Coaching Commentary #6: Article 1 on Self-Mastery

Coaching Commentary #6: Article 1 on Self-Mastery

[Coach Tom’s Commentary] Self-Mastery is one of the three essentials in being engaged at work – the other two being autonomy and purpose. Being valued as an employee is only possible when one is competent and delivering quality work. Self-mastery is a hallmark of being in control of your being and emotions, which is fundamental to achieving the next higher level of proficiency.

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Awareness in Self Mastery

Consciousness is one’s responsiveness, or ability to recognize something. The brain has three levels of networks, which comprise of the cognizant, sub conscious and unconscious mind. The cognizant or conscious mind encloses information in which it travels to the short and long-term memory. The long-term memory is segments of one’s memory that retains experiences permanently, whereas the short-term memory only stores memory temporary in parts of the mind.

The subliminal or sub conscious mind contains all the information we have obtained throughout our lifespan. All that we see, hear, smell, touch, learn, or experience is retained in this vicinity of the brain. This quarter of the brain contains undisclosed messages in which it will expose when a memory starts to develop in fragments. The unconscious (automatic) mind is where our self, individuality works instinctively. Some theorists deem the unconscious mind as the inadvertent mind. This is because some behaviors we display are unintentionally acted upon by signals we receive from the unconscious mind. Behaviors are physical actions, such as reacting to some thought. For instance, you may think of buying a bathtub, yet until you have purchased the tub, you have not shown any behavioral reactions from your thoughts.

Self-mastery is a process that requires that we use all areas of the mind to obtain our goal in building mental, physical, and emotional strength. Consciousness brings us to realization. It relates to the physical body, simply because when some force whether seen or unseen triggers the emotions, thus mental processes develop, which reflect on one’s behaviors.

Because our mind works in several ways, one must wonder if it transcends any physical reactions of the body by receiving signals from the nervous system. Along these lines, an entity would have to appreciate that the brain and nervous system works in harmony. Learning about the anatomy is a great way to decide how the mind works with the nervous system – and how it can help you expand self-mastery skills.

The anatomy framework: The neuron, or nerve cells have a shared purposeful element in which consist of cell bodies, such as dendrites (The branched extensions of nerve cells) – axon [Extensions of nerve cells) – and these cell bodies border myelin sheath, or the nerve-insulated layers of myelin. The neurons conduct impulses in which these impulses feed and transmit to the synapse (gap amid nerve endings) and then to the muscles – glands and the organs.

Our anatomy makes up neurotransmitters. These transmitters act to produce serotonin, (chemicals that derive from amino acid tryptophan and distributes widely to the tissues) which also helps to constrict blood vessels at the injury sites, and can affect the emotional state. This is important if you are working on self-mastery skills, since self-mastery is the process of taking control of your emotions. Our anatomy makes up acetylcholine, (Transmitters of nerve impulses) dopamine, (Chemical compound in the brain) endorphins, norepinephrine, gamma – aminoburytic acid, etc. It helps to conduct the impulses from corner to corner to the synapse.

The CNS (Central Nervous System) links to the brain and the spinal cord in which the nervous system controls our frontal, parietal, temporal, and the occipital lobes at the front of the brain. Each of these lobes serve to signal and cause reactions to either allocate one to perform mentally, exploit motor skills, feel, hear, smell, taste, and so forth.

Descartes supposed, “That the mind could have a direct influence on the body.” He pointed out that our decisions “to improve our health causes us to exercise.” If you think about it, the mind will also draw up negativity to encourage you to find every reason why you shouldn’t exercise. Descartes stated, “The body could have a direct influence on the mind.”

Battling Life Stresses in Self Mastery

When you are down and out are not feeling too good about things that are happen to you or what is happen around you. You do not know what to do or how to act any more. When you feel sad often and unhappy, it is often because you dwell on negative things in life, when you should be thinking about the positive things that are in your life. Although this is not going to be something that can be over night for your going to have to work on it this can be done. This is when self-mastering skill come in to play. Your thinking how or what does self-mastering skills have to do with feel better about your self. Well I hope I will be able to help you to understand how this all is going to play a part in your life.

What are self-mastering skills? These are skills that you use every day and just do not know we are using them or that we do not know how to use them so hopefully by the time you are done reading this is you will know and understand more about self-mastering skill and how they work in your every day life. Self-mastery skills and abilities is one’s strength that helps them to take control of their behaviors, mental processes, and emotional reactions. Self-mastery is a human strength then that empowers you to reach for a better tomorrow.

When you get mad what do you do blow up right most of us do, this is some the norm for most of us. When we want to use your self-mastering skills we are going to try to find ways to stay calm, so if this means that we have to count to ten front wards and back wards then this is what we are going to have to do. For some reason you find that this is not going to work for you then you might want to try to find something else that will work for you. There are many things that you can do to stay calm all your going to have to do is to figure it out. This may mean that you are going to have to dig deep with thin your self to try to get the right method that is going to work for you.

Different methods work different ways on people what may work for may not work for others. This is when you are going to have to be able to sit down and find all the ways there is to be able to find the right method that is going to work for you. Sometimes you have to step back and remember that you are going to overcome the problems. Sometimes you have to take it one day at a time and set goals. By setting goals, you will have something to reach for in your life. Then you make another goal and so on.

In order to do this you might have to have some time to your self to be able to figure this out. When you decided this is something that you want to do then you may want to go and pick a nice quite place where you are able to think. You not going to be able to figure out the best way for you to start to work on your self-mastering skills if you are not able to sit down and send some time with your self this is what learn self-mastering skills is all about.

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Thomas Lim, thanks for sharing insights on self-mastery! It's a good reminder for all to set apart time for ourselves and to deliberate this mastery.

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