Brighten Your Future

By: Qamar Abbas

Kids are preeminent assets of human beings. Humans have faith in deeply on learning for child development. Because we are not born knowing how to behave in society, we have to acquire many manners from the environment around us growing up. Everyone starts learning with the family at home. Who is among us, who can even think about the ominous future of our child, but we can not accomplish the bright future of our children just on our hopes and wishes. To make the bright future of our children's dreams accurate, we have to manipulate a well-defined strategy for our children's future. Here I am going to briefly describe the approach that will make your children's future more secure.

1.   Good thoughts make a good life

Usually, parents always worried about the happy life of their children. The meaning of happy life in their term is the excess of Corporeal; however, happiness can't be achieved through these Corporeal. Happiness comes in your life by thinking about life with a positive attitude. There is no escape from sorrows and unwanted circumstances in this life. Whatsoever you can do, do it, but you won't be able to defend your child from bad times.

Yes, of course, there is a way to cool down the fire of sorrows on spur children, and that is to give a positive approach to your child about life. Tell them, the hard times in this world always produces the best human beings, so in this regard, these hard times are blessings of Almighty Allah. On one side, these hard times grow up human beings in the best way; on the other hand, these are blessings from Almighty Allah. Take these challenging times as a challenge; in the end, the same worries laid down some people will give you the delightful moments.

2.   The habit of being hard-working

The second thing is that our children must have is the habit of hard work. Parents always try to behave with their children with love and sympathy, but sometimes unnecessary sympathy would make their life troubled in the future. Too much love can make your children lazy. There is no chance of success for lazy people in this world. Success can only be achieved by hard-working, intellectual power, and mental ability. It also highlights itself on the shoulders of hard-working. An English quote is, genius is ninety percent perspiration and only ten percent inspiration.

Make your children habitual of mentally and physically hard-working since childhood, and don't wait to grow up your children for this. In the elder stage, these habits will be permanent, and someone can't change these habits. Practices are done in childhood, not in the more senior setting.

3.   Your child learns from you

The child is a complete copier, who will learn everything from you or the environment you provided them, so what you want your child be, be yourself like that, and offer them such atmosphere. The child will adopt the same habits, which the elders do practice. you can't expect that they will hate the evils by just reading it in a book; it's impossible.

In the modern world, there is another problem. Children spend most of their time on TV instead of their parents. Media have their interests; for this reason, they highlight gender, agony, and romance. Now, if you hand over your children to these TV programs, they must be affected. So, take this matter seriously. This cheap entertainment can darken your children's future. Limited yourself and your children to the media, which belongs to schooling and optimistic character building, and don't cross that limits.

4.   Personal attention and direct dialog

The time passed when children were growing by themselves. Now, every child requires special attention. The evils of society will grasp to your children instead of your all cares. Who is your relationship that will defend them from these evils? Your friendly attitude and direct dialog are the key factors that will make you able to discuss openly harmful elements of society and will be able to tell them that these elements don't belong to our religion and civilization. If you don't do that, your children will inquire about these things to their indiscreet friends and take information from fribbles books, which will harm their mental strength and lead them towards immoralities.