THE ART OF ASKING EXCELLENT QUESTIONS

The moment you ask a question, the brain becomes fixated on finding an answer to that specific question. This makes questions one of the most powerful tools at your disposal – forget expensive tools and complex strategies!

The right question, asked at the right time, with silent pauses while your client considers it, can completely shift your relationship and influence their future behavior.

When you ask a question, you get an answer.

When you ask an excellent question, you get the truth.

Asking excellent questions helps your client identify their real, underlying motivation: the emotion they want to experience, the childhood dream they want to realize, the ‘why’ driving them to work with you.

This applies to all the services you offer:

• Client A, seeking a financial advisor, wants the certainty that they can send his kids or grandkids to the university of their choice. The retirement plan is the tool, what they really want is peace of mind.

• Client B, seeking expertise from a notary, wants to cement her legacy by leaving money to her favorite charity. The will is the tool, what they’re really seeking is self-actualization.

Asking excellent questions flips the conversation on its head.

When you give your client the opportunity to confide their deepest desires, deepest fears and hungriest ambitions, they will be loyal for life.

You see, in business, you’re a solution to a problem. Your client has a problem, an unresolved desire, and they are looking for a guide; a trusted advisor to take them from where they are now to where they want to be and show them a clear pathway to follow.

When you have the confidence to ask thoughtful but challenging questions – being assertive and disruptive when necessary – you become that trusted guide in their eyes.

The number of questions you can ask is limitless, and over time you’ll create your own go-to questions. They are tools in your toolbox, and you’ll want to have a variety to choose from for different situations.

• Clarifying questions: Clarifying questions help you and your clients define what they want. These questions open up a universe of possibilities for your client, where excuses and limitations don’t exist.
•  Reality-check questions: Reality-check questions disrupt the busy flow of everyday thoughts and pressures and uncover objections and excuses that could sabotage your efforts.  
•  Gear-shifting questions: Ultimately, the client or potential client has come to you for guidance and answers – so how do you change the direction of the conversation from their goals and desires to how they can achieve them? By asking gear-shifting questions that focus on a solution and working together.

The challenge here for many professional advisors is not to get too technical and to talk ‘over’ the client with industry jargon. Keep in mind this rule of thumb: 90% of the conversation should be focused on the transformation they will live, and 10% on the ‘how’ we’ll do it.

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