is in your arms, like you're holding them. If they're tall, you're the one being held during hugs, and both ways feel amazing. Small people like Japanese and some Chinese look so cute don't they?

Some sort of vulnerability. Something about it feels special, in a sensitive bonding way. Anything wrong? Feeling unwell or upset? I wanna help you and take care of you to make you feel better. In depth, emotional conversations? Yes. I don't go for looks at all. Even if you look “ugly,” I will still fall in love with you for who you are. On a plus side, once we're dating, I'll soon find your face to be gorgeous, no matter what. The humility and polite manners floor me always and graceful catwalk of ladies is a clear 'femme fatale' for me.

The most beautiful things I find is the children, smiling, laughing giggling children look so innocent in their school uniforms, their shorts and frocks they look like beautiful butterflies going around in the garden. Children are most beautiful things on the earth for me and their smile is quite unarming as I get melted in their smile always. Stay blessed! #kishoreshintre #possessedbywritingspirit