Act Like a Kid
When it comes to our kids, we guard what they read, what they listen to, who they associate with (now more than ever) and listen to what they say. We encourage our kids to read more than they watch TV. We encourage our kids to listen to CDs from pastors, business people, and others who have led "successful lives". We certainly curb the music they listen to as many pop songs today have lewd undertones. We certainly make sure they are hanging out with kids who are good and come from a good home. Lastly, we expect our kids to have a positive attitude around the house and yes sir, no ma'am and be respectful.
When does the switch flip as adults? I see so many adults neglecting to read anything at all, well besides Facebook (no offense Mr. Zuckerberg). I mean, come on, what is the last book you picked up and read that could add value to your life? And listening, if you watch TV (we really do not) you see the advertisements or worse off the news that is full of negativity and trying to make you feel less and less unless you own the latest and greatest _______________. Then, we hang around certain people, albeit the office, softball field, bars, etc who maybe are heading in a direction we really don't want to be going, but hey, we're friends. Lastly, we puke gossip and negativity around like it was a bar of gold.
How about setting a new standard? Pick up one of the old classics like How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie. Or a book like Personality Plus, or The Five Love Languages, a Purpose Driven Life.....something, anything. And listening, pick up some CD's or download something, anything that can add value to your life as you drive in to work. Maybe something on confidence, sales, a new language.
Who do you hang out with? Where will they be in 5 years? Are you satisfied with that? Them? You? Hit up a networking event, meet some new people. Try something new. Try a workout class. Heck, Try CrossFit, or Zumba, or Tae Kwon Do. Find a new skill and meet some new people. Volunteer at a homeless shelter.
Lastly, bring GOOD NEWS to people. Add value to their life with a nice, sincere compliment. Tell a good story with a great outcome showing love, or courage, or overcoming.
If you want to invoke change, you have to change your mind. To change your mind, you must change your input....what you see, hear,.touch, feel. Once you change your input over and over and over again, your mind will change and alas, your outcome and outlook will change.
Former Business Owner
10yI loved this article. We need these constant reminders to look for the positive in life. I read a fantastic book recently called Beautiful Outlaw by John Eldridge. It is about the personality of Jesus, and I've been recommending it to all my friends!