Are You Suffering from Money Dysmorphia?

I learned this new term when I read the recent article published in last Sunday Times Invest section, “When your financial situation is stable but you worry anyway”, in which the editor wrote about how in recent months, she had been unable to shake off the fear of not having enough money in her bank account, as the thought of her upcoming renovation expenses, coupled with the realisation that she will need at least $1 million more to meet her eventual retirement needs, is anxiety-inducing at times. 

This comes even though she has been saving and investing regularly, and putting a lid on her monthly spending. While it is necessary to plan for the future and consider our various financial commitments, but have you ever wondered if there is such a thing as worrying too much about money? 

The internet loves to coin new terms for age-old situations, and one of the latest that has surfaced in personal finance discussions is “money dysmorphia” – where someone is insecure about his financial situation even if it is stable.

Hence, for today’s 221st week of our #SundayTimesRecap learning series, let us learn how we can avoid slipping into this emotion and appreciate how much we have prepared for our retirement thus far:

1. Money dysmorphia is a general perception. This is especially so if individuals grew up in a background where scarcity was prevalent. They are constantly worried that their financial conditions are not ideal, leading to them feeling financially insecure. Having high levels of debt, such as (personal) loans, or a looming big purchase like a home renovation may also feel overwhelming, especially if one is living beyond their means to keep up with the lifestyle of their peers.

2. Money dysmorphia might lead us to make poor financial decisions. If you haven’t properly planned your finances, up to a stage where you feel there’s a big gap, then you will tend to go for risky investments. This typically has bad results, emotionally as well, because you are placing a riskier bet and are not sure of the outcome, which creates more anxiety and more fear.

3. Even affluent individuals are not spared the effects of money dysmorphia. A high-net-worth client in her 50s who had always thought she did not have sufficient funds, recently realised that she did have more than what she needed, and could have spent time enjoying life a little more rather than worrying about her financial situation.

4. Learning to manage emotions is key. The OCBC Financial Wellness Index 2023 showed that individuals with “emotional” in their top two financial personality traits – the other traits were conscientious, careful and confident – had lower financial wellness scores and returns on their investments. Those with “emotional” as their top trait also fared worse than the national average when it came to building their emergency funds. On average, 46% of Singaporeans had accumulated at least six months of their salary as funds to overcome a crisis, compared with 34% of those with “emotional” as their top trait, the study showed.

5. Guarding against FOMO. When comparing with peers, the fear of missing out will lead individuals to either dive head first into an investment without doing research, or become too afraid of making losses that they took too little risk. Sometimes, well-meaning friends may make certain remarks that make you panic.

Comments like, “Don’t worry, you’ve been working for a few years so you already have at least $X in savings, right?” may make you spiral into even more worry when you compare your finances with others. In the case of the editor, she attempted to make her money work harder, by pouring more of her savings into investments beyond her usual monthly allocation. Although these went into rather safe, liquid assets, she realised it was unsustainable to invest such a large part of her income as she needed sufficient emergency savings and cash for regular expenses, including food and insurance premiums. 

6. How can we gauge how much money we should have by a certain age? What is sufficient varies a lot from person to person. It is important to work backwards. An example of someone who wants to retire at 60 with $2 million in savings - take a middle yardstick - 40 years old, for example, and do very simple maths. In this example, if an individual makes a 6% return on his portfolio, he needs around $600,000 at the age of 40 to reach $2 million by the time he turns 60, given compounded returns.

Bear in mind, you’re assuming that the person doesn’t even save from 40 onwards. If you save more from age 40, that’s an additional buffer you can get. It is always easier to work backwards than to say ‘I need to save a certain amount every month’ without knowing whether it’s enough.”

7. Consult financial advisers. Whether our finances are robust or lacking, financial planning goes a long way. OCBC noted that people with “emotional” in their top two traits who used digital tools such as goal trackers and bill reminders, as well as those who consulted financial advisers, fared better than those who did not. Even if you experience ‘money dysmorphia’, speaking to a professional could help to break through the noise, and your financial adviser will be able to create a suitable money management plan that is tailored to your financial goals. Discussions with a professional should cover various areas, such as your assets, income and insurance. That will give a much more comprehensive picture and reduce some of the anxiety. Charting your financial path is just the beginning of your journey – it is necessary to regularly review your plan, at least once a year, to ensure you are on track to reach your goals.

8. Use the 50-30-20 budgeting rule to build a financial foundation. This is a useful guide that involves allocating 50% of your income to needs, 30% to wants and 20% for savings. Keep at least three to six months’ worth of living expenses for emergencies. Maintaining a positive monthly cash flow is essential for establishing financial security. Thereafter, you can take the next step and invest your money so that it can compound in value over time.

9. Diversification is important. Individuals can consider stocks, bonds and real estate investment trusts that offer regular payouts and provide a passive flow of funds. Start saving and investing early to enjoy compounding returns, and consider locking in yields on fixed-income assets ahead of further interest rate cuts. Another suggestion is to expand your horizon outside of your domestic market, so that your portfolio can be more diversified and withstand different cycles and shocks better.

Even with careful planning and investing, it can all too easy for things beyond your control to make you question you finances again. However, rather than giving in to feelings of hopelessness, do the best you can, stop checking your banking and investing apps past midnight, and get a good night’s sleep.

Join my teammates and I at our next webinar, “The Lifetime Income Streams”, on Tuesday 22nd Oct 2024 at 8pm.

We will share simple investing tips to help you create monthly income that can last you for the rest of your life without constantly having to worry about money. You will feel more confident in managing your money matters as most of our attendees can testify.

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