Adjusting Dreams

Do you have certain dreams where you wish to achieve in different periods of your life?

I guess every human should have few of them to keep the momentum of life going forward. Some of our dreams are materialistic or spiritual achievements. Some are personal ones whereas some of the dreams are known to each other.

So, this month I will share my ideas about dreams adjusting.

Once you create a better personal annual plan for 2023, the next step will be about goal setting for your long-term dreams. Mind you the hardest part is achieving the goals in the desired periods in life.

Because some paths of achieving your dreams are hard whereas some paths are easy according to the perspective of the individual being. I have seen people especially students easily give up their dreams once they fail in their first attempt. That means they do not have the warrior spirit to fight back due to various reasons.

I feel that our society highlights many successful stories and the personalities in their present successful state. This indirectly cause inferiority complex and low esteem amongst the less fortunate ones. Also, it can trigger in a motivational way for some persons. Even very few famous personalities highlight/share their drawbacks, obstacles or challenges that they had faced while facing their present victorious life.

Hence, you need to have a strong mindset to write your own story by being a role model to the society by taking risks and facing challenges. Initially, there can be many positive or negative comments from the society. But once you achieve your dream, the society may wonder how you did it in your own way.

Most of all, you need to eliminate your self-doubt and work according to a plan with determination. In this case my 3Ps come into the assistance. They are patience, persistence and perspiration. These 3Ps are like an equilateral triangle as all three of them should be practiced by yourself in equal percentages.

I still wonder why humans compare their precious life with others without identifying their uniqueness just as their DNA code. You can look into the life of fellow humans for good lessons by reading their biographies but your success timeline is not similar/identical to the other person.

Dear readers, never give up on your dreams! Just try to achieve it with flexible practical adjustments of your life. Even your dreams can be adjusted due to the challenges that you face in life. Adjustment of dreams should be viewed as a normal activity too.

In the meantime, here are the few things that you need to focus as a fighter for survival in the modern world.

In fact, this is my recipe of happiness.

·        work smart

·        eat healthy

·        build faith

·        worry less

·        network well

·        read more

·        relax often

·        exercise daily

·        love always

·        volunteer for meritorious acts

·        be mentally positive and strong

(This article originally appeared in Probe- January 2023)

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