How to Reclaim Your Power: Identify What You Want, Step Into Your Power & Embrace Your Brilliance

You have all the signs of success…

• Your paycheck says you're thriving.
• Your peers tell you you're killing it.
• Your annual review? Glowing.

But you’re not happy. You're still sitting in misery. 

Why?

Because you’re misaligned! It is time for you to reclaim your power.

Sinead Sharkey-Steenson, our guest on episode 79 of the podcast, is a renowned leadership and menopause coach with over 20 years of experience as a motivational speaker and trainer. She has empowered over 10, 000 women to elevate their career impact. 

So, in this newsletter, we’re sharing three actionable steps to reclaim your power:

1. Identify What You Want
2. Step Into Your Power
3. Embrace Your Brilliance

Listen to the episode or scroll down to read one of the highlights of our conversation ↓

1) Identify What You Want

Growing up, Sinead was pushed by her dad. Sadly, he died suddenly when she was 15.

“My driver behind me was gone, and it made me start to think about, well, actually, what do I want?”- Sinead Sharkey-Steenson 

Before that, she had just been following the path that was set for her. 

“It's always the times I stopped and thought for myself and really examined what do I care about. What do I want? What's the impact that I want to make? Then I made really good choices.” - Sinead Sharkey-Steenson

After studying psychology, Sinead went into corporate life.

“Even though I came top in my master's, I still ran this narrative that I don't know what I'm doing. And so it took me a few years of being miserable, feeling like I had no confidence, no direction to actually step back and go, okay, what do I really care about? What am I good at? What can I do with myself?” - Sinead Sharkey-Steenson

Nobody else was going to fix Sinead’s situation for her, she had to fix it herself.

“I explored my strengths, my passions, my power. And I went in that direction and carved a new career for myself.” - Sinead Sharkey-Steenson

So many women on the podcast have said this - they do things for reasons that are outside of themselves.

And even though Sinead was achieving success, she was miserable inside. It was only through aligning with what she really wanted that she finally got comfortable in her own skin.

“When you get in alignment with your passion, the money comes, but so does the mental and physical health and freedom that follows.” - Oliva Cream

2) Step Into Your Power

After having her second daughter, Sinead reevaluated her life. She didn’t see climbing the corporate ladder as her strength.

She saw her strength in transformation.

“I just love transforming how people feel about their work experience, how they feel about themselves, and how they tap into their inner power.” - Sinead Sharkey-Steenson 

She turned this strength into a business. 

“When a woman's strengths and capabilities and her sense of self align with her ability to project and deliver, she becomes unstoppable.”- Sinead Sharkey-Steenson

As women, we forget that we are powerful beyond measure because we have been taught to take up less space and lie about who we are.

“Anything that you imagine, you can bring that to life and walk in your power. It's absolutely doable.” - Oliva Cream

In many cultures, it is taboo to talk so openly about your accomplishments. 

“To embrace your gifts and really straighten your crown and walk into a room like you own it, society tells you it should be cringe. But the reality is more of us need to do this. [...] We need to learn to embrace our superpowers.” - Sinead Sharkey-Steenson

3) Embrace Your Brilliance

Sinead shared that for most women, breaking barriers is not about changing what you do, it’s about shining a light on what you already do.

“I see women underestimate what they do every single day. So I encourage every woman to step back and notice the things that you find really easy. What are the things that people always come and ask you about? I'd start to recognize that those things are easy because you are bloody brilliant at them.” - Sinead Sharkey-Steenson

Sinead explains that these are your strengths and you are taking them for granted. And if you don’t recognize their value, no one else will either.

“We, as women, believe it should be hard because everything in our environment is telling you it should be hard. So the fundamental reason why we don't highlight the things that come easy for us is because through social programming, we have been told, you're a woman, your life is supposed to be hard.” - Olivia Cream

We need to reframe this reality - just because something comes easy to us does not mean it is worthless. If those things really were so easy to do, everyone would be doing them, but they’re not. 

If you are struggling to identify what your strengths are:

• Take the time to reflect on what you’re good at.
• Jot down when you are feeling your best and most in the zone, you will start to notice a pattern.
• Ask other people what they think your strengths are. You will be surprised that things that you thought were normal, people see as strengths.

“When you go ask people about your superpowers, [...] resist the urge to argue with them. [...] This is the time to take your flowers and not argue.” - Olivia Cream

To hear the full conversation with Sinead Sharkey-Steenson on the Embracing “Only” Podcast, scroll up and hit play – or click here and tune into episode 79.

Ready to make a change?

We’re passionate about bringing extraordinary guests to Embracing “Only” so listeners can see what’s possible, feel inspired and empowered, and most of all, feel motivated to take action and make moves that will get them closer to their goals.

If you’re still listening, you’re probably an “only” in your workplace or field of work. And you have two paths ahead of you:

1. You work in the corporate workspace, you want to continue your journey, but learn how to thrive and grow in that environment as an “only;”
2. You have made the decision to leave the corporate workplace, but you don’t know how to make the transition or what that next step is.

If you’re #1, Olivia Grant-Cream can equip you with the tools and strategies to thrive. Connect with Olivia on LinkedIn to learn how you can excel in your current role and make your mark. More info at oliviacream.com. 

Set your sights on a place higher than your eyes can see. 

If you’re #2, Archita Sivakumar Fritz can guide you through a successful transition. Reach out to Archita on LinkedIn for support in launching your entrepreneurial journey and embracing new challenges. More info at readysetbold.com. 

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DM Olivia or Archita today and take the next step in your career!

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Women – particularly women of color – are constantly bombarded with societal and systemic hurdles that they face professionally with no balance in solutions. 

News, media, and coaching tend to focus on our differences and obstacles but don’t provide thought-provoking solutions to help people regain control of their lives and find direction. 

The Embracing “Only” Podcast seeks to provide a community for women to share their lived experiences and not feel alone in their journey to claim their power and purpose in the communities they seek to serve, transform, and impact.

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