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You may have heard of birth doulas but do you know about end of life doulas? These special people help make the final transition easier. My latest for Fortune https://lnkd.in/gtSuPVsE

Christmastime can be full of hope, joy, and comfort, mixed with disappointment, questions, and even grief, especially if you’re praying for a baby. Waiting may feel heavy, discouraging, and sometimes lonely, but Christmas allows us to connect and see the good. Find encouragement and actionable tips to help you through this emotional journey: #adoptionjourney #LifetimeAdoption #infantadoption #waitingforbaby

Death and dying aren’t always easy subjects. Conversations about your end-of-life desires and the legacy you want to leave behind can be particularly difficult for some individuals and their family and friends. If you’re diagnosed with a terminal illness, understanding how much time you have left and deciding how you’ll spend it can be difficult to navigate. For friends and family members — especially for young ones who’ve never experienced a death in their family — understanding what happens when someone dies can be confusing and challenging. When we broach the topic of death, we’re forced to confront our own mortality and come to terms with what will happen to our bodies when we die. But when we face the death of a loved one, we’re confronted with a different set of challenges. Sometimes, we’re dealing with an impending death long before it happens. Other times, death happens swiftly and suddenly in the most unexpected ways. No matter how someone dies, we each find different ways to grieve the loss of a loved one. Sometimes, we must handle all the logistics around someone’s funerary services. And then, there are all the things left unfinished after that person’s death — their hobbies, dreams, bills, and responsibilities. https://lnkd.in/eSsMtyKS

A Child called Old Age The journey from cradle to the grave has to be travelled by all, yet as individuals we all feel that our journey is the toughest. The funny part of this journey is, to be alive a child has to start kicking from the moment he is born, and to die he needs to stop kicking the moment he is dead, I guess that's the kick of life. The intriguing part is, while we all keep kicking all our lives, but then the question is, how many of us actually open our inner eyes and see the world to enjoy the journey? A "Dead man Dies" because he never opened his eyes to see life beyond his own self, while a "Dead man Sings" who opened his eyes to feel the emotions and the rainbow. The larger point of debate is, during this journey of ,"dust to dust and ashes to ashes", what is the significance of Ageing? Though we all know that in our old age, many people start behaving like children, but then, is it easy to handle such children? Our nature, outlook and behaviour gets moulded over a lifetime, hence it is not easy to change overnight and let go off the past baggage, hence we tend to become children in our old age? It is this reinforced nature of ours which becomes difficult to handle and probably is one of the reasons for caregiver stress. Is it possible that this conflict of nature and personalities between children and "Elderly Children", makes us detached and insensitive towards our parents after a period of time? I guess this is one of the reasons why older people are preferring to stay independently and live on their own terms rather than stepping on each other's toes. In my opinion this is where Senior Living and Home Care services would see exponential growth over the next decade. At some point in life we have to eventually decide, whether we want to go to the grave dead or sing from the grave... Pankaj Mehrotra #agedcare #longtermcare #carehomes #seniorliving #assistedliving #retirementcommunities #oldagehomes #seniorcitizens #olderpersons

The importance of creating dementia-friendly funerals cannot be overstated. By incorporating elements like cherished photos, meaningful music, and personal mementoes, we can establish a warm and comforting atmosphere, which is crucial during such sensitive times. Taking the time to allow individuals to acclimatise, considering mindful seating arrangements, and placing them near exits or specific family members can make a significant difference in their experience. Flexibility is key in meeting unique needs and responding with kindness to foster a nurturing environment. Last Rites is a valuable dementia-friendly service that embodies these principles. #lastritesbereavement #grief #remembrance #dementiasupport We are dedicated to supporting families through the profound journey of loss and remembrance.

This isn't talked about enough and I'm going to be real. Family dynamics tend to amplify in caregiving situations. The sibling who lives far away but has all the opinions. The one who’s local and doing most of the heavy lifting, silently resenting everyone else. Then there are the well-meaning, unsolicited opinions from extended family, old friends, and even neighbors who “know exactly what you should do.” Sometimes, it feels like you’re managing more drama than care. But the hardest part isn’t even the logistics or the bickering. It’s the quiet moments when you see the person you love change or suffer. And you feel powerless, no matter how much you're doing. That’s when the drama falls away, and you realize this whole journey is about love, no matter how messy it gets. That's why you're still doing it, right? At the end of the day, family caregiving isn’t about getting everyone on the same page or figuring out the perfect routine. It’s about finding your way through the tough moments. If you can take anything away from this post, let it be this: It's not easy. It may not ever be easy. Burnout is definitely a risk every day. But there are those moments, not days, but moments at least, when we feel relief. We laugh. We cry our pain away. We hug our siblings. We hold Mom's hand. We go down memory lane with Dad. And we forget we're even suffering. Cherish that. Celebrate it. Make that moment the most powerful experience you could ever have! And here's the best part... that moment doesn't go away. It's with you forever. That's a big deal. So make a big deal out of it. #caregiversupport #seniorcare #simcoecounty

The R word. Resentment is an ugly word. We don’t like to admit to it. The Oxford Dictionary defines it as: 1. bitter indignation at having been treated unfairly. I cared for my mother for over 6 years. Over those years I built up a lot of resentment towards my younger brothers. I felt it, it gnawed at me, it often boiled in me when they would call, and I was worn out and they only came to visit once a year for a weekend. I didn’t know how to manage it. Carrying around resentment is like having a 50-pound backpack on all the time. It is heavy, uncomfortable, causes aches and you want to take it off. Yet, it feels as if it carries things you need. I understand the resentment that comes with caregiving. It builds up over time. There is the resentment towards others who have not had to give up so much. There is resentment towards some family members who don’t seem to contribute their fair share. There is even resentment towards the one you care for (watch out for that one!). Rarely do we talk about this because we feel like it is a bad thing and we don't want to be judged. However, talking through why you feel this, is the best way to take off that heavy backpack and begin to unload it. Because resentment hurts. It affects your relationships. Finding a safe place to unload can relieve the feelings of resentment. Often, finding a way to talk about it and understand its source can help. https://buff.ly/4eVu0Yg

🌟 I need your help! Calling All Connections: The Vital Role of Death Doulas! 🌟 As a passionate advocate for compassionate end-of-life care, I am thrilled to share this enlightening article on death doulas. It's a profession near and dear to my heart—one that embodies compassion, support, and the profound importance of human connection during life's most delicate moments. The article beautifully captures the essence of what it means to be a death doula: offering holistic support to individuals and families as they navigate the journey toward the end of life. From providing emotional comfort to facilitating meaningful conversations and ensuring final wishes are honored, our role extends beyond conventional caregiving. 🤩 🌟 But here's where I need your help, friends. Despite the invaluable impact we make in the lives of those we serve, the profession of death doulas often remains in the shadows, unknown or misunderstood. That's why I'm requesting all of you to help me spread the word. Let's break down the stigma surrounding death and dying. Sharing this article, sparking conversations, or simply offering a listening ear can make a difference. Together, we can: 👍 Raise awareness about the transformative power of compassionate end-of-life care and how doulas can be part of the care team. 👍Empower individuals to make informed choices about their final wishes. 👍Foster open conversations about death and dying, creating a more supportive environment for all. I need your help to ensure that everyone facing life's final chapter receives the compassion, dignity, and support they deserve. Please: ⚡ Tag someone who might be interested ⚡ Share this with your network ⚡ Comment with your thoughts and questions Thank you for your support and for being part of this incredible journey with me. Together, we can make a profound impact that transcends life itself. ❣ #DeathDoula #EndOfLifeCare #Compassion #SpreadTheWord #HumanConnection #compassionatecrossings https://lnkd.in/eNX5BSAd

𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐚𝐟𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐧𝐨𝐨𝐧 𝐈 𝐡𝐚𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐝𝐨 𝐭𝐰𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 𝐈 𝐝𝐨 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐝𝐨 𝐥𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭𝐥𝐲: 1, Admit defeat 2, Ask for help I'm hardwired for fierce independence but sometimes you've got to know when you're beat. Sign up for Mama Mag (link in comments) and get the full, raw story delivered straight to your inbox tomorrow. #motherhood #workingmum #familypolicy

We all get good at putting on a brave face. This time of year is especially hard for those who are alone, grieving, or missing those they love. Appearances can be deceptive. It might even look as if they're having a great time. All too often it comes as a shock to discover the pain and suffering someone we think we know and love very well has been hiding. Even our neighbours and colleagues we know less well, we don't know what goes on behind closed doors. Reach out if in doubt. Reach out anyway. Send a message. Or better still, call them up. Check in on the people in your life. Send them some love. Let them know you care. Because we're all in this game of life together. Not all days are easy. Let's love each other a little bit more. And if it's you who is alone, struggling, in pain, or suffering in any way, reach out to those who are around you. People are rushing around so busy these days, especially during the festive season. They do not mean to not notice, they're just not looking, understanding, or taking time to stop and check. They do care. They just might need a reminder. Reach out. #charliemccready #parentalalienationcoach #parentalalienation #parentalalienationawareness #coparentingwithanarcissist #childcustody #childabuse #familycourt #highconflictdivorce #custody #custodybattle #parentalalienationischildabuse #parentalalienationisacrime #fathersrights #mothersrights #childrensrights #parentalrights #sharedparenting #parentalalienationsyndrome #familyviolence #fathersmatter #mothersmatter #survivingparentalalienation #generationaltrauma #parentalalienatingbehaviours #falseallegations #traumabonding #traumabond #coercivecontrol #narcissisticparent