You’re not asking for too much; you might just be asking the wrong person.

I often get hurt because the person I was asking gets upset, and irritated and feels he couldn't live his life with me.

I often asked myself if I was asking for too much and being demanding. Then I realized this: maybe I am not asking for too much. I am asking the wrong person.

I did not just stop asking, the things that used to hurt me aren't hurting me anymore.

The things I was seeking, and wanted from the other person, I'm trying to give it to myself now. I'm still trying to be comfortable in my skin.

Sometimes I still feel sad and lonely. It's okay though. It feels better knowing I no longer depend on someone anymore.

It was a picture-perfect relationship. It was a long-distance relationship as we were in different cities.

He was a very kind, supportive, and funny guy. I liked these qualities.

On the other hand, I was also very understanding and was not like most of the women who require high maintenance but he took advantage of this quality.

His family knew about us and they were very supportive.

Everything was fine until the day on which his brother's marriage was fixed. During the arrangement of marriage he totally ignored me.

Then suddenly out of nowhere, he called me after the wedding was over.

Asked about me, how is my life going, etc. But all these questions were very different. Even his tone was different. It was very harsh. He talked with me for 2–3 min and hung up the phone.

As I was also tired  I fell asleep. The next day he was whole day online but didn't message me once.  this scenario continues for one week.

At last I asked him what is he doing. He answered frustratingly.

After this, I observed weird changes in his behavior towards me.

He was always online. Never called me. I was such a fool that instead of avoiding him I started begging him to talk with me, to message me.

Being a future doctor we are taught never to lower our self-esteem. But it hardly mattered to me. I was so much into him. And he kept me ignoring constantly.

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 Thank you ….This relationship taught me the harsh realities of life physical beauty is valued.

Fake people are loved more.

Partiality is core in every place.

No one thinks it's good for you except your parents. I repeat, no one!

Very few friends are happy with your success. Most of your bffs leave you. “No forever!”

Most of the present relationships have no future. They are made to break up one day.

Everyone has feelings that are hard to hide but difficult to express. People will call you “cheap” if you do fashion and “behenji” if you are simple. You can no way make people stop saying bullshits.

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We are getting addicted to the internet day by day!

 Most of the students are even today forced to pursue engineering and medicine.

Marriages are not always happy. All relatives don't think of your goodwill.

90% of people you meet in life, backstab you. We waste most of our time in jealousy.

You can get a good education only if you are financially stable.

The life of a divorcee is too tough. Not for work but for the taunts they get to hear daily.

People read your answer till the last point but don't upvote.

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People mostly judge a book by its cover.

Physical beauty is valued more than inner beauty.

 People will leave you. No matter what. So, get comfortable in living alone.  Family is the most important part of your life. Parents will never leave you no matter what.

When you have to beg someone to be in a relationship, you have already lost it.

People are mean and selfish. Not all but most of them. Learn to distinguish.

 Career is very important. We are not responsible for our complexion. But we are responsible for our careers. So, try to change the things that are in your hands and accept the things that you can’t.

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