Poolside convo about your summer last night (Ooh, yeah)
About your summer last night
Ain't give you no play, mm
Could I make you shive last night?
Could I make you shy on the last night? (Last night)
Could we make it in? Do we have time?
[Verse 1: Frank Ocean]
I'll be the boyfriend in your wet dreams tonight
Noses on a rail, little virgin wears the white
You cut your hair, but you used to live a blonded life
Wish I was there, wish we'd grown up on the same advice
And our time was right
[Chorus: Austin Feinstein]
Keep a place for me, for me
I'll sleep between y'all, it's nothing
It's nothing, it's nothing
Keep a place for me, for me
[Verse 2: Frank Ocean]
Now and then, you miss it, sounds make you cry
Some nights, you dance with tears in your eyes
I came to visit 'cause you see me like a UFO
That's like never, 'cause I made you use your self-control
And you made me lose my self-control, my self-control
Keep a place for me, for me
I'll sleep between y'all, it's nothing
Keep a place for me
It's nothing, it's nothing
It's nothing, it's nothing
[Bridge: Frank Ocean]
Sometimes, you'll miss it
And the sound will make you cry
And some nights, you're dancing
With tears in your eyes
[Outro: Frank Ocean]
I, I, I know you gotta leave, leave, leave
Take down some summertime
Give up, just tonight, 'night, 'night
I, I, I know you got someone comin'
You're spittin' game, know you got it
I, I, I know you gotta leave, leave, leave
Take down some summertime
Give up, just tonight, 'night, 'night
I, I, I know you got someone comin'
You're spittin' game, know you got it (Yeah)
I, I, I know you gotta leave, leave, leave
Take down some summertime
Give up, just tonight, 'night, 'night
I, I, I know you got someone comin'
You're spittin' game, know you got it
About
“Self Control” is a slow ballad that features Frank Ocean describing a relationship that is slowly falling apart. Throughout the song, Ocean hints the reason their relationship fell apart was because the other person was too immature. The song’s theme of self-control creates a tragic contrast to the control Ocean is unable to exert over his situation, illustrating a tension between self-control and external control.
The intro features a high-pitched vocal effect Ocean uses throughout the album. The squeaky voice suggests Ocean is reminiscing about events that happened in his youth.
Austin Feinstein, of the indie band Slow Hollows, and Yung Lean sing the choruses. Feinstein sings the first alone, with Yung Lean joining him on the second.
During all of Ocean’s 2017 live shows, he performed an extended introduction to “Self Control” titled “Poolside Convo,” where he describes the poolside conversation between himself and his significant mentioned in the first line.
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That was written about someone who I was actually in a relationship with, who wasn’t an unrequited situation,” he said. “It was mutual, it was just we couldn’t really relate. We weren’t really on the same wavelength.
Austin Feinstein and Yung Lean sing the choruses; Feinstein sings the first alone, with Lean joining him on the second.
At some point before the release of Blonde in August 2016, Frank Ocean commissioned London-based type designer Kia Tasbihgou to create artwork for a series of singles, including the songs “Nikes,” “White Ferrari,” “Ivy,” “Nights,” “Self Control,” and “Both Sides” (likely an early name for “Chanel,” released in March 2017, after the release of Blonde). The covers include a catalog number in the top-right corner with the suffix “BDC” (or Boys Don’t Cry, an early name of what became Blonde and the title of Ocean’s magazine, released in companion with the album). Ultimately, “Nikes” was the album’s only single, released as a music video (without Tasbihgou’s artwork). Tasbihgou shared the unused covers on Instagram in March 2017.
S5–BDC, “Self Control,” features an abstract design that depicts the title falling into a rectangle with cutouts of abstract shapes; the descending letters almost disappear into the void below, losing their identity.
- 1.Nikes
- 2.Ivy
- 3.Pink + White
- 4.Be Yourself
- 5.Solo
- 6.Skyline To
- 7.Self Control
- 8.Good Guy
- 9.Nights
- 10.Solo (Reprise)
- 11.Pretty Sweet
- 12.Facebook Story
- 13.Close to You
- 14.White Ferrari
- 15.Seigfried
- 16.Godspeed
- 17.Futura Free