You might ask, what is a boundary and why is it so important? A boundary is a psychological, physical, and emotional limit that you set to protect and maintain your wellbeing. By setting a boundary, you know what you want and expect from others in your life as well as what is acceptable and healthy for you. Boundaries are very important as they help with establishing and maintaining relationships and protecting our mental health and overall wellbeing. At times, individuals can have unhealthy boundaries which can cause them to feel overwhelmed, stressed, anxious, have low self-esteem as well as having toxic and unhealthy relationships. According to Psychology Today, unhealthy boundaries can be caused by not being taught what boundaries are as a child, being a people pleaser, and being a caretaker or the “parentified” child growing up. It is important to set boundaries as they can help you establish your limits. Steps to building a boundary include: 1) Establish your limit: what do you value? What causes you stress or discomfort? 2) Be direct: clear communication is key to setting healthy boundaries as people cannot know what your limits are without you telling them 3) Avoid over-explaining yourself: be clear and confident in what you are saying; don’t feel need to over explain why you are setting the boundary 4) Practice what you want to say: this will help you communicate what your needs and limits are ahead of time. That way, you can say what you need to say when it needs to be said. 5) Stay consistent with your boundaries: stand your ground as your boundaries are limits you set based on your values. Stay consistent with your original decision as it can help with communicating with someone who might push back against your boundaries To learn more about the importance of boundaries and techniques that can help with setting limits, check out this article by Psychology Today that goes more in depth here: https://bit.ly/4e5jUmc
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High Performance Attitude "75% of complaints are made to vent or gain sympathy, but don’t boost mood. Of the 25% that are aimed at improving conditions, it may only be about two thirds of those that are successful, and they still drag down people’s moods." Philippians 2:14 Do all things without grumbling or disputing, The Basics 1. Complaining kills. 2. P.S.A. Instead of complaining, take control. 3. Get busy working on the best version of you. 4. Seek help when necessary. The Lesson Complaining kills ... the ability to design and implement healthy solutions, brain and bodily functions, and relationships. Complaints don't have to leave your lips to be destructive. Just ruminating about a complaint will harm you mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually, and socially. Remember a basic acronym: P. - Problem S. - Solution A. - Action Complaining keeps you stuck in the problem until you do something constructive with it. Take control. Identify the Problem. Seek out a healthy Solution. Get into Action. Identifying the problem and seeking out a solution are not enough. You MUST get into Action. To clean up complaining, you also need to unwarp your thinking and strengthen your character. Create / review the best version of you (your top 5 - 10 character assets you wish to master mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually, and socially). Get into action daily with healthy activities (30 - 60 minute events) and micro habits (2 - 5+ minute actions) that strengthens your best version. Start small. It's easier to discipline yourself to put them into action. Where possible, seek outside support. Whether professional help to work through mental health concerns, or a mentor to guide you through challenging times, knowing you have someone you can count on will support you in the process of transitioning complaints into constructive action. Questions? Need help with this? Reach out to us at: info@recoveryinthepines.com
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Dissociation is like your mind's way of taking a break from reality when things get too overwhelming or stressful. It’s a bit like daydreaming, but more intense and often out of your control. When you dissociate, you might feel disconnected from your thoughts, feelings, or surroundings, almost as if you’re watching yourself from the outside or in a dream. Imagine you’re at a busy party, and you suddenly start feeling very anxious. The noise, the people, and the excitement become too much. To cope, your mind starts to “shut off” a bit. You might feel like you’re floating above the scene, watching everything happen but not really feeling like you’re there. Your body feels numb, and sounds become distant, almost like you’re underwater. You see your friends talking and laughing, but it feels like they’re miles away. This is your mind's way of protecting you from the overwhelming situation by creating a barrier between you and the intense feelings or memories. Dissociation can happen in response to stress, trauma, or intense emotions and can be mild or severe, depending on the person and the situation. A therapist can help you understand why it happens, assist you in recognizing what triggers these episodes and teach grounding techniques to help you stay connected to the present moment. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- "Liberation-Based Therapy: Empowering Emotional Wellness Through Culturally Affirming, Strength-Based Healing in NY & NJ" 🫱🏽🫲🏻Book an Appointment: Link In Bio 🫱🏽🫲🏻 #Dissociation #MentalHealth #Trauma #EmotionalWellness #SelfAwareness #MentalHealth #Therapy #Psychotherapy #mentalhealthawareness #liberationbasedtherapy Image Description: Photo of three friends sitting on the couch in front of a birthday cake. Two of the friends are occupied on their phones while the friend in the middle is dissociating.
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“Kaam karlete hai baki sab to hota rahega”😷 From the past several years we have seen a million cases of people attempting to suicide because of mental pressure. In the hustle of life, it’s easy to celebrate productivity and efficiency while sidelining your mental health. But I’ve learned that true, sustainable growth comes when we strike a balance between the two.⚖️ For me, my mental health has always been a priority, and here’s why: 1.Boosts Productivity: A calm mind works smarter, not harder.💡 2.Ignites Creativity: A healthy mind is the foundation of innovative thinking.✍🏻 3.Prevents Burnout: Balancing work and well-being ensures career longevity.👨🏻💻 Personally, to take a little break from all the bundle of the workplace, I find joy in lifting weights, eating well, and traveling to different cities for a much-needed reset. These practices help me recharge my mind and show up everywhere as my best self.🤍 Some additional steps I follow include: ➡️Setting Boundaries: I stick to defined work hours and avoid letting my work spill into personal time. ➡️Taking Breaks: A quick workout or mindfulness activity between tasks helps me refocus. ➡️Communicating Openly: Speaking up when I feel overwhelmed has been a game-changer. Practical Tips for Everyone 1.Set Boundaries: Define your work hours and protect your personal time. 2.Incorporate Breaks: Use the “45-15” rule—45 minutes of work, 15 minutes of rest. 3.Build a Support Network: Lean on colleagues, friends, or mentors when needed. Precautions I’ve Found Useful ❌Avoid Overcommitting: Learning to say “no” is a skill worth mastering. ❌Digital Detox: I set screen-free hours to reduce mental fatigue. ❌Stay Active: Regular exercise releases stress-busting endorphins. Your mind is your greatest asset—taking care of it isn’t a luxury, it’s a necessity. How do you prioritize your mental health? Let’s share tips and support one another in the comments! Follow Jhalak Kalra for more!🙌🏻
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