ABC of Overcoming Challenges

ABC of Overcoming Challenges

As we prepare to embrace the new year 2025, our journey forward will undoubtedly present us with new challenges. This article outlines a simple yet effective framework—the ABC of Overcoming Challenges—to inspire and guide our path.

The two alphabets that precede C (Challenge) are A and B. For me, these stand for:

  • A: Awareness
  • B: Building Skillsets


Awareness

The process of awareness begins with the three R’s:

  1. Reflecting: Analyze past experiences to understand patterns and lessons.
  2. Requesting Feedback: Actively seek insights from mentors, peers, or colleagues.
  3. Reassessing Successes and Failures: Take stock of what worked and what didn’t, and adjust your strategies accordingly.

This process will help you identify areas requiring improvement, skill enhancement, and new learning. Additionally, other effective methods to discover shortcomings include:

  • Venturing into uncharted paths.
  • Taking on responsibilities you haven’t tackled before, with guidance and support from a mentor.
  • Stretching beyond your current limits to test your resilience and adaptability.

Building Skillsets

Building skillsets demands energy, resources (time, money, guidance, and advice), and above all, a growth mindset. Ask yourself: Can I achieve all my learning objectives in one year? The honest answer is no. Mastering new skills takes time and consistent effort.

However, with a solid Roadmap and by Tracking Progress, you can steadily move forward. These two components act as the wheels of skill development.

This reminds me of the Magic Number { 10 } —not the jersey number of Messi, but the principle of aiming for 10% improvement each time. Small, incremental growth compounds into remarkable achievements over time.

Conquering Challenges

During my school days, I learned about the preparation of an Indian Army squad to conquer Mount Everest. After rigorous training, their coach posed a question: What is the single most important thing required to climb Mount Everest? The team suggested numerous items to bring for the trek, but none satisfied the coach. He finally revealed the answer: “Mount Everest itself.”

This story teaches us that challenges are not obstacles to avoid but essential elements for discovering our inner strength. They don’t exist to showcase our achievements but to unlock our hidden potential.

The three companions that will guide you in the final phase of conquering challenges are:

  • Hope and Optimism: Believe in brighter outcomes.
  • A Never-Give-Up Mindset: Persist through setbacks.
  • Collaboration: Seek help, guidance, and advice when needed.


Summary

In your journey to overcome challenges, keep this mantra close to your heart:

  1. Be Aware of your weaknesses.
  2. Focus on Building the skills to overcome them.
  3. Take on Challenges with hope, a never-give-up attitude, and the flexibility to adapt your path.

Remember, challenges are not the end of the road—they are stepping stones to success. With resilience, collaboration, and a clear vision, you can overcome any obstacle.

The 3S’s hidden in the spelling of Success are:

  1. Set Goals
  2. Stay Focused
  3. _______________

Now, I invite you to think of your own "S" that is part of your success journey.

Let’s conquer 2025 together!

Samir Esa Mulla

Senior Projects Manager at ALEC (B.E. Civil / P.M.P.)

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Amazing Simple Technique to dream and achieve goals...Good 1 Mr Gor.

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