Are you a micro manager? Two sure signs...

It would seem that for all the constant complaints about not wanting to be micromanaged, how often do you hear someone say to you, "I'm a great micro manager! Been doing it for years! Went to Harvard to get my MBA in how to irritate the f&%$ out of my staff and make sure they leave".

So assuming that all the people complaining about being micromanaged are not inventing the whole thing to get out of an honest day’s work, then where are all these micro managers hiding?

Is there a micro manager club where they all go to review each other’s drink order and send the club drink receipt back with suggested changes to the word order and format?

Maybe when the waiter puts their order down, a couple of them at the table come up with a few cheery suggestions about how they might lay the drink and coaster on the table or what words they use to see if there is anything else that these pedantic psychopaths need?

I mean they’re just being helpful. Aren’t they?

The fact that few, if any, people admit to being a micro manager is because, at the heart of it, they are terribly insecure. Think about it: a leader who is confident and capable doesn’t need to spend an inordinate amount of time checking and rechecking everything their staff does. A confident leader – a macro manager, if you like – guides, encourages and offers advice, but they don’t drown themselves in work that should be done by the people they’ve employed to do it.

So what are they insecure about? This is harder to answer and may vary from micro manager to micro manager but it can be summed up in one word: TRUST. Or a lack of it. What is consistent across the micro manager’s behaviours is a lack of trust in the staff to perform tasks they’ve been hired to undertake.

For example, they may spend a large amount of time chewing through valuable time editing, re-editing and editing again an internal document that will never see the light of day outside the organisation. This nit-picking at trivial matters, especially at staff members who have extensive experience and qualifications has one dramatic effect: it destroys motivation in the work and will ultimately drive the person to another organisation.

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Or they may be incapable of delegating minor tasks and insist on overseeing them, and in worst cases, completing them. By denying even junior staff the ability to take ownership over some of their tasks, so they can feel a sense of accomplishment and achievement, they kill creativity and deny the chance for someone to learn; especially on the off-chance that they may make a mistake.

But worse than that, it limits the ability of people to grow through their process of learning and discovery. If you want an organisation that never enables people to become leaders within the company or move on to lead another company or their own business, then continue micro-managing them.

Richard Branson said, “Your Company should act as a springboard for ambitious employees, not a set of shackles.”

And to foster ambition a leader needs to give them space to create, to propose ideas, to grow them, to see them succeed and see them fail. A micro manager doesn’t see these things because they’re focussed on the wrong things. They’re obsessing about minor details when they should be looking at the big picture. And what does that big picture look like?

It looks like this: it hires people that are passionate about their work and have the intrinsic motivation to make it happen. These people don’t need to be micro managed, they need to be mentored and collaborated with. They need space to invest their intellectual capital, their creativity and their energy into solving the problems of the business; and they need to be trusted to do it.

Because more than anything, including money, people with intrinsic motivation don’t need you to doubt their integrity and determination, they have enough self-doubts as it is. They want to feel trusted to drive forward their part of the whole operation, making their mark, leaving a legacy when they leave or possibly rising to lead the organisation.

So after all that, what is indeed the two sure signs that you’re a micro manager?

One is the phrase, often offered with a laugh to somehow ameliorate the knowledge that what is being said is actually not in the least bit funny: “I’m a bit of a control freak”.

And two is staff churn; if you’re seeing talented people walk out your door consistently then you need to stop and look at your management style.

As they saying goes, “People don’t leave bad companies, they leave bad managers”.

Are you honest enough to think you may be one? No wonder you’re hiding.

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