Will You Try or Will You Do it With Confidence? By Javnyuy Joybert

One of my friends in Buea was seriously #crushing on this lady who was working in a school as one of the administrators. He shared with us during a hangout how he feels anytime he thinks or sees the lady. 

Then we encouraged him to step-up and tell the lady how he feels. Then he said "I will try" 

I said to him "You have already failed, if you tarry and not tell her how you feel, very soon you will see her holding hands with the guy who boldly stepped forward made his feelings known"

Forget all this grammer I am writing here, telling a girl how you feel requires the same courage when it comes to starting a business. 

"I will try means I will fail" As a leader, executive I am sure you have heard this reply from an employee, colleague or a friend after asking them to execute a task. 

This is one of the most horrible sentences to use in any professional setting "I will try".

When anyone uses this sentence the perception you are communicating is self doubt, you don't trust yourself, lack of competence, you cannot be trusted to execute a task and you will not meet expectations. 

People who use this sentence often find it difficult to move forward or make tough life changing decisions. People with "I will try" syndrome turn down challenges & growth opportunities in their careers or personal life because they are scared. Check your life!

 Self-doubt can hurt you both personally & professionally, making you feel inadequate, which makes you use sentences like "I will try". 

Why should you have "I will try" in your vocabulary especially in the Professional world. It controls your mind not to do the things you need to do, you are scared to do new activities, & lose the motivation to perform. It prompts defensive actions to avoid failure that can limit your growth & change in career. 

What should you do to avoid using "I will try"? 

Make the decision to accept tasks with confidence and believe in your self-worth. Examine the area in your life where you use a lot of "I will try" and get more training to improve your competence, surround yourself with people who don't try but execute tasks with confidence.

Trust yourself, use what you have inside to create. With the right attitude and skill you can achieve any goal. We all have a choice; to either believe in ourselves or allow ourselves to be sucked into self-pity and feelings of self-doubt.

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