"Honesty is a very expensive gift. Don't expect it from cheap people." Warren Buffet So, things have been better , much better, than they are now Question is, and I'll keep this recruitment centric - as a client/candidate do you want to be told what you want to hear, or do you want an honest appraisal of your situation Don't for a minute think there is any joy is telling someone that the spectacular offer they took 3 years ago is now well above what they reasonably could expect today I had a guy the other day get really fired up , and I get that , the pressure is immense and he was staring down the barrel of increasing living costs and his employer had just ceased to exist As it was very clear we both relished ( hate that word ) direct uncluttered conversation, I was able to articulate my thoughts in the same spirited manner and we bid our farewells with much gusto and finality Does he dislike or hate me - no , he is just a family man fearful for his ability to continue to provide and I was an outlet ( all recruiters are part time therapists by the way ) If things are not happening or you think something isn't quite right, you are probably right Ask for the honest advice and tell the recruiter or hiring manager you are keen to hear the truth and often you'll get a far different conversation - it may not be what you want to hear but it will be far more real and usable than being told everything is just dandy
Thanks Hugh for highlighting the need for honest and open interaction. As recruiters we will always endeavor to be as empathetic and sensitive as we can in delivering feedback - good, bad or ugly. Definitely better for all parties if we can be honest and make real and heartfelt recommendations. In the current market the therapist hat is being worn more full-time than part-time. We get that it is incredibly hard for people job seeking right now and genuinely want to do everything we can to help. It is also really challenging for our teams of recruiters who are navigating their own difficulties while supporting others. Let's keep the dialogue real and stay positive.
Product Manager at Xero
4moHi Hugh. yea, i think hearing an informed, educated assessment of the market and your own "fit" in it, would be gold. No point chasing opportunities that just arent there. Better to recognise the true market circumstance and pivot your expectations and strategies appropriately (as crushing as that might be). Hopefully you dont have too many "spirited" exchanges, but its nice that you can recognise where its coming from.