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60 women per year murdered by current or ex partners. 600 women a year die by domestic violence suicide to escape the torture. What we do not know is how many deaths deemed suicides are also physically murdered by intimate partners. Domestic violence suicide is becoming known as murder, as it should be, thanks to amazing advocates in this space. To bully, deceive and harm someone until they feel that death is the only option is sadistic torture. A tactic of coercive control is the manipulation to suicide. The perpetrator’s endless servings of denigration, humiliation and abuse chips away at even the strongest person. Use of past trauma or weaknesses is the way of the perpetrator. Taking out supports and isolating the victim is par for the course. The constant drip feed of lies about what others have said about you or running interference in relationships telling others lies about what you have said about them. Or being invited to family and friends events where the perpetrator has responded for you without your knowledge that you can’t make it and then telling you when you see others out celebrating together that you weren’t invited they mustn’t like our company or perhaps you did something to upset them. Or flat out not inviting their family to your children’s events and telling them it was you thst didn’t want them there and telling you they don’t like driving at night or they were busy when you know they drive at night and make time for other grandchildren. The gaslighting perpetrators are capable of is criminal behaviour. Why does a perpetrator manipulate to murder? - Money. They are shallow people so money is a huge driver - life insurance collection and all assets will become theirs. - Control and power over. Power over your thoughts and life is satisfying to abusers. No greater control than manipulating someone to end their life. - Authority and access. If there’s children then the abuser will have total control over children. Pedophile fathers want to be able to offend with ease and so removing a protective mother is necessary. - Cover up. If the victim has started to tell people he’s abusive then her mental health will be questioned through suicide and his secrets kept. -Sympathy. Narcissists love attention and he will have attention and the sympathy and support from unwitting enablers. - Retribution. If she’s started to see through the lies and manipulation to the real perpetrator and there’s a risk to his image she is public enemy number one as image is everything. - Image maintenance. He’s ready to live a free and single life rather than cheating in secret and doesn’t want to be the bad guy by leaving the relationship. Known as the reverse discard. If he’s tried to force her to end the relationship so he can be the jilted husband but she’s not taking the bait then the perpetrator needs to escalate to manipulation to suicide to get what he wants. Perpetrators of coercive control are ALL high risk!

🚨 August 2024 UK Riots: Nearly 150 teenagers arrested, facing serious charges! What lessons can be taken from this, and how do we best support arrested children so they don't get involved in violence in the future? 🔗 Dive deeper: Read the full analysis https://lnkd.in/dr9v-ngt

This should be disgusting and alarming to all.

As a psychtherapist and as a survivor I completely agree with this campaign! You should be comfortable speaking in therapy without the fear that the therapist would be forced to share clinical notes. #justice #rapecrisis #psychotherapy #survivorcampaign #support #survivor #therapy #counsellor #sexualabuse #abuse #talk #campaign

If you come to our country and dedicate your life to harming others YOU ARE NOT WELCOME IN THE US!!! On the other hand, if you are illegally here and you bring good things to the community, I think you should certainly be allowed to be here. I don't have a lot of bias vs people who benefit the community. I do recognize how the sheer number of people in the US is not sustainable. However, when Arizona deported all of the undocumented people they could find, they shot themselves in the foot. Not only was AZ brought to Bankruptcy, but suddenly most of the people working the land in severe heat vanished. The Unemployed people complained that what was wrong with the AZ Economy was that the undocumented workers took all of the jobs. When they were deported, the AZ people complaining were offered all of those landscaping, farming, and cooking jobs. They refused to work those vacated jobs because it was too hot outside, the jobs didn't pay enough or have benefits, and they felt those jobs were beneath them. Many businesses had to close due to the inability to hire employees. I lived in Phoenix. I watched it happen. If there is a sudden change brought to a community, (like deporting half of the population because they were there illegally,) chaos occurs. The best way to slow down the people flooding into a country is to end their ability to sneak in. The Borders need to be closed. Then, gradually illegal immigrants THAT ARE DISRUPTING communities NEED to be deported. The immigrants that are actually making a big difference in the lives of others, and helping others I say: "Leave them alone! If they are paying their own health insurance and not costing the community anything, just let the stay. It might be an idea to go to all of the jails and prisons and locate the illegal immigrants. The US has been giving them 3 Hots and a Cot. You want to cost the government less, send them all back to their countries of origin. Let their countries pay the bill for their own criminals. If a person causes serious issues for the rest of us, they do NOT deserve the chance to live well and prosper because the US foots the bill. However, if someone is here illegally, but makes big contributions to advance the communities, that should be worth something. When they decide that other people deserve to be taken advantage of, stolen from, bullied, terrorized, raped, kidnapped or other Crimes Against Humanity.... The very FIRST time they do atrocities, they should be exiled permanently unless it was in self-defense, or there were extenuating circumstances. Think about it. Prisons and jails are a huge drain on the economy. Remove about half of the inmates because they are here illegally. Results are likely to be 1.) There wouldn't be severe overcrowding. The budget for food, electricity, water, clothes, laundering and paying for so many prison guards would be substantially lower. 2. ) there are other benefits to this plan.

Courts of New Zealand | Ngā Kōti o Aotearoa learn from this: NO JUDGE IS ABOVE THE LAW. Judges should be held to the highest social standards BECAUSE that is what is required for public confidence. For too long the public have been tricked and coerced into falsely believing judges are “immune from suit” THIS OS KNOWINGLY FALSE!  Judges are only immune from suit acting in a jurisdictional capacity- this does not mean they can ignore criminal offending of their friends (such as Oranga Tamariki—Ministry for Children social workers, New Zealand Law Society Te Kāhui Ture o Aotearoa solicitors OR PRESIDENTS! or NZ Police and especially not other judicial officers) or exceed their jurisdiction to make unlawful and knowingly harmful orders to serve as punishment- which has become “orthodox” (standard practice) in the family court. New Zealand Parliament the courts MUST be regulated with legislation that protects the people from dictatorship and abuse of judges. Ministry for Regulation regulate this Department of the Prime Minister and Cabinet Foreign, Commonwealth and Development Office Foreign, Commonwealth and Development Office

🙏Please help🙏 This is another petition that is in risk of being closed because of the upcoming election! https://lnkd.in/e94CzvjX 🛑 🔪 KNIFE 🔪CRIME 🛑is increasing and we need to do something! Currently this petition only has 6349 signatures and needs 10,000to receive a response from the government! The Government can’t respond to petitions during the election period. This means if the petition has over 10,000 signatures, it can’t receive a response from the current Government after 29 May. After the election, the new Government will have to decide whether to respond to petitions from before the election. The current Petitions Committee, the group of MPs who decide whether petitions are debated, won’t exist after 30 May. This means that if the petition has over 100,000 signatures, it can’t be scheduled for debate during this Parliament. After the election, a new Petitions Committee will be responsible for deciding which petitions are debated.

Judges should also be arrested for abusing children and for removing children from innocent mothers without evidence in Children Care Proceedings. . #ShaziaAnjum #EastlondonFamilyCourt

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https://lnkd.in/ee88ZVQE Return of HANGING is long overdue as is birching and lashes. punishment must adequately meet requirements of retribution and deterence. modern society does not meet these requirements. there is no deterence in community sentencing. Bring Back Hanging.