Control Your Mind from Overthinking
Patricia K. Flanigan, Ed.D.
Smart Strategies for Successful Living: Your Online Resource for a Happier and Healthier Lifestyle
Our thoughts have an incredible influence over our words, actions, and decision-making. They can propel us forward or hold us back. While our mind is capable of great things, it can also be our biggest obstacle if left unchecked. It has the ability to trap us in a cycle of fixating on things beyond our control, leading to constant dwelling on the past or excessive worry about the future. This is the dangerous territory of overthinking.
Identifying the Signs of Overthinking
It's important to understand the difference between problem-solving, self-reflection, and overthinking. Problem-solving involves finding solutions, while overthinking entails endlessly pondering the problem itself. Self-reflection allows us to gain meaningful perspective and move forward, whereas overthinking keeps us trapped in negativity. Healthy thinking leads to productive changes, while overthinking fuels sleepless nights and stressful days, as we become trapped in an endless loop of unresolvable thoughts.
Are you overthinking? Look out for these signs:
(1) Your brain won't shut off, keeping you awake at night.
(2) Embarrassing moments and mistakes haunt your thoughts.
(3) You spend too much time dwelling on "what if" and "why me" questions.
(4) Making decisions becomes a struggle.
(5) Regret and self-doubt plague you as you replay missed opportunities.
(6) Living in the present feels challenging.
(7) Stress consumes you over things beyond your control.
(8) Your past holds you back, preventing you from embracing the present and future.
(9) Your fear of judgment stops you from being your true self.
(10) Negative thoughts take a toll on your mental and physical health.
Ways to Control Overthinking
Discover the keys to conquering overthinking with these powerful steps:
Identify your triggers:
Gain awareness of what sets off overthinking and use this knowledge to reshape your response.
Gain perspective:
Understand the root causes of your fears and worries, without blowing them out of proportion. Embrace the reality.
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Embrace healthy distractions:
Engage in activities like meditation, exercise, or immersing yourself in nature to distance yourself from negativity. Clear your mind and regain focus.
Practice mindfulness:
Train your mind to live in the moment and be mindful of your surroundings. Release judgment and simply experience.
Flip the script:
Transform negative thoughts into positive ones. Focus on what can go right, not what can go wrong.
Focus on results:
Be an active problem solver when facing challenges. Dedicate time to analyze the issue, your emotions, and develop a plan of action. Consider writing down your thoughts to prevent overthinking.
Break free from the past:
Let go of the past and stop dwelling on it. Redirect your energy towards a brighter present and future.
Embrace your authenticity:
Release the need for validation from others and remain true to yourself. Your self-worth matters most.
Take charge of your thoughts, transform your mindset, and live a life free from the burdens of overthinking. Your journey towards personal fulfillment starts now.
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Written by: Patricia K. Flanigan, Smart Strategies for Successful Living
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Patricia K. Flanigan has dedicated over 28 years of service to higher education and has achieved an impressive academic background, including a Doctoral degree in Organizational Leadership from the University of La Verne, a M.A. in Latin American Studies, and a B.A. in Anthropology from the University of California, Los Angeles. After retiring from her role as Dean of Online Education and Learning Resources at Saddleback College, she moved to Idaho where she currently works as an Affiliate Faculty member at Boise State University, writes for local magazines, consults in higher education, and collaborates with LEARN (Lifelong Education and Aging Resource Network). In 2017, she set forth on a new venture as the founding director and author for Smart Strategies for Successful Living –– a website created to promote quality aging and inspire adults of all ages to live and age well. As an educator, Patricia is driven by her passion to inspire others to reach their fullest potential.
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