Your Partner Wants To End Your Relationship

The first stage of a relationship, also known as the intimacy stage or the romance stage, is when a couple is in puppy love. During the honeymoon period, a person will only see the good in their partner. Their infatuation will blind them to any and all of their partner’s flaws. They will spend a lot of quality time together as their relationship grows more and more intimate.

During the second stage of the relationship, known as the power struggle stage, the relationship will stop feeling like a fantasy. The couple will start to doubt one another as the reality of their situation sets in.

 They will get frustrated with each other. They will bicker with each other. They will start to wonder whether they are in the wrong relationship because they will notice more of their partner’s flaws as the relationship progresses. Their gut reaction will be to withdraw or break up —

The third stage of the relationship, known as the crisis stage, is when most couples break up because they cannot sweep their problems under the rug anymore. The issues between them are obvious.

They can no longer keep quiet about their complaints, so their arguments are on the rise. They are fighting more than they ever have in the past. Although the sudden change in dynamic might make them feel like the relationship is over, they should keep in mind arguments are a normal part of a healthy relationship.

At the fourth stage in the relationship, also known as the working stage, the couple will feel pretty stable. There won’t be any big problems or arguments. However, they will also start to grow restless and bored.

They will wonder whether they have chosen the right partner or whether someone better is out there waiting for them. This is the moment when they must decide whether they want to remain in a relationship and spend the rest of their lives together.

Only couples in a serious, long term relationship will make it to the final stage, which is the healthiest stage of all. At this point, the couple will feel completely comfortable with each other. They will have fun with each other.

They will consider each other best friends. This final stage is the point where couples consider marriage and children.

They start to plan out their futures together.

They are excited to see what tomorrow holds.

They no longer yearn for the honeymoon period from their past because they’ve found something even better. Couples who reach this stage have discovered timeless, lasting love.

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Thank  you ……Phone calls get less frequent and shorter. The types of conversations you engage in are less meaningful and have the feel of an obligation to talk more than an authentic desire.

Plans to do things together become more like ‘maybes’ than those things you used to get excited about. Then, before you know it, you don't even know what is going on with your partner.

 Distance breeds distance and eventually communication becomes non-existent. Before that happens, break things off.

When a person stops having the time or desire to be with you, then you know that your relationship is on life support system, and that you might just have to be the one who has the guts to pull the plug

It feels awful to have someone hanging around now and then who isn't really available and is always looking for an out. If you keep hearing how he or she is too busy with work, family, friends and other obligations to spend time with you," that sucks, and if they're adding, 'we'll get together soon,' they're just giving you lip service

And while the good news is that nine times out of 10, this scenario is just you having an insecure week, or your partner having an extra stressful work of week, or possibly the two combined, with a sour cherry on top in the form of some sort of recent big fight or other drama — sometimes, when things feel off, they are legit off and it's time to give your relationship some serious attention.

And be real about why you're peeking out. "Let them know that you'll be moving on, and if you should still be available when their life lightens up, then you might give this thing another try," she says. But whatever you do, don't just sit there.

 Keep in mind, that when someone is really into you, they put you on the top of the list, and make time for you. Nothing stands in the way: They'd walk five miles through a snowstorm to see you, because that's how much they miss you. If that's just not happening, that's OK — find someone who does feel that way about you.

They might be sitting next to you, but that's about where the closeness ends. The most telling clue that the person your with is on the verge of ending your relationship is distance Not proximity distance, but the emotional kind.

Want to add word or two?

Like, ever. A healthy relationship is all about helping each other talk through days both hard and good. Lack of interest in what is going on with you is a big sign that someone is about to end a relationship.

 If all of the sudden the person you are in a relationship with stops caring about what's going on at your work, or things that you enjoy doing, then a flag might be raised It's important to just discuss one another's lives, and if that's not happening, it could be a sign.

Interest in each other is one thing that makes relationships special, and when a person stops taking interest in what you are doing and stops sharing what they are doing, the relationship could be headed south.

Your comment ….? 

When you dread spending time with them, that's a gut feeling of something being totally off, You are constantly wondering if they are going to break up with you. Well, spare them the trouble and bring it up.

When things are in this state, and it seems like your partner is doing things just to spite you, either you're over it, or they are.

So maybe you do go out, but your partner is pulling some weird "limited quality time" stuff on you .If your partner is limiting the time you two spend together alone and only tries to schedule group outings, chances are they are trying to phase the relationship out.

Lack of physical contact and sex is another big indicator. Don't just ignore these signs — talk about it before things get worse.