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I urge all parents to watch this reel, as our relationship with our partner is different to the relationship they with our partner. As parents we don’t have a right to taint that relationship. We must learn to separate our hurt to our child’s Love I'm sharing this today because I'm heartbroken. Over the past few weeks, I've been spending a lot of time with three close friends who are all single dads, and I've seen how they're struggling to see their kids. It's so disheartening to witness how some people think it's acceptable to prevent the other parent from having a relationship with their children. Using children as pawns in adult conflicts is both unfair and harmful. We're supposed to be responsible adults, yet it's astonishing how immaturely some people behave when it comes to parenting. This not only damages the children in the long run but also adds unnecessary stress on the other parent. We bring children into this world to give them the best possible life, but instead, we end up causing them pain. It’s beyond me why some parents can’t put their differences aside and do what's right for their children, rather than focusing on hurting their ex-partner. #coachingjourney #relationshipguide #mindfulnessmentor #divorcewellness #healingprocess #selfcarecoaching #transformativecoaching #empowermentjourney #introspectioncoach #ParentalAlienation #StopParentalAlienation #ParentalAlienationAwareness #EndParentalAlienation #BreakTheSilence #ProtectOurChildren #StopFamilyAlienation #ChildrensRights #ParentalAlienationHurts #CoParentingMatters #FamilyFirst #HealingFromAlienation #AlienationIsAbuse #FightParentalAlienation #ReuniteFamilies

👨👧👦 A father's choices and behaviors - whether supportive or harmful - have a profound impact on child and family wellbeing. ✨ The Safe & Together Model recognizes dads who: 🌱 Nurture their children's growth 🤝 Support their co-parent's parenting  🏠 Create stability through their actions 💪 We encourage professionals to engage meaningfully with all fathers as parents in service of building safer, more stable families. When we have higher expectations of men as parents, we create better outcomes for children. https://lnkd.in/eEMwDhQz #SafeAndTogether #FathersChoicesMatter #ChildWellbeing #FamilyStability #EngagingFathers #fathersParentingchoicesMatter

As children grow into the preteen and teenage years it is normal and natural for them to begin to assert their independence and begin to push you away. But remember that a quest for independence is not the same as disconnection. Teenagers often mistake independence as the same as disconnecting from their parents, thinking disconnection will achieve their independence. But connection can and should continue as you switch your parenting to help guide in their independence and learning. Because the truth is disconnection will make the quest for independence harder for everyone. Are you making sure you are keeping the connection going? —---------- I'm Jen and I post about #parenting and how to help strengthen your relationship with your child while minimizing challenging behaviors. 🔔 Follow me for more content like this: Happy Parenting and Families 🔁 Repost for other parents so they don’t feel alone in their struggles. Because we all need a little help with our parenting from time to time. #raisingteens #parentingpreteens #connectionmatters #parentingtips #theroadtoindependence

Accountability & Parenting - click on link for full article! " I have understood that self-awareness is crucial for healthy parent-child relationships through the years. It supports listening, reflecting, managing our emotions, and other beneficial habits that create opportunities for effective communication and connection with our children. Both are key throughout the parent-child relationship. Unfortunately, many of us weren’t taught or shown how to be self-aware or emotionally intelligent. That said, it’s common that we carry out the same behaviors or parenting styles that were modeled for us when we were children. Even if we want to avoid making the same mistakes our parents did, we often lack the tools to prevent them from recurring effectively. " https://lnkd.in/eyaSbYd7 #parenting #emotionalintelligence #accountability #heartcentered #mentalhealthmatters #emotionalregulation #parentchildrelationship #childdevelopment #familysupport #wholeheartedbusiness #educationadministration

Is "gentle parenting" really helping our kids, or is it setting them up for a tough future? The term has now gained a lot of attention, but when applied to young children, it might be underserving them in some ways. While the idea of boundaries, empathy, and open communication has its merits, gentle parenting often relies heavily on emotional processing. While this may work well with older kids who can rationalize, it fails to teach toddlers the real-world concept that actions have consequences. By focusing too much on emotional processing, we might be missing the opportunity to help kids develop emotional regulation and understand accountability. Gentle parenting might require more of us than we can consistently give. And in the long run, it could leave kids ill-equipped to navigate the real world. The key isn’t to abandon it, but to find balance. Sometimes, tough love and clear boundaries are just as essential as empathy in raising resilient children. As parents, we need to know when to show gentleness—and when to teach hard lessons. #ParentingTips #GentleParenting #ChildDevelopment #ModernParenting #BalancedParenting #ParentingChallenges

✨ In parenting, less is often more. Instead of a long list of rules, I believe in creating a few key guidelines that are firmly enforced. Why? 🔑 Clarity & Consistency: Children thrive when they know what’s expected of them. A handful of well-defined rules provide a sense of structure and predictability. 💡 Empowerment: With fewer rules, there’s more room for children to explore, make decisions, and learn responsibility within a safe framework. ❤️ Loving Firmness: Enforcing these rules consistently doesn’t mean being harsh. It’s about standing by our values and helping our children understand that some things in life are non-negotiable, but always with kindness and empathy. Few rules, when consistently and lovingly reinforced, create a foundation that helps children feel secure, respected, and ready to navigate the world confidently. 🌍 How do you approach rule-setting with your kids? Share your thoughts below! And subscribe to my Substack! https://lnkd.in/esrTrWFW #IntentionalParenting #ParentingTips #RaisingKids #ParentingJourney #ChildDevelopment

Parenting style plays a significant role in shaping a child's development, influencing their behavior, emotions, and overall well-being. Four main styles are commonly identified: authoritarian, authoritative, permissive, and uninvolved. Authoritarian parents are strict, demanding obedience and adherence to rules without much room for negotiation. While this can instill discipline, it may also lead to resentment and rebellion in children, hindering their ability to develop autonomy and self-esteem. Authoritative parenting combines warmth and support with clear expectations and boundaries. Children raised in authoritative households tend to be independent, self-disciplined, and socially competent, as they learn to make decisions while feeling secure in their parents' guidance. #RaiseAgainstAutism #PinnacleSaysItAll #PinnacleBloomsNetwork #1AutismTherapyCentresNetwork

𝐏𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐏𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐮𝐫𝐞: 𝐋𝐞𝐭'𝐬 𝐅𝐨𝐜𝐮𝐬 𝐨𝐧 𝐒𝐮𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭, 𝐍𝐨𝐭 𝐉𝐮𝐝𝐠𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭! "There are no perfect parents, and there are no perfect children. But there are lots of perfect moments." 𝐓𝐡𝐞 "𝐠𝐨𝐨𝐝 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠" 𝐧𝐨𝐢𝐬𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐝𝐞𝐚𝐟𝐞𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠! Everyone seems to have an opinion on raising kids. But here's the thing: 👉𝐄𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐥𝐝 𝐢𝐬 𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐪𝐮𝐞. What works for one won't work for all. 👉𝐔𝐧𝐬𝐨𝐥𝐢𝐜𝐢𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐚𝐝𝐯𝐢𝐜𝐞 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐣𝐮𝐝𝐠𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭, especially in tough moments. 👉𝐀𝐥𝐥 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐩𝐫𝐢𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐞𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐯𝐚𝐥𝐮𝐞𝐬. What matters most to one family might not be the same for another. 𝐋𝐞𝐭'𝐬 𝐝𝐢𝐭𝐜𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐞𝐭𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐛𝐮𝐢𝐥𝐝 𝐚 𝐬𝐮𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐭𝐲. 👉𝐅𝐨𝐜𝐮𝐬 𝐨𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐟𝐚𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐲 and what works best for you and your children. 👉𝐎𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐫 𝐚 𝐥𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐞𝐚𝐫, 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐮𝐧𝐬𝐨𝐥𝐢𝐜𝐢𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐚𝐝𝐯𝐢𝐜𝐞. Sometimes parents just need to vent or brainstorm, and your support can make a world of difference. 👉𝐑𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭 𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐬. Parents will ask for your wisdom when they need it. #parentingtips #parentingadvice #parentingsupport

Title: Let's Rethink Parenting for a Brighter Tomorrow 🌟 Every Children's Day, we celebrate the joy and wonder that kids bring into our lives. But amidst the festivities, it's crucial to pause and reflect on how we can improve parenting for a better future. Children are indeed precious gifts, but they deserve more than just existence; they deserve nurturing, love, and guidance. Parenting isn't solely about age or biological capability; it's about readiness and responsibility. Bringing a child into this world demands more than physical ability—it requires emotional maturity, financial stability, and a willingness to prioritize the well-being of another human being above all else. If we aren't prepared for this immense responsibility, it's okay to wait until we are. Many children today suffer from trauma, bullying, and even abuse, often stemming from inadequate or neglectful parenting. These scars can last a lifetime, affecting not only the child but also the community they grow up in. It's a harsh reality that calls for urgent action. This Children's Day, let's use the occasion to contemplate how we can do better as parents and as a society. We must prioritize education and support for parents, teaching them effective parenting techniques, conflict resolution, and emotional intelligence. By investing in parenting resources, we invest in the future of our communities. #BetterParenting #BrighterFuture #ChildrensDay #LoveAndGuidance 🌈👨👩👧👦

Unlock Your Parenting Potential: Inspiring Moments with Dad Discover the powerful impact a father's presence can have on a child's life. Join us as we reflect on cherished memories and discuss the importance of parental guidance. It's time to embrace the opportunity to teach and connect with our kids. #ParentingInspiration #FathersLove #BondingMoments #ParentingConnection #ParentingTips #CherishedMemories #PositiveParenting #FamilyFirst #GuidingOurChildren #TeachingWithLove