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"Why aren't all men horrified by the rise in male violence against women?" I don't have a good answer to this question, and it it's very disturbing to consider. My theory would be a combination of internalized patriarchy and misogyny that have been perniciously embedded into our society over the years by powerful men whose views of people have been warped by their trauma and reinforced by capitalism (a system whose logic—of competition and accumulation at the expense of others and disregarding our collective humanity—parallels the concept of toxic masculinity). According to official violent crime data for the U.S. (which is limited in what it can tell us because it only counts official reports), men experience violence at a level similar to women. The key difference is that men experience gendered violence at a significantly lower rate than women, so most men may not fully realize the prevalence of gendered violence and its effects. Lived experience is more likely to cause a more visceral and intense response, and, unfortunately, many more women have the lived experience of gendered violence. It's worth noting that men commit ~80% of violent crimes in the U.S. In other words, men are significantly more likely to be violent than women. The underlying question, to me, is: What are the root causes? What makes humans behave in this way? And, why is there a gender difference? That leads to an even bigger question: If we are the most advanced species on the planet, why are we abusing, neglecting, and killing each other? Why does the U.S. spend more on a killing apparatus (the military) than on ways to heal? The first step toward solving a problem is acknowledging that it exists. The second is deeply studying and understanding it. We have a lot of work to do, on an individual and collective level (and on a range of issues). It seems like this conversation is becoming more common and open (at least based on my social circles and the media I consume), and I hope the discourse continues to grow and lead to meaningful changes.

Sexual assault survivors sometimes hesitate to report due to experiences of institutional betrayal and lack of trust in the system. These institutions must acknowledge the harm they've caused, hold perpetrators accountable, and work to earn back the trust of survivors. It is crucial to critically examine the systems that enable violence against women, and to never blame the victims. Read more from Ms. Magazine: https://bit.ly/4c16yqW

Violence against women and girls is one of the most common forms of violation of human rights. Data shared by United Nations says that every 10 minutes, a woman is killed in this world. Unbelievable! Domestic violence plays a major role in this. Unfortunately, almost every society expects that a woman must stick it out in a relationship even though it lacks respect and can be dangerous for her. One of my favourite films is "Thappad", which shows us how a slap is more than just a slap. It is actually a red flag that indicates the start of a brutal future. It's inspiring to watch how the chief protagonist fights against it by filing for divorce, much to the embarassment and disapproval of her own family. The film is a very realistic take on how we, as a society, look at violence against women. I sincerely hope that every woman watches it and draws the much needed courage that can help her to stand up for herself in a similar situation. #InternationalDayForEliminationOfViolenceAgainstWomen #EndViolenceAgainstWomen #InternationalDayForEliminationOfViolenceAgainstWomen #WomenEmpowerment #BreakTheSilence #StopDomesticViolence #RespectWomen #NoToViolence #EqualityForAll #RaiseAwareness #StandUpForWomen

Feminicide is the murder of a woman by a man due to machismo or misogyny. In most cases, the perpetrator is her partner. However, while the official statistics are alarming, they barely scratch the surface of the full reality. The number of abused women who end up committing suicide, let themselves die, or succumb to the physical or psychological consequences of abuse is countless. Tragically, these women are not even counted as another statistic; they are completely forgotten. It is vital to recognize these women as victims and dismantle the complex social, political, cultural, institutional, and economic network that renders invisible the suicide of abused women, which is just another form of feminicide. #FeminicideAwareness #StopGenderViolence #WomenRights #EndDomesticAbuse #SupportSurvivors #GenderEquality

The recent tragic murder of Kristina Joksimovic has once again brought to light the sickening and depraved acts of violence that women face daily. This is not just an isolated incident, it is a reflection of a pervasive issue that plagues our society. Kristina's story is once again a reminder of the dangers women encounter, even in their own homes. This level of violence is not just a crime, it is a manifestation of a deeply rooted societal problem where some men feel entitled to control and harm women. How did we get here? How have we allowed such violence to become so normalised that it barely shocks us anymore? Each story of a woman lost to domestic violence should ignite outrage and action, not fade into the background as just another statistic. It's time for a collective awakening. We need to challenge the toxic norms that perpetuate male dominance and entitlement. We must advocate for stronger support systems for women, ensuring they have safe spaces to turn to. Education and awareness are key in reshaping attitudes and promoting respect and equality. We must demand women's lives are valued and protected, and they can live without fear. #EndViolenceAgainstWomen #DomesticViolenceAwareness #MensViolenceAgainstWomen #KristinaJoksimovic #SocietalChange #DomesticAbuse #CoerciveControl https://lnkd.in/eJw_RBNr

Trigger warning. Worth reading.

Until men consistently, powerfully, and determinedly call out the violence, sexism and misogyny of women by other men—be it their fathers, brothers, sons, friends, co-workers, or any male figures-- who are harming, objectifying, threatening, shaming, intimidating, groping, raping, harassing, and more, women of all ages and professions, are in danger. Inherent in the silence of the "good" men, is the acceptance of the violence, sexism, and misogyny of the "bad" men. NOTE: The author of this piece is Tom Meagher who's wife was raped and killed by a man. Below are a few key points from his article. * "According to an EU-wide study conducted in 2010, one person in five knows of someone who commits domestic violence in their circle of friends and family (Special Eurobarometer 344, Domestic Violence Against Women Report, September 2010)." * " I'd been socialised to believe that men who rape are jabbering madmen, who wear tracksuit bottoms with dress shoes and knee-high socks. The only thing more disturbing than that paradigm is the fact that most rapists are normal guys, guys we might work beside or socialise with, our neighbours or even members of our family." * "We cannot separate these cases from one another because doing so allows us to ignore the fact that all these crimes have exactly the same cause - violent men, and the silence of non-violent men. " https://lnkd.in/esKzNMwa

The consequences of online violence against women are multifaceted and highly damaging, not only for the individual victims but for girls and women throughout society. If it goes unchecked, the abuse will increasingly see girls and women self-limit one of the few freedoms left to them in Afghanistan – their online freedom. But withdrawing won’t stop the violence. If anything, it appears to only increase violence against women who continue to use the platforms, and even in real life. The loss of social media platforms as a tool for women’s empowerment is a serious consequence that cannot be underestimated in the context of Taliban rule. As Manuel Castells, a prominent communications theorist, puts it, social media is the “power of the powerless.” He refers to the fact that movements can use social media to amplify their voices to the world. This reality aligns closely with the current situation of women in Afghanistan. At a time when the Taliban have denied women the ability to protest in the streets, social media remains the only platform for Afghan women and girls to express their resistance. https://lnkd.in/eE6SSiYj

The recent case of a young woman being held prisoner and tortured is another disturbing reminder of the horrifying realities of male violence. Yet, once this story fades from headlines, we must ask ourselves, what are we truly doing to confront and dismantle the normalisation of such brutality? No shocking news story will change things if we don’t start educating our young men about respect, consent, and the true impact of male violence. These brutal behaviors are being normalised - and that has to stop. #EndMaleViolence #MaleViolence #ViolenceAgainstWomen #EducationMatters #BreakTheCycle #ProtectWomen #Society #TimeForChange #SaferSocietyForAll

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