When is confident too confident? Leland Sklar gets the balance just right (https://lnkd.in/eUTXD-bz).
One of the first stories we share on our middle leader course is this one:
One study of doctors showed that they were entirely confident of a particular diagnosis. They were actually wrong 40% of the time. In another survey, 87% decided they would be the most likely to get into Heaven when compared to Michael Jordan and Mother Teresa.
Decision-making is closer to madness than logic.
No matter how thought-through you think your ideas might be, in general, humans are over-confident, emotional and irrational.
They expect that the decisions they make are the right ones, every time. They have great confidence that their view on your idea is the right one.
Leaders would be better equipped if they entered every conversation about a new idea assuming they are probably wrong, because then:
You’re listening, not selling.
You’re looking for ideas, not seeing them as a distraction from your goal.
You’re looking for a ‘no’, not a ‘yes’.
You want to build something together rather than pushing your idea on everyone else.
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Of course, in some instances, you’ll be right first time around. Legendary session guitarist Leland Sklar knows what he’s doing.
James Taylor, Jackson Browne, Carole King, Phil Collins, Linda Rondstadt, Lyle Lovett, Dolly Parton and so many other greats in so many different genres have wanted him on their albums and their tours. They all agree: he knows what he’s doing.
But Sklar got fed up with producers behind the studio glass who didn’t like the way he played on the tracks they were recording.
So he went home one day and drilled a hole in his guitar. And he inserted the Producer Switch.
It’s connected to nothing, it does nothing.
But when a producer now asks for a little more brightness, or a bit more grunge, Sklar launches into action. He makes sure the producer sees him move his hand to the switch, make a change, adjust his hands a little and he then plays again. And the producer will always love the ‘new’ sound:
That kind of confidence comes from practice over his 77 years.
But you can gain that same confidence quicker by using the frameworks and developing the skills that others have spent the time working out.
That’s what Leading from the Middle does for aspiring and current middle leaders, and their bosses.
There’s only one cohort for 2025, at noon UK time every day.
We’re going to get you to the stage of having confidence backed up with knowledge and skills faster than doing it on your own.
On you go. See you there.
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