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The Truth About Love: Breaking the Cycle of Suffering Discover the misconceptions about love and why suffering doesn't equate to love. Explore the notion of love in relation to psychological, emotional, financial, and physical well-being. Challenge the traditional idea that love requires sacrifice. Toxic attachment patterns may be ruining your chances of a healthy relationship. Take my Toxic Attachment Pattern test here.. https://lnkd.in/ezz5PW3g Watch the full video here https://lnkd.in/eXKWznPM #LoveWithoutSuffering #HealthyRelationships #MisconceptionsOfLove #EmotionalWellBeing #PsychologicalHealth #FinancialStability #PhysicalComfort #LoveAndHappiness #SuffeLove

𝑩𝑹𝑬𝑨𝑲 𝑻𝑯𝑬 𝑪𝑯𝑨𝑰𝑵, 𝑵𝑶𝑻 𝑻𝑯𝑬 𝑷𝑬𝑹𝑺𝑶𝑵 Your mother never got to hear 'I love you' or 'I am proud of you. She never got to experience the other, the better side of parenting perhaps. She passed on what she thought was best for you, what she knew and what she had learned. But you. You have seen the other way of live. You are aware of the gentle way of nurturing your relationships. You know how it feels to be validated and loved rightly. So, 𝒃𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒌 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒄𝒉𝒂𝒊𝒏, 𝒏𝒐𝒕 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒑𝒆𝒓𝒔𝒐𝒏 𝒘𝒉𝒐 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒌 𝒊𝒔 𝒓𝒆𝒔𝒑𝒐𝒏𝒔𝒊𝒃𝒍𝒆 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒖𝒎𝒂. Move on from the pain and adopt the gentle side of life. Say 𝘐 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶,' '𝘐 𝘮𝘪𝘴𝘴 𝘺𝘰𝘶', '𝘐 𝘢𝘮 𝘴𝘰 𝘴𝘰𝘳𝘳𝘺', 𝘐 𝘢𝘮 𝘱𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘥 𝘰𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶'. to everyone you love. Don't shy away from putting your feelings into words because as it turns out, people cannot read your mind. Know that a generation of gentle and calm people don't fall from heaven but rather nurtured on earth. Treat people so well that they cannot stop but pass on the same love and gentleness. Treat people as how you want to be treated. Don't sit there to calculate who deserves to be treated well. Believe that you are the love you give. You cannot let anyone make you the harsh, bitter person. You cannot have anyone hold so much power over you that they turn you into an abuser. You need to protect your warmth and love. You need to be gentle and loving both to yourself and the people around you. You can break the chain, and introduce a new way, the gentler way of life, for yourself and for the people you love. 𝒀𝒐𝒖 𝒄𝒂𝒏 𝒃𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒑𝒆𝒓𝒔𝒐𝒏 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒘𝒊𝒔𝒉 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒉𝒂𝒅 𝒘𝒉𝒆𝒏 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒆 𝒍𝒊𝒕𝒕𝒍𝒆. #BreakTheChain #LeadWithLove #GentleParenting #HealingGenerations #BeTheChange #NurtureWithKindness #SpreadLoveNotPain #EmpathyMatters #ChooseKindness

So many people say that they love themselves and that they are living and acting from a place of love. Yet if you examine their lives and their actions, it is often quite contradictory to the act of loving themselves. It’s a buzzword, a kind of term that is being thrown around loosely, without conscious thought, understanding and practice. Let focus this week on examining how we embody the practices of self acceptance and self compassion. 🥰 Self acceptance means beings ok with your size, your age and understanding that numbers cannot quantify your magical essence. 🥰 Self compassion means offering yourself the same kindness and support you would give a friend when they mess up, fail or make a mistake. 🥰 Combining the two daily ensures you offer yourself grace and allow yourself to show up in a way that serves your needs and interests. Love always 🖤 Shenaaz Moos - Happy Confident Me ••••••••••••••••••••••• #mondaymantra #qotd #youareenough #youareworthy #selflove #selfacceptance #selfcompassion #showupforyourself #shenaazmoos #therapist #happyconfidentme #inspirationalquotes #instaquote

"What compels you to tolerate disrespect and to be torn in a never ending tale of emotional drama? Is it love or attachment?" 👉 Trust me, your soul knows it exceptionally well when you are not longer operating out of love, rather your motivation to stay in a relationship is the fear and its many layers that come with deep attachment. 💯 And this is what happens in a narcissistic relationship - there was never any love to begin with from their side. While you chose to shower your love, attention and care on them, they were always looking to play a game of control and power at your expense. 🎙️ They always wanted and still want the highs that come with keeping you stuck in the web of lies they created so that you are running in cycles to keep them happy and get their attention as well as support while they only throw occasional crumbs of 'fake love' at you to keep your hopes alive. 🌀 And all the while, they lie to you, disrespect you, speak condescendingly, mock you and humiliate you while the attached part of you waits for that one day they finally see your worth and give you the love or recognition you deserve. 🎯 But that day is never going to come because they already know your worth and are doing everything to break that so that they can make you dance to their tunes. Still want to be a puppet in their hands❓ DM 'healing' if you have enough of the manipulation and now want to take back the reins of your life in your hands.📩❤️ #thedebashmitachakraborty #toxicrelationships #narcissisticabuse #emotionalabuse #awakening #selflove

Happy Friday LinkedIn! I saw this post on another platform and wanted to share... There's so much talk about love languages and hot to love others, but... If they don't know how they need to be loved, how are you supposed to know? This message shows the importance of just loving in all ways, not just some theoretical belief of "I'm this or that...." Nah, love. Plain & simple. We overcomplicate life with labels, theories, diagnoses, opinions, "This *expert* said I have to do this.." that we miss the mark of what's really important... Being love - rooted from YOUR heart WITHOUT the veil of trauma, assumption, critique, obsession, addiction, etc. Just love. And as you heal, grow, and fund pathways that feel more aligned to your soul, love will feel easier, more natural, and you'll step into your inherent power of love. 🖤 Have a beautiful day. Oh... if you haven't already, check out the replay of last night's Black Label LIVE where we spoke about Emotional Energy. It was pretty amazing! jessirisley.com #lovelanguage #love #selflove #loveyourselffirst #lifelessons #personalpower #emotionalgrowth #emotionalhealing #emotionalbalance #emotionalintelligence #growth #menscoach #mensmentalhealth #relationships #connectedness #soulaligned #womenscoach #energyhealing #energyshifts #soulconnection #soulhealing #mindbodysoul #heartbreak #traumahealing #traumabonds

💔 The Loneliness of Watching Them Change 🥀 There’s a deep #loneliness in watching someone you love turn into someone you barely recognize. It feels like losing them piece by piece, as the person you once cherished fades away. You hold onto #memories, but eventually, you realize that no amount of love can bring them back. Yet through this #pain, you find your own #strength—the courage to love without conditions and the grace to let go when holding on becomes too #painful. Sometimes love is about allowing #change, embracing evolution, and letting go with a heart full of grace. #EmbracingChange #LettingGo #UnconditionalLove #HealingJourney #InnerStrength If you resonate with this content or want to learn more, please feel free to reach out to us.

Discover how ignoring red flags in a relationship can have negative consequences. Learn why it's important to address issues and not make excuses. Make informed decisions for a healthier and happier love life. YT Full Title: 7 Red Flags of a Narcissist Comment "Freedom" today to start your journey #RelationshipAdvice #RedFlags #LoveLife #HealthyRelationships #DatingTips #RelationshipGoals #CommunicationSkills #SelfWorth #SelfLove #PersonalGrowth

"It hurts when - feelings go unnoticed, when smiles get deceived,when the downpour of sorrow is perceived as tears of joy, reality seems dream and dream seems reality. Its hurting - when your love becomes trifle and your emotions smile at you, when you have to pay for being honest and false pretence wins over the truth. It's hurting - when you know you can't get it but still dont wanna lose it, when you  have so many things to say but get short of words and your silence remains unheard. It's hurting - when "love begets love"is proved wrong but you continue to believe in it. When living with ignorance becomes a habit. It’s hurting - when you can't put your thoughts in order and end up writing a group of phrases with a lot of punctuation. "Some dreams are meant to be just dreams,and realities are meant to be accepted. Some truths are destined to be hidden and some lies are lucky enough to triumph over the truth. Some wounds are meant to remain unhealed forever, and some to leave behind indelible scars. Smiles are supposed to be epidemic, and tears to be endemic within oneself. Heart is fated to die its natural death someday, and love is blessed to be eternal in its own way. Desires are fated to be overtaken by the duties and duties by the needs. Some words are prudent enough to find expression in eyes but some writings in words are never fated to be read" ~ Sucheta ~ #thoughts #myjourney

10 SNEAKY WAYS PEOPLE MANIPULATE YOU. 1. LOVE BOMBING: flooding with affection to gain control. 2. GASLIGHTING: Making your doubt your reality. 3. SILENT TREATMENT: Ignoring you to make you feel guilty. 4. GUILT TRIPPING: Making you feel responsible for their emotions. 5. PLAYING THE VICTIM: Always being the one who is wronged. 6. FUTURE FAKING: Promising a future that never comes. 7. TRIANGULATION: Using others to make you jealous. 8. BLAME SHIFTING: Turning the table to make you the problem. 9. WITHHOLDING AFFECTION: Using love as a weapon. 10. MINIMIZING FEELINGS: Dismissing your reactions as over reacting. Be mindful of manipulative people who paint themselves as victims, blame others, and refuse to take any responsibility for their wrongdoing. Don’t buy into their stories. Showing sympathy for them plays into their hand.. 🖐🏽

10 SNEAKY WAYS PEOPLE MANIPULATE YOU. 1. LOVE BOMBING: flooding with affection to gain control. 2. GASLIGHTING: Making your doubt your reality. 3. SILENT TREATMENT: Ignoring you to make you feel guilty. 4. GUILT TRIPPING: Making you feel responsible for their emotions. 5. PLAYING THE VICTIM: Always being the one who is wronged. 6. FUTURE FAKING: Promising a future that never comes. 7. TRIANGULATION: Using others to make you jealous. 8. BLAME SHIFTING: Turning the table to make you the problem. 9. WITHHOLDING AFFECTION: Using love as a weapon. 10. MINIMIZING FEELINGS: Dismissing your reactions as over reacting. Be mindful of manipulative people. They are everywhere. Take note of these 10 good examples for you to immediately notice them.