When you want someone to do something—whether it’s donating, joining an event, or even buying Girl Scout cookies—it’s tempting to send out a mass email or general invitation. But here’s the truth: specific, personal asks are so much more effective. Here’s an example: For a recent volunteer picnic, we sent out a general invite to all our volunteers. Only about 20 people signed up. So, we tried something different. We sent individual emails, calling each person by name and personally inviting them to join us. The result? We doubled our registrations almost immediately. It’s not just about what you’re asking—it’s how you ask. A personal touch makes people feel valued and engaged. As we gear up for things like Giving Tuesday or other big events, I’m reminding myself (and all of you!) to think about how we’re inviting others to join us. A little effort in making it personal can go a long way! How have you seen the power of a direct ask in your work or personal life? Share your experiences in the comments—I’d love to hear them! #GivingTuesday #Philanthropy #NonProfit #Fundraising
Yes, Betsy Reznicek! A direct ask is always more personal and genuine. Takes a little more time, but as you've shown, it's worth it.
For our monthly meetings of CPW-Connecting & Promoting Women, we do all social media things on FB but our attendance is always higher if I send a personal message via FB messenger or a personal text. I like doing it because I feel more “connected “ to our community when they respond and say yes, no or maybe. I can also check up on them to see how they are.