What are the best ways to ensure your coaching contract and boundaries are sustainable and transferable?

Coaching goals of the coachee are the coach's goals. They have to be arrived more by inspiration than intellect. The goals need a deep yearning in the coachee. Better to have a few than many. I find it useful to let the coachee lead this process in the first couple of meetings and I handhold the process.

Establishing clear goals and desired outcomes is crucial for facilitating effective coaching sessions. Once these objectives are defined and mutually agreed upon by both the client and the coach, an integral aspect of the coaching process is addressed, ensuring a smooth flow of the session.

Three approaches that I have found to be incredibly helpful in supporting the coaching contract. Plan - Set out to design your relationship alliance; how you wish to work, frequency, confidentiality, accountability, medium of communication and the likes. Pace :- Establish regular check ins to ensure that the engagement continues to satisfy both parties. Pivot : Know when it’s time to move on or redirect if it’s not working for either party and when the relationship may be ready to close out.

In a nutshell make sure to define coaching scope, outcomes, expectations, responsibilities, session details, progress measures, feedback, and adjustments for a clear roadmap.

Investing time to co-create a coaching contract establishes and defines a plan to reach mutually agreed upon objectives. Since a coaching relationship is the start of a journey towards clarity, change and development, having a defined purpose will ensure that contracting happens within the boundaries defined together, which means setting expectations and creating boundaries at the beginning. This will lead to better understanding of each other and having fewer conflicts and confusions in the coaching process.

As your coaching evolves you will develop a style, and your self-awareness and ability to articulate that style will manage expectations and protect the integrity of the coaching relationship. But please, learn as much as you can from a diverse range of approaches and develop a personal style. We don’t need armies of robotic coaches just creating a thinking space and asking Socratic questions - we can train AI to do that!

In my first coaching session, I use it to co-create with the client the rules and boundaries of coaching. I like to make it clear that this time is dedicated to coaching, that confidentiality will be maintained, and I describe what to expect from the coaching program and how to get the most out of it. I also like to comment on my coaching style and ask how the client feels about my coaching style.

Second step having clarity about responsibilities and accountabilities for each. Be transparent with the communication and building trust with transparency. Ensuring that commitment from coachee and cooperation to move forward. Helping them to understand the limitations from both the sides.

Make sure to establish communication, trust, confidentiality, ethics, conflict resolution, coach's role limits, expertise boundaries for a supportive coaching environment.

No meu trabalho como coach, aprendi que o segundo passo essencial é estabelecer regras básicas e limites. É como definir as fronteiras do nosso espaço de trabalho conjunto. Devemos concordar em como nos comunicar, respeitar e confiar mutuamente. A confidencialidade e ética são fundamentais. Além disso, é crucial definir os limites da minha função como coach e reconhecer quando uma questão está fora da minha expertise. Isso cria um ambiente de apoio seguro para nossas conversas, onde podemos crescer e alcançar os objetivos sem comprometer a integridade profissional.

In the early days of my coaching journey, I'm always worried whether my contracts will be renewed. As I gained more experience and wisdom, I realised that when the proper steps are taken to produce favourable coaching experience, maintain a strong rapport and achieve coaching goals, the chances of the contract being renewed is huge. Then I realised that getting the contract renewed may not necessarily be a good thing. Anyway, when it's time to renew the contract, it's always good to reset the coaching goals and treat it like a new (as in different) coaching engagement. Otherwise, it's very easy to settle into a comfort zone, taking the relationship and coaching conversation for granted.

Regularly review progress, achievements, challenges, seek feedback, adjust coaching approach for a dynamic, effective process. Try it out.

No meu trabalho como coach, o terceiro passo envolve a revisão e renovação do contrato de coaching. É como fazer uma revisão periódica do nosso plano de voo. Regularmente, verifico com meu cliente como o processo está progredindo, quais foram as conquistas e quais obstáculos enfrentamos. Peço feedback e sugestões para melhorar minha abordagem. Essa prática mantém nosso coaching dinâmico e flexível, evitando estagnação e garantindo que meu cliente esteja satisfeito e no caminho certo para alcançar seus objetivos.

I would also add , Involve the Coachee: Include the coachee in the process of defining and refining the coaching contract and boundaries. Seek their input and feedback to ensure the coaching engagement aligns with their needs.

It's important to do periodic check-ins with a client regarding what they are experiencing and how it is working for them. It is not uncommon to ask this during a regular session, asking something as simple as "I'm curious - how is this working for you?"

Document key insights, actions, outcomes. Provide summaries, tools for reflection. Encourage sharing with stakeholders for application, feedback, tangible value. Make sure everything is done ensuring confidentiality is maintained while sharing.

No meu papel como coach, o quarto passo é documentar e compartilhar o aprendizado. Isso é como criar um registro precioso de nossa jornada juntos. Registro os principais insights, ações e resultados de cada sessão, fornecendo ao meu cliente resumos e relatórios úteis para reflexão e aplicação do aprendizado. Encorajo também meu cliente a compartilhar suas descobertas com sua equipe ou colegas, buscando apoio e feedback. Dessa forma, construímos um valioso legado de aprendizado e evitamos que esse conhecimento se perca.

Be mindful of your responsibilities involving personal data and confidentiality. Collect a little data as possible and share it only with your client.

Ich nutze ein Coachingprotokoll in dem die Klient:innen nach dem Coaching die eigenen Haupterkenntnisse, die nächsten Schritte und ein paar mehr Dinge selbst niederschreiben. Meiner Meinung nach geht es um Selbstwirksamkeit und Selbstverantwortung, denn wenn ich meine Gedanken aus dem Coaching selbst zusammenfasse, dann behalte ich diese besser im Kopf und kann diese auch als Nachschlagewerk in ein paar Monaten nutzen.

I usually engage the sponsor in a meeting with the client and provide guidance beforehand to support the process. I also do interviews of colleagues and create a confidential "Themes" document that is de-identified and provides insights on how others experience the client. However, the outcomes, goals and actions plans that the client discerns are their work and I encourage them to fill in templates or create some sort of reminder for their current and future use. I support the process - the client does the work that reinforces their own learning.

Celebrate achievements, provide recognition, feedback, recommendations. Discuss sustaining progress, addressing challenges for a positive closure. Based on client model of the world.

Encerrar o contrato de coaching é como encerrar um capítulo importante. Neste momento, celebramos as conquistas e o crescimento do cliente, expressando reconhecimento e fornecendo feedback construtivo. Discutimos também estratégias para manter o aprendizado e enfrentar desafios futuros. Este passo cria uma experiência de coaching significativa e evita deixar pendências.

Closure of the engagement is so very important. A good beginning to a client's next phase begins with a good ending. Framing that closure and celebrating the learnings help cement continued work by the client on their developing skills!

Celebrating and concluding the coaching contract is a vital step in cementing the client's achievements and growth. It's more than a mere formality; it's a moment to acknowledge progress and reinforce confidence. Providing recognition, feedback, and future guidance helps solidify the learning and changes made. Discussing strategies for sustaining progress and tackling potential challenges ensures the client is equipped to continue their development independently. This creates a memorable and positive coaching experience, leaving no loose ends or unresolved issues.

Transferir habilidades e conhecimentos é como passar a tocha do coaching para o cliente. Ajudo-o a desenvolver suas próprias habilidades e mentalidade de coaching, capacitando-o a treinar a si mesmo e aos outros. Fornecer recursos, referências e redes de apoio é como dar-lhe as ferramentas para continuar seu desenvolvimento. Isso cria um legado de coaching duradouro e evita criar dependência.

Good coaching is akin to effective training, emphasizing the understanding of how and why certain interventions are effective. Transparent communication about the purpose and impact of these interventions is crucial for the success of the coaching process. This clarity enables the coachee to drive the actual change process, thereby strengthening their own resources. A coach's role is to concretely support this empowerment, guiding the coachee to harness and develop their capabilities. This approach not only facilitates immediate problem-solving but also fosters long-term self-reflection and self-management skills in the coachee, contributing significantly to the sustainability and effectiveness of the coaching outcome.

Also, we forget to think about this at get go when things are going well but always think about exit strategy as well .Include discussions about how the coaching relationship will end. This could involve setting specific goals for the coachee to achieve or planning for a gradual transition. Clarify what happens after the coaching relationship ends and whether there is an option for future sessions if needed.

Die Voraussetzung für einen erfolgreichen Coaching Prozess ist Vertrauen. In 13 Jahren als Executive Coach gab es noch nie Probleme mit der Einhaltung von Vereinbarungen. Natürlich startet man nach dem ersten Kennenlernen mit der Zielsetzung undmit den Rahmenvereinbarung. Sonst kommt ja gar kein Coaching zu Stande. Die sind danach aber auch abgehakt. Dann geht es nur noch um den Prozess und einen möglichst guten Output - davor hat man natürlich auch klar definiert, was ein Coaching liefern kann und was nicht. Die Verantwortung liegt hier bei beiden Parteien.

I start every session with a brief reminder of what our contract is. It's a good practice to ensure we start every time with a reset of the baseline. It helps the client change any expectations if they want to. In a long journey, sometimes the goals change and this would help in doing it seamlessly

From a hypnosystemic perspective, effective coaching centers on empowering the coachee to access and utilize their intrinsic resources and solutions. It involves creating a supportive environment where the coachee can explore and reframe their experiences, leading to sustainable change. The coach facilitates this process through tailored interventions, focusing on the coachee's autonomy and self-awareness. This approach recognizes the interplay between conscious and unconscious processes in shaping experiences and behaviors, guiding the coachee towards self-driven transformation.

Sendo capaz de provocar, no coachee, a espontânea exclamação "Ops! Como é que eu nunca pensei nisso, assim, antes?" E receber o pedido "Você me ajuda?"