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Finding Balance: Juggling Motherhood and Career Finding balance between motherhood and a career is no easy feat, but it's possible with the right strategies. As mothers, we wear many hats - nurturer, provider, mentor, and professional. It's about finding harmony between these roles while prioritizing self-care and personal growth. In the midst of busy schedules and endless to-do lists, it's essential to carve out time for ourselves. Whether it's setting boundaries, delegating tasks, or practicing mindfulness, finding moments of peace and rejuvenation can make all the difference. Let's explore how to thrive in both our roles as mothers and professionals. By fostering a supportive network, setting realistic goals, and embracing flexibility, we can navigate the delicate balance of motherhood and career with grace and resilience. Together, let's embrace the journey of finding balance and empower each other to thrive in every aspect of our lives. #MomBoss #BalancingAct

Here is a reminder of what I do and why... I work with frazzled mothers in corporate IT to help them break free from the stressful hamster wheel and achieve an inspiring and balanced life. Motherhood is a beautiful experience, but its true charm unfolds only when you have the energy and space to relish it, slow down and be fully present with your family. Otherwise, it can become the most stressful, overwhelming, and draining aspect of life. Pursuing a career in IT can be rewarding and fulfilling, but once again, this holds true only when you've mastered the skills to harmonize work with your personal responsibilities. I believe that every mum should have it all, however, the path is not as straightforward as it may appear; it requires a solid structure, well-defined boundaries, realistic expectations, and a shift in mindset. I'm here to help you attain all of these, enabling you to have the inspiring and balanced life that every working mother in corporate IT deserves. Contact me to have a chat if you want that fulfilling life! #workingmums #Womenleaders #Womenintech #worklifebalance #workingmoms #professionalwomen

Are you looking to thrive as a working mother and not just survive??? Maybe you're feeling overwhelmed by the balancing act of working motherhood? Do you ever feel like you’re caught in a whirlwind of responsibilities, trying to juggle it all while society’s expectations seem to weigh you down? You’re not alone!! I’m excited to introduce my 5 Truths Every Working Mother Needs to Know: A 5-Day Reality Check email series designed just for you. This series is crafted with one purpose in mind: to empower you with the knowledge and strategies you need to thrive. Over 5 days, you’ll uncover: 🔍 Why society’s structures may not be built for us and how to navigate them. 🧠 The concept of matrescence and why understanding it can transform your experience. ⚖️ The difference between motherhood and parenting and how separating them can help you find balance. 🌟 How to reframe self-care from a fleeting luxury to practical energy management. 🛤️ Why redefining modern motherhood on your terms is essential for your well-being. And it's all from the comfort of your own inbox which means you can dive into the content in your time, at your own pace and when it suits you ... and you can go through it as many times as you like Join me for a journey of self-discovery and empowerment, and get practical tips to create a more balanced and fulfilling life. Ready to find your footing and thrive? Click the link to sign up and get started --> https://lnkd.in/d7XAjAHn #WorkingMoms #Motherhood #WorkLifeBalance #Matrescence #SelfCare #Empowerment #LinkedInFamily

Have you watched it yet? In this new free webinar my aim is to give you information that you might not yet know. And the truth is that the working world doesn't know what do with us working mothers ... but we know what to do, right? Have a watch and let me know what you think. I promise it's a good way to spend your lunch break 😂 #balancingbrilliance #careerbalance #workingparents #NewWebinar #NewIdeas P.S. Let me know what you found most surprising!

𝐅𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐁𝐚𝐥𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞: 𝐀 𝐉𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐲 𝐓𝐡𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡 𝐖𝐨𝐫𝐤 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐌𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐡𝐨𝐨𝐝  How do you balance work and motherhood? There is such beauty in the chaos. So often, in our quest for excellence, we forget the delicate steps of balancing between our personal life and professional life. Being a mother and a professional has taught me that taking time out for ourselves as well as for our loved ones is not only important but essential. Waking up to the joyous chaos of my children each morning reminds me of the beauty in the little moments. Of course, days are there when work becomes really demanding, and I think most of you will agree. That is when I take a moment and reflect on, What truly matters? As women, we wear many hats, and motherhood is special in addition to it. It teaches patience, tenacity, and the art of multi-tasking. So, let's celebrate the beauty of complexity by embracing and standing for one another to find balance. I want to hear your story: how do you make your way through the tangled paths of work and motherhood? Let's inspire each other to accept the chaos and find joy in the ride. Together, we redefine success on our own terms. Here’s to balancing it all and thriving while doing so! #WorkLifeBalance #motherhood #empowerment #WomenInLeadership

Want to know why you're struggling with balance? I go into 3 secrets that we don't know about as working mothers and what we can do about it in my new FREE webinar. I talk about: 1️⃣ Why we struggle 2️⃣ 2 truths about motherhood (that surprised me!) 3️⃣ A 6x6 matrix to success. Watch this new webinar and let me know what you think! Here's the link --> https://lnkd.in/dWn3iece It's free and on-demand so you can watch it in your own time. Let me know if you have any questions or any comments and what suprised YOU the most once you've watched it #balancingbrilliance #careerbalance #NewWebinar #workingparents

Baby Cole is 6 months old already! It’s hard to keep track of the days once a newborn arrives which makes it even more difficult to believe that we have reached this incredible milestone. Since he is 6 months, I’d love to share 6 key lessons that I've learned along the way: 1️⃣ Adaptability is Key Embracing change and being flexible is crucial for success in both parenting and the workplace. ⁠ 2️⃣ Prioritise Your Well-being Whether it’s taking a break to recharge or asking for help, self-care is essential. A healthy mind and body empower us to perform at our best, both at home and in our careers. 3️⃣ Embrace Teamwork Surrounding myself with my husband, family, colleagues and friends has been invaluable in maintaining high standards in our businesses (and at home). 4️⃣ Set Boundaries Balancing work and motherhood has taught me the importance of establishing boundaries to maintain focus and ensure quality time with my little one. 5️⃣ Celebrate Small Wins It’s easy to feel overwhelmed with the responsibility of being a parent. Recognising and celebrating the small milestones helps maintain motivation and positivity. 6️⃣ I leave this one to you! What’s the sixth piece of advice you’d like to share? Here’s to all the parents balancing their careers and family life. Happy 6 month milestone Baby Cole 😊 #BusinessWoman #WorkLifeBalance #Milestones

Anyone who claims they’re ‘doing it all’ is lying to you. I do my version of ‘all,’ based on my core priorities. It’s not about juggling everything perfectly; it’s about redefining what ‘having it all’ means on my terms. Here’s what that looks like for me: I’ve never felt the need to be ‘supermom.’ That word alone perpetuates outdated expectations that lead to burnout and resentment. Raising my kids has never been JUST my responsibility. My husband and I both chose to have kids, so we both share the responsibility. There’s no default ‘mom role’ in our household—it’s a partnership. We’re both equally accountable for the mental load. That means I’m not the default parent for planning birthday parties or remembering doctor’s appointments. Our secret to balance? We’ve had caregiving support from day one. We’ve intentionally built a support system that allows us both to find fulfillment as parents and professionals. I don’t do it all myself. Those who seem like they’re ‘doing it all’ aren’t doing it themselves either. Don’t compare yourself to that mom. I recognize that having access to caregiving support is a privilege. Support comes in many forms—family, friends, flexible work, etc. I encourage every parent to define what ideal/realistic support looks like for your family and accept help where you can. Nearly every modern woman feels pressured to ‘do it all’—to be the perfect mom (whatever that means), have a thriving career (there are always trade-offs), and maintain a spotless home (ha!). That’s a recipe for burnout, not fulfillment. The only way we can reframe this toxic narrative is by rejecting that expectation and sharing the reality of how we’re actually making a career + motherhood work together. Let’s stop glorifying the idea of ‘doing it all’ and start valuing the concept of doing what matters. What expectations have you felt pressured to meet as a mom/parent? #workmom #workingmother #workingmom #doingitall Follow me Mel Goodman for more on how to combine an ambitious career with motherhood 💜✌🏼

For how long do you think you can continue like this? Balancing motherhood and a career in IT can be exceptionally challenging, leaving you with the constant sensation of being pulled in two directions simultaneously. Unrealistic expectations, the weight of mummy guilt, and persistent frustration only intensify the strain. It's too simple to become overwhelmed by the routine demands and duties, fostering a sense of perpetual stagnation. However, I strongly believe that there is a way for mothers in IT to break free from the hamster wheel and rediscover the joy of life. Let yourself breathe, be inspired, take time for your passions, and have fun. I am Eszter and I work with frazzled mothers in IT to help them break free from the hamster wheel so that they can achieve an inspiring and balanced life. Contact me if you feel that life is too short and it is time for you to start living. #workingmums #Womenleaders #Womenintech #worklifebalance #workingmoms #professionalwomen

𝐈 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐚 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐟𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐦𝐚𝐲 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐣𝐮𝐝𝐠𝐞 𝐦𝐞 ... I could not wait to get back to work after my twins were born! There ... I said it! As a woman who has always been focused on being a high-achiever: 🟢 I thrived on CERTAINTY 🟢 I liked getting things DONE 🟢 I was used to being in CONTROL 🟢 I liked being able to be ORGANISED 🟢 I was a more than a bit of a PERFECTIONIST 🟢 I was used to getting RECOGNITION and VALIDATION from my work And motherhood - and working motherhood in particular: 🔴 Is often unpredictable 🔴 Can be all-consuming 🔴 Can feel out of control 🔴 Has a lot of chaos and mess 🔴 Contains a lot of gray without much certainty 🔴 Has a multitude of invisible work that no-one acknowledges So yes ... I was desperate to get back to work! Back to my sanctuary of structure and accomplishment (and a lot more adult conversation 😂 ) And if this is you too ... know that it’s understandable! Motherhood can be a whirlwind of unpredictability. It doesn't make us "bad" mothers ... ... it makes us mothers who know what they need! It makes us mothers who're working to integrate our new worlds! It makes us driven, focused and motivated! So if this you ... I admire your honesty about these feelings, as they're not often openly discussed. It’s crucial to acknowledge and embrace the complexity of our emotions as we navigate different roles in life. If you’d like to share more about your experiences or simply connect over similar challenges, I’d love to hear from you! #balancingbrilliance #careerbalance #workingparents #confessionsofaworking #ReturnToWork P.S. We have so many things that we feel guilty for as working parents, so let's take "wanting to work" off that never-ending list, ok? 😀 P.P.S. First Father's Day pic ⬇️ almost all the "babies" made it into the pic ... and no he didn't drop the baby 🤣