The "Your Why" Entry

If you ever started something with excitement, only to abandon it down the line and wonder why you even started in the first place, then you will relate to this entry.

Hello everyone!

Happy new week! I hope we all had an amazing past week.

This past week, I found myself reminiscing over my writing journey.

I’ve been writing as long as I can remember, but for years, I kept it all to myself. It wasn’t that I feared people wouldn’t like what I wrote, I was afraid they would see too much of me in it. I was very shy, and I did not want to feel exposed. Being vulnerable felt risky, a risk I was not ready for at the time.

Then, in 2020, I decided it was time to share my writing with others. I knew the passion was there; I just had to let it out. I opened a separate Instagram account and started posting my work.

For a while, things were going well. But somewhere along the line, my motivation began to fizzle.

The Spirit and the flesh were willing, but one key thing was missing: I had not thought deeply about why I was sharing my work. Without a clear purpose, my excitement fizzled out. Eventually, I stopped writing, deactivated the account, and later deleted it completely, along with all the work I had put into it.

That experience taught me a powerful lesson about purpose.

When I started The Growth Journal and my podcast, I decided to do things differently. I sat down and wrote out my reasons for starting them. I wanted to inspire others, create a space for personal growth, and encourage people to connect with themselves and their journeys. Having that purpose in writing became my anchor. Now, even on days when I feel tired or uninspired, it is impossible to lose sight of why I am doing this.

When you start something new, it is easy to be lost in the excitement.

But before rushing in, take a moment to ask yourself why you are doing it. It does not have to be for anyone else; your reason can be personal. But defining it will make a difference.

Having a purpose that resonates with you helps you stay grounded. It gives you something to look back on when things get challenging or when you are questioning whether it’s worth it.

In fact, writing down your “why” can be a powerful reminder. Place it somewhere you will see often, and let it remind you of the bigger picture. Life can get busy, and doubts might creep in, but when you revisit your purpose, it can help you refocus. This simple act can be a steady guide, especially when you start losing steam or distractions get in the way.

Purpose also gives you the consistency that passion alone cannot. Passion can be intense and exhilarating, but it’s often short-lived. Purpose, on the other hand, stays with you. It’s like an anchor that supports you even when motivation runs low. If you rely only on bursts of energy, you’ll likely burn out quickly. But when your purpose is your guide, you’re more likely to stay committed.

There will be times when you wonder if any of it matters, when you might be tempted like me to delete everything and disappear, when you question if your efforts are worth it or if your goals make sense. In those moments, your purpose can ground you. It’s that steady reminder of why you started and who you’re striving to become. Purpose can lift you up and push you forward, even when things feel uncertain.

Your reason for doing something does not have to be set in stone. Purpose can evolve over time as you grow and learn.

Revisit it every now and then. You are allowed to change with the seasons of your life. You can refine your purpose if you need to.

If it still feels right, let it strengthen your commitment. And if it no longer fits, don’t hesitate to adjust it. Purpose is flexible, and it should move and change with you.

Having a reason for your goals isn’t just a nice idea; it’s what turns a momentary interest into a lasting journey. It’s what helps you keep going, even when the road gets tough. If you’re struggling to stay motivated or feel like giving up, take a step back and ask yourself: Why did I start this? Your “why” will keep you focused and grounded, no matter what comes your way.

If you have not found your reason, it’s never too late. Start now. Reflect on what you want to achieve and, more importantly, why you want it. That reason, once discovered, will be what keeps you going through anything.

Write out your "why" and let it guide you.

BOOK I AM READING THIS WEEK: Giants of Enterprise: Seven Business Innovators and the Empires They Built by Richard S. Tedlow

I wish you the best week!

See you next Sunday!

Your trust growth partner,

Dee❤