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**Trigger Warning-Pregnancy Loss** I've shared this story before, but over the weekend, I hosted a Christmas party, and my talented friend drove three hours to attend and brought a single piece of bread pudding, her famous and my favorite dessert, just for me. 🖤 Why is this bread pudding significant? In May 2023, I was standing behind the bar when panic hit my heart like a truck had just come ramming through the service window. I was miscarrying while on the clock; with a full bar, busy dining room, and employees everywhere, there was nowhere to hide. I couldn't think and had no words. All I could say was, 'No, no, please stop.' I was lucky to be working alongside an incredible chef, mother, business owner, and friend who knew immediately what was happening. She hugged me and sent me home, and no words were exchanged. When I woke up the next morning, there was bread pudding at my door. My life changed that day in so many ways. While it was devastating and a day that I will remember every detail, the simple gesture and kindness I was shown are literally indescribable. 💞 I often reflect on how my experiences as a woman in hospitality and the restaurant industry are not unique. Miscarriages are common, as are the stories of working behind the bar while in labor or returning to work just a few weeks after giving birth while still wearing an adult diaper. Having to pump in the storage room and bring kids to work while prepping in the kitchen before or after school. These small examples and countless others highlight the often challenging experiences that women in hospitality face. As many of you know, I love to share stories in our industry, and I am working on a special project for the women in it. I am looking for twenty women in #hospitality, #foodandbeverage, #restaurants, etc., who will be willing to share their experience or story of being a mother or a female-specific issue you have faced while working in the #hospitalityindustry. This project aims to raise awareness about real but unspoken experiences in our industry, fostering conversations that can lead to valuable resources and meaningful change. 💫 If you are interested, please message me directly or email me at collsilk.dc@gmail.com. The Burnt Chef Project CHOW - Culinary Hospitality Outreach & Wellness Not 9 to 5 Org The James Beard Foundation Hospitality Bites Media, LLC #womeninrestaurants #womeninhospitality #WiRL #womeninculinary #foodandbeverage #momsinhospitality #shareforreach #shortfilm #Unhospitable #hospitalityindustry #femalechefs #linkedincreators #storyteller