21 Best Sex Toys for Women (and Anyone, Really)

Type: rabbit/thrusting vibrator | Material: body-safe silicone | Modes: 10 vibration settings, 5 thrusting rotating modes | Waterproof: yes | Battery: not specified | Lube compatibility: water-based lube

Best Clitoral Stimulator: LELO Sona 2 Cruise

Why we love it: In the world of sex toys, LELO is synonymous with luxury, and the Sona 2 Cruise, in particular, is a must-have. (For one, Allure editors have highlighted it as one of the best clit vibrators currently available.) This external vibrator uses sonic pulses across 12 intensity levels—all of which are controlled via an easy, three-button interface—that’ll have you blasting off in 3, 2, 1…It's also 100% waterproof so you can use it in the shower or bathtub to unwind after a long day.

Editor's tip: The Sona 2 Cruise has a unique "Cruise Control" feature that unleashes a little more power when you press it against your body with increased pressure, which ideally happens when you're nearing orgasm.

Type: suction vibrator | Material: body-safe silicone | Modes: 12 vibration settings | Waterproof: yes | Battery: 2 hours | Lube compatibility: water-based lube

Best Suction Vibrator: Womanizer X Lovehoney Pro40 Rechargeable Clitoral Stimulator

Why we love it: This sleek toy is designed to simulate the feeling of oral sex, so make sure you add a small splash of water-based lube to fully enjoy the Womanizer X Lovehoney Pro40 Rechargeable Clitoral Stimulator. While your partner's jaw will eventually tire, this suction vibrator can go for hours. Four hours, to be precise. This clitoral vibrator operates using "Pleasure Air Technology," which involves sending focused air pulses toward the clit to stimulate the nerve endings without actually touching them. In the words of Lady Gaga, "Amazing, talented, never the same, totally unique."

Editor's tip: This can be used for masturbation (obviously) but the design also makes it easy to use during partnered sex.

Type: suction vibrator | Material: body-safe silicone | Modes: 6 intensity settings | Waterproof: yes | Battery: 4 hours | Lube compatibility: water-based lube

Best Hands-Free Vibrator: Tracy's Dog OG Pro 2 Clitoral Sucking Vibrator

Why we love it: Much like a rabbit vibrator, Tracy's Dog OG Pro 2 Clitoral Sucking Vibrator is designed to provide internal and external stimulation. But unlike your standard rabbit vibrator, this toy has a clit-sucking feature that leads to incredible, leg-shaking orgasms. This vibrator can also be hands-free: Once you've got it where you want it, there's no need to hold it in place. If you want to change things up, it also comes with a remote so you can switch settings without pausing the show (or any intermissions?).

Editor's tip: You can also use the two features (G-spot vibrations and clit suction) individually rather than simultaneously. It's kind of like having three vibrators in one.

Type: clitoral/suction/G-spot vibrator | Material: body-safe silicone | Modes: 10 intensity settings | Waterproof: water-resistant | Battery: 50 minutes | Lube compatibility: water-based lube

Best Panty Vibrator: Satisfyer Sexy Secret Panty Vibrator

Why we love it: Panty vibrators are a fun way to spice up foreplay or solo play, and Satisfyer’s Sexy Secret Panty Vibrator has the added benefit of being app-accessible, so there’s no remote required. Since it’s Bluetooth-connectable, your partner can control it from anywhere in the world—perfect for LDR couples. If you prefer to unplug from your phone during your play time, eight pre-set vibration modes provide ample experimentation.

Editor's tip: Though it has app-free settings, this toy doesn’t come with a remote control. Simply click its teensy button to flip through all of the toe-curling vibrations.

Type: panty vibrator | Material: ABS plastic, body-safe silicone | Modes: unlimited via app; 8 pre-set vibration modes | Waterproof: yes | Battery: 2 hours | Lube compatibility: water-based lube

Best Sex-Cessory: Crave Vesper Vibrator Necklace

Why we love it: Sexual wellness disguised as fashion? We’re fans of the Crave Vesper 2 Vibrator Necklace, naturally. This souped-up version has a similar design to its predecessor—a slender pendant that can be worn around the neck—but an upgraded motor features the new addition of a wave vibration pattern. Unlike the original, the Vesper 2 is totally waterproof, so feel free to splash around in the tub with it. As a statement necklace, it’s available in three different finishes: rose gold, black, and for those with a fetish for finer things, 24-karat gold.

Editor's tip: Though it has a sleek, long build that may be tempting to insert, this toy is designed for external use only. But you can use it to massage the outer opening of your vagina or anus.

Type: external vibrator | Material: stainless steel (rose gold and black), 24-karat gold (gold) | Modes: 4 | Waterproof: yes | Battery: 40 minutes | Lube compatibility: water or oil-based lubes

Best Sex Tech: Lioness Smart Vibrator

Why we love it: Many sex toys have app-accessible vibration features, but Lioness’s Smart Vibrator stands out with its orgasm-tracking technology. Sync this rabbit vibrator to your phone via the Bluetooth-accessible Lioness app and get down to business as the app tracks your pelvic floor contractions via biofeedback sensors located along the toy. It basically creates a second-by-second orgasm log so you can track what’s getting you off.

Editor's tip: Even when you aren’t connected to the app, the Lioness can still track your orgasms offline.

Type: rabbit vibrator | Material: body-safe silicone, BPA-free plastic, stainless steel | Modes: unlimited via app, 6 pre-set vibration modes | Waterproof: water-resistant, do not submerge | Battery: 2 hours | Lube compatibility: water-based lube

Best Semi-Insertable: Iroha Yuki

Why we love it: Dipping your toes into penetration? Ease your way in with Iroha’s Yuki, which has a small bulbous nub that massages the opening of your vagina with three pleasurable vibration speeds and two patterns. Feel free to experiment with its placement and try it on your clit—even if you can’t keep silent, you can be assured the vibrations will be throughout.

Editor's tip: Since it has a large base, you can also use the Yuki to stimulate your perianal area.

Type: semi-insertable vibrator | Material: body-safe silicone | Modes: 3 vibration speeds, 2 vibration patterns | Waterproof: yes | Battery: 90 minutes | Lube compatibility: water-based lube

Best Dildo: Desire by Lovehoney Luxury Weighted Curved Silicone Dildo

Why we love it: This metal dildo is truly the best of both worlds—it has a pleasantly hefty feel and is wrapped in super-soft silicone for a more velvety sensation against your skin. The weight inside the dildo makes it easier to provide intense stimulation to your internal hotspots, so get ready, get set, and get off.

Editor's tip: You can use either the bulbous end or the slimmer, curved tip, depending on the sensation you desire.

Type: dildo | Material: body-safe silicone | Modes: none | Waterproof: submersible | Battery: none | Lube compatibility: water-based lube

Best App-Accessible Vibrator: Lovense Lush 2 Love Egg Vibrator

Why we love it: Lovense's Lush 2 Love Egg Vibrator takes cybersex to a whole new level. Once you connect this insertable device to the Lovense app, you'll have access to unlimited vibration patterns that can be synced to music or sounds. Through the app, this wearable vibrator can also be controlled by anyone you'd like anywhere in the world—perfect for long-distance relationships.

Editor's tip: If you'd prefer to ditch your phone, a small button on its tail end can also control this G-spot stimulator.

Type: insertable vibrating egg | Material: silicone | Modes: unlimited (via app); 7 preset modes | Waterproof: yes | Battery: 300 minutes | Lube compatibility: water-based lube

Best Suction Cup Vibrator: PlusOne Luxe Ripple Multi-Vibe

Why we love it: The one thing partnered sex has over G-spot vibrators is that, usually, someone else is doing the actual penetrating part instead of yourself. Well, now that PlusOne's Luxe Ripple Multi-Vibe is around, you can let your arms rest and enjoy the ride. This waterproof vibrator has a suction cup base that sticks to any smooth surface, so it's an ideal pick for impromptu shower sessions.

Editor's tip: This toy has an innovative design that works well for G-spot and anal stimulation. Its flared base also allows for strap-on harness wear.

Type: vibrating dildo | Material: silicone | Modes: 10 vibration patterns | Waterproof: yes | Battery: 60 minutes | Lube compatibility: water-based lube

Best for Couples: We-Vibe Sync O

Why we love it: This futuristic sex toy has a little something for everyone. The We-Vibe Sync O, an upgraded version of the original Sync, has a flexible silicone loop that slides inside the vagina and vibrates against the internal pleasure spots and the penis if you're having penetrative sex. Meanwhile, the external arm buzzes against the clit for extra intense sensations. It has 10 intensity levels to explore and an adjustable hinge that ensures it fits your body perfectly.

Editor's tip: There are three ways to control the settings on this toy. You can use the We-Vibe app, the remote, or the buttons on the toy itself. If you use the app, it's possible to control this toy from anywhere in the world or create your own vibration patterns.

Type: clitoral/wearable/couple's vibrator | Material: body-safe silicone | Modes: 10 intensity settings | Waterproof: yes | Battery: 3 hours (more if you use it as a corded vibrator!) | Lube compatibility: water-based lube

Most Viral Sex Toy: Lovehoney Rose Clitoral Suction Stimulator

Why we love it: If you've been on TikTok lately, you've probably come across some iteration of this rose-shaped sex toy. In addition to being too cute for words, Lovehoney's Rose Clitoral Suction Stimulator gets the job done with 10 levels of pulsating suction that clit-havers are sure to enjoy. It's also easy to use, thanks to a two-button interface and magnetic charger—an ideal toy for beginners. A few reviewers mention that it can be a little noisy, so turn on some music or a white noise machine if you're playing with this in earshot of other people.

Editor's tip: Why stay downstairs? The gentle suction emanating from this toy also feels great on nipples.

Type: clitoral/suction vibrator | Material: body-safe silicone | Modes: 10 intensity settings | Waterproof: yes | Battery: 65 minutes | Lube compatibility: water-based lube

Best G-Spot Vibrator: Fun Factory Big Boss

Why we love it: If you prefer a bigger toy, the Fun Factory Big Boss deserves a spot in your sex toy drawer. It has an insertable length of 6.5 inches and measures nearly two inches thick. Beyond that, it also has an extra-powerful motor that delivers intense vibrations to your G-spot and a flexible shaft with a bulbous head and protruding veins for extra pleasure as it moves in and out.

Editor's tip: The ergonomic loop handle and raised buttons are designed to be easy to use even when you have lube on your hands.

Type: G-spot vibrator | Material: body-safe silicone | Modes: 4 vibration patterns, 5 speeds | Waterproof: yes | Battery: 40 mins to 2 hours, depending on settings | Lube compatibility: water-based lube

Best Wand Vibrator: Magic Wand Rechargeable Extra Powerful Cordless Vibrator

Why we love it: Some things are classics for a reason. Case in point: The Magic Wand. This iconic vibrator has been a staple of many sex toy drawers for decades, thanks to the powerful, rumbly vibrations it produces. Unlike the original Magic Wand, this version is cordless (though notably, you can use it while it's plugged in, which is not the case with many sex toys). It's also blessedly simple to use, featuring four speeds and four patterns, all controlled by three buttons.

Editor's tip: The Magic Wand is a good sex toy for people with arthritis or other hand impairments, thanks to the wide, easy-to-hold base and simple button interface. It's also one of the best sex toys for trans women and nonbinary people. "Even if you don't use it on your clit you can use it on your back," New York-based sex educator Octavia Leona Kohner suggested. We love the versatility.

Type: wand vibrator | Material: body-safe silicone head | Modes: 4 speeds and 4 patterns | Waterproof: no | Battery: 3 hours (more if you use it as a corded vibrator!) | Lube compatibility: water-based lube

Best Wearable Vibrator: Dame Eva II

Why we love it: Many vibrators can be used during partnered sex, but Dame Eva II's design is undeniably unique. The small device tucks in against your clit and the flexible arms extend ever so slightly underneath the labia majora to keep the vibrator in place. (If this isn't making sense, the product page has a helpful video). Long story short, you won't have to keep adjusting this toy during sex, no matter how vigorous things get.

Editor's tip: As with any toy, even one designed "for couples" or to be worn during partnered sex, you can use this solo as well.

Type: clitoral/wearable/couple's vibrator | Material: body-safe silicone | Modes: 3 intensity settings | Waterproof: yes | Battery: 1 hour | Lube compatibility: water-based lube

Most Versatile: MysteryVibe Crescendo 2

Why we love it: The MysteryVibe Crescendo 2 is truly unlike any vibrator we've ever seen. It's incredibly flexible, so you can position it exactly where you want it against your clit, G-spot, P-spot or practically anywhere else. It has six motors and 16 different power settings to explore, plus it can be controlled via the app for fun partner or solo play.

Editor's tip: The flexibility of this vibrator lets you control exactly how much of its 7 inches of insertable length goes inside of you.

Type: flexible vibrator (internal and external) | Material: body-safe silicone | Modes: 12 preset vibrations, 16 intensities | Waterproof: water-resistant | Battery: 2 hours | Lube compatibility: water-based lube

Best Vibrator for Beginners: Maude Vibe

Why we love it: Vibrators don't have to be complicated or intimidating. The Maude Vibe proves it, with a streamlined design and just three speeds. What makes this vibrator particularly good for beginners is the comprehensive usage guide, complete with photos, videos, and a FAQ section—all of which can be found on the product page. The simple and sleek Vibe is also a great choice for transgender women and nonbinary people for its versatile vibrating tip. Precise stimulation on just about any erogenous zone? Fun for everyone.

Type: external vibrator | Material: platinum-grade silicone | Modes: 3 speeds | Waterproof: water-resistant | Battery: 1-to 2.5-hour battery life depending on settings used | Lube compatibility: water-based lube

Best Butt Plug: Njoy Pure Plug Large

Why we love it: This gorgeous stainless steel butt plug is ideal if you've previously used smaller "beginner" butt plugs and are ready to try something new. It offers about three inches of insertable length and a particularly wide head measuring about 4.7 inches at the widest point. (Smaller versions, e.g. small and medium, of the same plug are available, so double-check when you add this to your cart!) The smooth stainless steel is weighted to provide extra stimulation to those sensitive nerve endings inside your anus. It can also be heated or cooled under running water if you want to play with the temperature.

Editor's tip: Don't clean this with any abrasive cleaners or materials, otherwise you'll lose the shine. We'd recommend adding sex toy cleaner to your cart before you check out.

Type: butt plug | Material: stainless steel | Modes: none | Waterproof: no | Battery: none | Lube compatibility: water- and silicone-based lube

Most Discreet: By uVibe Avo

Why we love it: All due respect to the rose toy but this uVibe Avo might be the cutest vibrator we've ever seen and happens to be more discreet, considering the former’s viral reputation. But the avocado-inspired design does more than look adorable on your nightstand. It has 10 vibration speeds and reviewers say that the bulbous head does a good job of providing clit stimulation. The unique shape also makes it easy to hold, and ringing in at less than $40, it's also one of the more affordable sex toys we recommend giving a whirl.

Editor's tip: It's not just waterproof; it's fully submersible. Use it in the tub the next time you need to unwind from a stressful day.

Type: clitoral vibrator | Material: body-safe silicone | Modes: 10 vibration settings | Waterproof: yes | Battery: not specified | Lube compatibility: water-based lube

Best for Temperature Play: Unbound Babes Gemini Dual Ended Glass Dildo

Why we love it: Similar to stainless steel, "Glass toys are durable, allow you to play with temperature, feel more sturdy, and are also easy to clean," shares Jenn Kennedy, PhD, board-certified sex therapist and licensed marriage and family therapist at Riviera Therapy in Santa Barbara, California. Unbound Babes' dual-ended Gemini Glass Dildo has a beaded end that's particularly good for anal play, while the curved end with a bulbous head can be used to stimulate the G-spot (or also used for anal play). And unlike many other sex toys, you can throw this in the dishwasher if you want to. (Just ask your roommates first.)

Editor's tip: You can easily use this with a vibrator for a toe-curling sensation.

Type: dildo | Material: nonporous borosilicate glass | Modes: none | Waterproof: no | Battery: none | Lube compatibility: water- and silicone-based lube

Best Bullet Vibrator: Tracey Cox Supersex Bullet Vibrator

Why we love it: A bullet vibrator is like the MVP of sex toys, thanks to the ease of use, creative possibilities, and generally accessible price point. This Supersex Bullet Vibrator from Tracey Cox has over 1,000 5-star reviews on Lovehoney. Customers love that it's simple: There's one button and one speed, so you won't have to click through 10 settings to find the one you like. It's also fully submersible for fun in the tub.

Editor's tip: If you're looking to take a sex toy on vacation or to your hookup's place, this mini vibrator is easy to travel with.

Type: bullet vibrator | Material: body-safe silicone | Modes: 1 speed | Waterproof: yes | Battery: 1 AAA battery required (run time not specified) | Lube compatibility: water- and silicone-based lube

Best Palm Vibrator: Je Joue MiMi Soft

Why we love it: This palm-size vibrator invites you to get creative. The Je Joue MiMi Soft vibrator provides five speeds and seven patterns of rumbly vibration to your clitoris, nipples, perineum, penis, or wherever else. It also has a soft tip perfect for pinpoint stimulation, or you can use the flat side for wider stimulation in the area.

Editor's tip: Several reviewers say this is a great vibrator to use alone or during partnered sex since the uniquely flat design makes it easy to hold between your bodies.

Type: palm/external vibrator | Material: body-safe silicone | Modes: 5 speeds, 7 patterns | Waterproof: yes | Battery: not specified | Lube compatibility: water-based lube

Frequently Asked Questions

The math is plain and simple. "For folks with vulvas and vaginas, we need to remember that three out of four women need direct or indirect clitoral stimulation for optimal sexual pleasure," shares Rosara Torrisi, PhD, a licensed clinical social worker and AASECT-certified sex therapist at the Long Island Institute of Sex Therapy in Syosset, New York. Not to mention, there are proven mental health benefits. In 2021, during the height of the pandemic, there was a study that found subjects who were sexually active experienced less anxiety and depression. Even outside of lockdown, using sex toys is a form of self-care that can't be overlooked.

Everyone! In particular, those who can't reach orgasm through penetrative sex, or people who simply want to explore new avenues of masturbation. "The more orgasms you have, the better you're going to know how to get there, the more you're going to want them, and the more you understand yourself," Holly Richmond, a somatic psychologist and certified sex therapist, previously told Allure. In turn, you can share said information with a partner to make your sexual exploits infinitely more pleasurable.

In fact, while most sex toys are great for solo play, they can also be a fun part of partnered sex if you want them to be. Browsing for toys together "can be a big part of the foreplay as the mind starts to imagine how toys might be used," says Jenn Kennedy, PhD, board-certified sex therapist and licensed marriage and family therapist at Riviera Therapy in Santa Barbara, California."It's also a way to signal more of what you like, which is a thrilling way to grow the relationship."

As for what type of sex toys to explore, "vibrators are a typical favorite and they come in both external, clitoris-focused design as well as internal, phallic options," shares Dr. Kennedy. Below, we break down the main categories of vibrators:

Clitoral vibrators: "Toys that focus on the external clitoris that I love are air pulse toys from companies like Womanizer and Satisfyer," says Dr. Torrisi. These use gentle pressure to surround and stimulate the clit, a sensation similar to oral sex.

G-spot vibrators: These vibrators typically stimulate the internal erogenous zone commonly referred to as the G-spot (though that term isn't totally accurate). However, whatever you call it, there is a whole class of vibrators designed for G-spot stimulation.

Wand vibrators: These are typically bigger vibrators used to stimulate the clit or other external zones. They're often described as having rumbly vibrations.

Rabbit vibrators: These are all about dual stimulation. They usually have a longer shaft that goes inside, plus a smaller, flexible shaft - often with two soft nubs, or ears - that stimulate the clit. "Some folks appreciate internal and external stimulation," Dr. Torrisi tells us. I most appreciate when internal and external stimulation have separate controls."

Remote-control vibrators: While most vibrators have built-in buttons to adjust settings to your desired effects, some are controlled via remotes or even apps on your phone. These are especially fun for partner play, since they give you the option to let your partner control the speed, pattern, and intensity of your vibrator.

Anal toys: These encompass any vibrating or non-vibrating toy that can be used anally. "If you're new to anal play, start slow and small," advises Dr. Torrisi. Any toy that's designed for anal use should also have a flared base for safety. Lube is also essential for easy gliding since your body doesn't produce any natural lubrication in this area.

Dildos: These tend to be penis-shaped toys that can be used anally or vaginally. They're usually made of silicone, glass, or metal and many of them are compatible with harnesses for strap-on play. Some of them vibrate, but it's more common for them to be non-vibrating toys.

• Jenn Kennedy, PhD, founder of The Pleasure Project and a board-certified sex therapist and licensed marriage and family therapist at Riviera Therapy in Santa Barbara, California.
• Rosara Torrisi, PhD, a licensed clinical social worker and AASECT-certified sex therapist at the Long Island Institute of Sex Therapy in Syosset, New York
• Holly Richmond, a somatic psychologist and certified sex therapist based in New York City