How to Handle Difficult Coworkers?
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How to Handle Difficult Coworkers?

Do you love your job, but just not your coworkers? 

If this is how you can describe your feelings about your job, you may want to continue reading on. 

Unfortunately, when placed in a similar position, one that involves difficult or unruly coworkers, many individuals assume that their only option is to resign from their current position.

Of course, it is more than possible for you to do so, but did you know that you do have other options?

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If you ever find yourself in a situation where you have complications, problems, or a conflict with a coworker of yours, there are a number of different steps that you can take. These steps, which are outlined below, can help you retain your job and your income, which you may rely on to support your family. If you have been looking for an easy way to deal with one or more difficult coworkers at your workplace, you will want to continue reading on.

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Before examining the ways in which you can handle or deal with difficult coworkers, it is important to remember that circumstances should be taken into consideration. A small conflict may be one that you can handle on your own; however, more serious problems may call for more serious actions. With that in mind, one of the first things that you should do, when looking to deal with a difficult coworker, is speaking with them privately.

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When speaking with a coworker that you have a problem with, you will want to be careful. When this conversation takes place, should it ever, you will want to be as pleasant and as friendly as possible. Many individuals do not realize that even a slight attitude can make a problem with a coworker much worse. If you are frustrated with a coworker who can never seem to get a project completed on time, you may want to offer to help them create a schedule. If you have a problem with perfume or cologne that a coworker may be wearing, you may first want to explain any health complications that you may be having due to the scent.

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As previously stated, it is important to remember that there extenuating circumstances that should be taken into consideration. For instance, if you feel that a coworker of yours is harassing you, in a sexual way or not, you may want to refrain from speaking to them. In certain situations like these, those who are unstable feed off of contact from you and others in your situation.

To protect yourself from any harm, you may want to consider contacting your supervisor right away.

Speaking of contacting your supervisor, if you have discussed your problems with a coworker personally and you have not seen any positive changes, you may want to consider bringing your supervisor in on the issue. When doing this, you will want to use your best judgment. If you regularly find yourself performing the duties and tasks for your coworker or if they mishandled important company documents, you should approach your supervisor without any question. Smaller issues you may want to refrain from bringing your supervisor in on, as you may actually end up creating a bad impression of yourself.

The above-mentioned steps are just a few of the many steps that you can take if you are having conflict or problems with one of your coworkers. As a reminder, you are advised to use your best judgment when handling situations such as these.

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Have you come across any situations with your co-workers and how did you handle it? Please add your comment or view on this.


Krishna Javaji

Chairman I Building impacteers

4y

Niranjan Limbachiya,  Holding a difficult conversation can have positive outcomes when the conversation is approached properly.

Rashmi Chauhan

Senior Quality Assurance Automation Engineer

4y

Niranjan Limbachiya- In 8 years, i met with 2 -3 bad people only. As per my experience, to some extent these black crows are good for career :) . The more they pull you down , the more u will struggle to go up. Though they were irritating at that moment but when I turn back and see , I find that the peak learning time for me on personal and professional level when I was with these irritating people. Now, whenever I find any bad coworker , it always come in my mind and heart that this bitter tablet is good for my health :D

Navatha Kannadi

Business Architect| Lead Business Analyst at Capgemini Engineering | Law Student - Certified in Leading safe 6.0, Safe PM/PO, PSM 1

4y

Love this, one should be bold enough to discuss what's going wrong. As someone said in the below comments: "At first I talked to him personally but it was of no use, then I thought to complain about him to HR.. but then I refrained as I didn't know what impression my colleague had with the management. If they had a very good impression about him then they may think that I was being unfair and might also judge me for complaining without even proving myself." This really stops us to get peace out of work. If management is very close with the employee and he/she is wrongly pretending about others and management believing all these without any retrospection would make the employee leave the organization. There must not be a biased culture which makes work environment toxic.

Matthew Tarrant

Life and business coaches, professional service providers: Do you sometimes feel overwhelmed? Think about that for a minute... now, do you thrive on collaboration and new ideas? Read my newsletter "Freedom Frameworks!"

4y

It's a minefield all right. Don't speak to them and nothing changes. Speak to them or management and it gets better, or worse! Like you say, you need to be careful - do you think you should document what's happening before taking action?

David Langiulli

10+ years Coaching 100s of Executives at Harvard, UNICEF, Yale, USO, Princeton, & More | Jiu-Jitsu World Champion | 6x Published Author

4y

Niranjan Limbachiya - I like Kim Scott's approach in Radical Candor: Care Personally AND Challenge Directly.

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