Mums In Need

We're thrilled to announce that Keepit, a leading provider of vendor-independent cloud backup and data recovery solutions, has joined the MIN family as a valued partner! Keepit offers top-tier protection for your SaaS applications like Microsoft 365, Entra ID, Salesforce, and Google Workspace. Their all-inclusive, secure, and reliable services ensure your data is always safe and accessible. As a partner, Keepit is generously providing robust backup and security for our entire Google Workspace, safeguarding our critical operations. A very warm welcome to Keepit 🙌 Learn more about our MIN Family here: https://lnkd.in/enP_SbGd Interested in joining our MIN Family? Email enquiries@mumsinneed.com for a no obligation chat! #WelcomeKeepit #JoinTheMINFamily #SupportMumsInNeed #ConfrontCoerciveControl

Mums In Need is seeking donations of laptops with 15-16 inch screens to support our hardworking staff team. Many of our current laptops are reaching the end of their lifespan and can no longer support Windows 11, making upgrades impossible. Laptops like the HP 255 G9 or G7 have proven to be reliable for a fortunate few on our team, so similar models would be especially appreciated. (See the picture below for reference!) Your generous donation will directly help our team to continue their critical behind-the-scenes work, supporting women navigating the challenges of post-separation abuse. If you or your business have a laptop to donate, please don’t hesitate to email us at enquiries@mumsinneed.com – we’d love to hear from you! Thank you so much for your support 💜🙏 #SupportMumsInNeed #DonateLaptops #TechForGood #PostSeparationAbuse

“I went to the police, but other than giving me a reference number, they didn’t take the matter further” This is another experience of one of our mums. Her experience is a stark reminder that the legal system doesn't always understand the complexities of coercive control. Despite reporting the abuse, she felt unheard and unsupported. At Mums In Need, we recognise the signs of coercive control and are committed to providing expert guidance and support to our mums. Your £10 donation can help us provide legal support to mums in need. Together, we can ensure that no woman faces this ordeal alone. https://lnkd.in/eScm3ZD9 #MumsInNeed #DomesticViolence #CoerciveControl

A huge thank you to La Luna Social Club for their generous donation of £756 to Mums In Need! 💜 We are incredibly grateful for your support. This contribution will help us provide vital services such as 1:1 counselling, legal support, and wellbeing sessions, all crucial for helping women recover from the effects of post-separation abuse.💪 Thank you for making a difference! 🙏 #ThankYou #CommunitySupport #MumsInNeed #ConfrontingCoerciveControl

🎉 Happy New Year to all of our amazing followers and supporters! 🎉 If you're kicking off the year with a new resolution and need some motivation, why not consider fundraising for Mums In Need? 💪 Help us reach our goal of £30,000 to support mums and their children facing post-separation abuse. Together, we can make a world of difference for these brave women. 💜 Choose your adventure: ♀️➡️ Move for MIN: Organize a walk, run, or cycle event. ❓ Host a Murder Mystery Night: Plan a thrilling night with friends and family. 🍰Bake for MIN: Whip up delicious treats and sell them for a cause. 🎯Host a 100 Club EXPRESS: A quick and easy way to raise funds. See how your contribution makes a difference in Siobhan's story: Hear from Siobhan, a woman we've helped: "It is hard to remain grounded when communicating with my ex as he is very triggering, but talking things through with my caseworker helps to keep my language less emotional, so I am not playing into his tactics." Become a fundraiser and receive: ➡️A free Mums In Need t-shirt ➡️A feature on our website ➡️A social media shout-out! Email enquiries@mumsinneed.com Donate or start your fundraiser today:https://lnkd.in/eScm3ZD9 You can also check our website for more fundraising ideas! https://lnkd.in/eEVqb2ZP Let's work together to empower mums facing post-separation abuse! We thank you for your support. #DomesticAbuseAwareness #SupportSurvivors #Fundraising #CommunitySupport #PostSeparationAbuse #ConfrontingCoerciveControl

A Look Back at an Incredible Year with Mums In Need. 🎇 In 2024, Mums In Need’s commitment to combating post-separation abuse shone brighter than ever. It has been a year of remarkable growth, resilience, and impact, and we’re delighted to share some of our highlights with you! ✨Empowering Over 100 Families✨ We’ve provided comprehensive support packages to more than 100 women and their children, helping them rebuild their lives after abuse. ✨A Growing Team✨ Our team grew stronger with the addition of an Administrator, a Casework Coordinator, three dedicated volunteers, a new Trustee, four Patrons, and two Ambassadors. We’ve also connected with even more incredible supporters of our cause. ✨Building Partnerships✨ We developed fantastic new partnerships that enhance the support we can provide, and we’re excited to expand these collaborations in 2025. ✨Bespoke Training for Professionals✨ We’ve designed specialised training programs for professionals who work with abuse survivors. These programs will officially launch in 2025, helping to provide even better care for mums in need. ✨First-Ever AGM✨ A significant milestone—our very first Annual General Meeting was a huge success! ✨Attending 21 Events✨ This year, we’ve participated in more events than ever, raising awareness and sharing our mission with a wider audience. And that’s not all—we’ve also attended countless networking events, building connections to strengthen our cause even further. These are just a few of the incredible accomplishments we’ve achieved in 2024, and we’re looking forward to making an even greater impact in 2025. A massive thank you to everyone who has supported us—whether by joining the team, partnering with us, donating, fundraising, sharing our posts, or simply having conversations about post-separation abuse. We couldn’t have done it without you. Wishing you all a Happy New Year! – The Mums In Need Team 💜

“Finally.” That was the response from some of the mums we work with to the news of greater transparency being applied to family court proceedings. Following a pilot scheme that operated in around half of family courts in England and Wales, transparency will be rolled out across courts starting from January 2025. Whilst protecting privacy, especially of children, is of course imperative, the secrecy of family court proceedings has often ramped up stress on parents. Crucially, the lack of reporting on family courts has also meant that judgements and decisions could go unchecked. A BBC News article references the case of a young mother in Cardiff spending tens of thousands of pounds to protect her young daughter from her ex-husband who was a convicted paedophile. Lifting reporting restrictions has also enabled judges’ comments to be heard, including a woman who’d suffered coercive control being told “It’s not like you were beaten.” Unfortunately, such shocking comments don’t surprise us at Mums In Need. We work with mums who are suffering post-separation abuse. This is abuse that happens after the relationship has ended. When an abuser wants to retain control of an ex-partner, the family courts can be used as a tool to perpetuate that abuse. (Children and finances are often the only ways abusers have left to control ex-partners.) We see every day how women have been silenced, often first by an abuser and then again by the system they hope will protect them. Greater transparency in family court proceedings was a recommendation from the Government’s Domestic Abuse Commissioner for England and Wales in 2023. She also acknowledged that the family court system ‘retraumatises domestic abuse victims’. Of course, we do have concerns that abusers could use this freedom to accentuate their abuse. There’s a balance to be struck and it will take time to see how this works out. Yet we hope that by having more voices heard, and those who’ve suffered post-separation abuse listened to, the family courts can take steps to better support survivors and prevent family courts from being a tool for abusers. You can read the BBC News article here: https://lnkd.in/gxx4AwDN If want to learn more about Mums In Need, or would like to know how you can help Mums In Need, take a look here: www.mumsinneed.com/ REF https://lnkd.in/ek8xhhsN

🎄 A Polite Reminder: 🎄 After Mums In Need closes today, 24th December 2024, we will remain closed until the New Year. We will reopen as usual on Thursday 2nd January 2025. Wishing all of our service users, supporters, and followers a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year! 🎉✨ See you in 2025. 💜 #MumsInNeed #ChristmasBreak #HappyNewYear #ThankYou #SeeYouIn2025

The scars of post-separation abuse can be deep—emotional, financial, and physical. But please know, you are not alone. Healing is possible with the right support. At Mums In Need, we are dedicated to empowering mums in Sheffield and the surrounding areas to overcome the lasting effects of post-separation abuse. We offer one-on-one casework support, legal guidance, counselling, and wellbeing resources to help you rebuild your life and regain control. While our services are currently at full capacity and our waiting list is closed, we understand how important it is to continue providing support. We have resources and helpful information available on our website to guide you through this difficult journey in the meantime: https://lnkd.in/eFcjXAKh Our long-term goal is to expand our services—not only within our local community, but across the UK. To do this, we need your help. Join us in our campaign to raise £30,000, which will enable us to hire an additional caseworker. With your support, we can reach more women, provide them with the guidance they deserve, and equip them with the tools to heal and rebuild their lives. You can make a difference by donating, fundraising, or simply sharing our message. Together, we can help empower more mums on their journey to recovery. https://lnkd.in/eScm3ZD9

If you're a fan of Emmerdale, you’ve watched Tom and Belle’s abusive relationship unfold, and yesterday’s episode delivered a powerful message about post-separation abuse. Tom King’s conviction isn’t just a victory for Belle Dingle—it’s a stark reminder of how coercive control and manipulation can escalate after a relationship ends. Tom’s behaviour , from tracking Belle’s movements to trying to destroy evidence of his abuse, highlights the insidious nature of post-separation abuse. This form of abuse—often overlooked and underreported—continues after a breakup, as abusers use tactics like surveillance, stalking, and financial control to maintain power. Tom’s use of cameras and trackers disguised as "security" illustrates just how far some will go to control their victims, even after the relationship is over. Belle’s courageous testimony in court shed light on the psychological toll of coercive control, challenging Tom’s lies and showing the emotional scars that are often harder to see but just as damaging as physical abuse. The jury's internal conflict mirrored the confusion many victims face, as emotional and psychological abuse can be complex and difficult to understand. One of the most impactful moments of the storyline was a flashback that showcased real-life stories of women who’ve experienced similar abuse. This powerful narrative gave a voice to those whose struggles are often silenced. The emotional cost of living under constant surveillance and manipulation is all too real for many survivors. Tom’s three-year prison sentence is significant, but the real victory is in Belle’s ongoing journey toward healing. Her decision to attend a support group for survivors shows the importance of community and connection in recovery. Healing doesn’t happen in isolation—it happens through understanding and shared strength. This storyline also underscores how society and the legal system often fail to fully recognise the extent of post-separation abuse. By shining a light on this issue, Emmerdale sparks a much-needed conversation about what abuse truly looks like, encouraging more support for victims. While this story line is fiction, Tom’s conviction is a reminder that post-separation abuse is real, pervasive, and can continue to cause harm long after a relationship ends. For anyone who has experienced coercive control or emotional manipulation, Belle’s story is a beacon of hope. Hopefully it will inspire others to speak out, expose the truth, and reclaim one’s strength. Well done Emmerdale for shining a light on post-separation abuse.🙌 Read about it here: https://lnkd.in/ezyPvg7N