Is your work aligned with your purpose?

I remember a time when I first asked myself this question.

I had been staring at the same growing excel farm, for weeks, which became months. I was working on an asset information management project, and helping to align numerous disparate engineering standards, and as word grew of the project, more units and plant areas were added to my pile. It was challenging, it required knowledge of engineering and IT, and the work that I was producing would feed a program and help create the algorithm that would sort, annotate and verify hundreds of thousands of tags. I was well paid for this work. And I hated it.

It was perhaps some of the more challenging work I’ve done, and as deadlines loomed, I was putting in tons of hours too. My invoices should have made me happy. Or so I thought.

This work was well suited to me, working on a tough problem, that no one else would/could take on (others had tried), using a ton of my past knowledge and experience. Yet I got no joy or fulfillment from it at all. It wasn’t that staring at a screen, or even excel bugged me. I did that anyway, on every project. I’m made for office work and I love my computers.

But, still, this project felt like it sucked the life out of me. It was that I wasn’t creating something that I felt really mattered, and it took a huge amount of emotional effort as well as intellectual energy, to get it done.

Now, I see this phenomenon everywhere. People who are still performing, and might be producing good results, but somehow, they’re getting worn down at an alarming rate as they do. It’s what happens when your preferences and your highest skills are out of alignment.

Do you feel this way about your work? Or have you? Have you ever received a promotion or a challenge, to realize that you left behind what you really enjoyed?

When was the happiest you’ve ever been at work? What exactly were you doing? Do you like being in the field, or working on a hard problem in a quiet space? Do you enjoy giving presentations or being in front of clients? Do you enjoy writing or designing? Do you enjoy collaborating with others and problem solving? Or do you enjoy learning, or supporting others?

The best leaders I’ve ever worked for, work very hard to understand these preferences in their people, because they know, that when their employees and contractors are operating in their zone, they perform at a far higher level. It’s not just about doing what’s fun, it’s about doing what’s fulfilling, and what fulfills people varies from person to person.

I know people that feel most fulfilled when they know they’ve helped others. I know people who live to make sales and connect with their clientele. I know people who make excel sing and can do it with their eyes closed. When your work uses both your areas of preference and your highest skills, you’ll feel like you’re in flow and the hardest work feels easy. You’re not wasting valuable energy to just get yourself motivated, and you won’t get pulled off task as often. You’ll wake up thinking about the next thing you need to do, and you might have solved some challenge you were stuck on, while you were driving into the office or having your coffee.

The exercise to help you hone in on the best work for you, is relatively straightforward.

1.     Make a list of your preferences. Do you like to work inside or outside? With a team or on your own? Keep adding to this list as much as you can.

 2.     List your highest skills. What can you do that few others can? What’s in your skillset that’s most in demand? What on your resume is the thing that gets you hired/promoted?

 3.     Draw the line between these. Which of your skills aligns best with your preferences?

Do you like to work alone, but you’re in sales, that position might make you more money and get you more recognition, but it also might make you miserable. If you’re also a designer however, that will likely fit you much better. If you enjoy helping others and supporting well defined projects, leadership might stress you out.

All of this sounds so simple that we shouldn’t be confused as to the kind of work we should be doing. But, from my own experience of running my consultant cooperative, I’ve learned that nearly everyone has found themselves in work that doesn’t align with their preferences, and even less aligned with their purpose in life.

If you read my first article of the year, it wasn’t an easy road to find my path, but I’m here to help you if you’re having trouble finding yours.

Finding yourself is a life long and challenging activity. It’s taken you a lifetime to become who you are today. Distilling your truest self, involves a trip into your past. Once you find yourself, your mission becomes more apparent, and then it’s time to find the team that can help you achieve it.

 If you’re serious about finding your mission in life, check out this article about having a conversation with your inner child, and I’m here for a chat if you have any questions.

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