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You might ask, what is a boundary and why is it so important? A boundary is a psychological, physical, and emotional limit that you set to protect and maintain your wellbeing. By setting a boundary, you know what you want and expect from others in your life as well as what is acceptable and healthy for you. Boundaries are very important as they help with establishing and maintaining relationships and protecting our mental health and overall wellbeing. At times, individuals can have unhealthy boundaries which can cause them to feel overwhelmed, stressed, anxious, have low self-esteem as well as having toxic and unhealthy relationships. According to Psychology Today, unhealthy boundaries can be caused by not being taught what boundaries are as a child, being a people pleaser, and being a caretaker or the “parentified” child growing up. It is important to set boundaries as they can help you establish your limits. Steps to building a boundary include: 1) Establish your limit: what do you value? What causes you stress or discomfort? 2) Be direct: clear communication is key to setting healthy boundaries as people cannot know what your limits are without you telling them 3) Avoid over-explaining yourself: be clear and confident in what you are saying; don’t feel need to over explain why you are setting the boundary 4) Practice what you want to say: this will help you communicate what your needs and limits are ahead of time. That way, you can say what you need to say when it needs to be said. 5) Stay consistent with your boundaries: stand your ground as your boundaries are limits you set based on your values. Stay consistent with your original decision as it can help with communicating with someone who might push back against your boundaries To learn more about the importance of boundaries and techniques that can help with setting limits, check out this article by Psychology Today that goes more in depth here: https://bit.ly/4e5jUmc

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