How to vaccinate against quiet quitting

The idea of Quiet Quitting has really taken off, it seems to have resonated with many workers who have been suffering from burnout, and we know that rates of depression and burnout soared during the pandemic and have continued to remain high (refer to my recent newsletter on Depression and Burnout). Add to this the ‘Great Resignation’ that started during the pandemic, where the masses questioned their career choices and changed direction. Now we are seeing labour shortages and record low rates of unemployment.

“It’s a perfect storm -  a once-in-a-century opportunity for people to redefine work and opt out of the unreasonable expectations that have been increasing over the last 30 years.”

What is quiet quitting?

The idea of quiet quitting was first popularised on a TikTok video by @zkchillin, although the concept has been floating around on TikTok for around 4 years. It’s the idea of withdrawing your discretionary effort, working normal hours, and not going above and beyond. Simply put, you wind down from overworking. According to the clip…

“You’re not outright quitting your job, but you’re quitting the idea of going above and beyond. You’re still performing your duties, but you’re no longer subscribing to the hustle-culture mentality that work has to be your life; the reality is it’s not, and your worth as a person is not defined by your labour.” @zkcillin

There’s no single definition of the term quiet quitting. For some, it means setting boundaries and not taking on additional work; for others, it just means not going above and beyond. Most, however, agree it does not mean you’re leaving the job.

Many people have been quietly quitting well before the trend took off. It is often a deliberate decision to continue to do good work within a set of boundaries in terms of reasonable working hours and withdrawal of discretionary effort. Because what is the point when there is no reason to hustle, no promotion opportunities, a negative culture, or no recognition of additional contribution?

I posted on this topic on Monday and shared Arianna Huffington’s latest newsletter where she ponders the notion of quiet quitting. I’m a huge fan and I fall on the same side of the fence as Arianna – quietly quitting is NOT the answer! Read more from Arianna here.

The concept behind quiet quitting is great, it is important to put yourself first and not sacrifice your wellbeing for your job. It’s okay to set boundaries and expect to work reasonable hours – we are not slaves or robots, and we do our best work when we have a work-life balance. I recently mentioned the ethos of 8 hours work, 8 hours recreation and 8 hours sleep.

Quiet quitting has taken hold because too many people are working long hours, suffering burnout and feeling they can’t set reasonable boundaries. It’s the coward’s way out to quietly quit! It plays into victim-like passive-aggressive behaviour. It’s far better to take control of your life than to let resentment take over.

A far more positive approach is to actually quit! Before you do that - find another role in another workplace that understands and supports your needs and has a humane approach to work-life balance. Or, if you are really brave then you can clearly communicate your expectations to your workplace, delegate or reallocate work, and renegotiate deadlines.

When enough skilled workers stand up and collectively state that ‘enough is enough’, we can tip the balance back to 8 hours work, 8 hours recreation, and 8 hours sleep. It all started with unions and the fight for workers’ rights decades ago. Somehow, we lost sight of it along the way.

Is quiet quitting a good idea?

I don’t like the term ‘quiet quitting,’ although I do think it is a great idea for employees to feel empowered to take control of their working lives to avoid burnout, improve work-life balance and lead more meaningful lives. It is putting pressure on employers to create better working conditions, increase employee engagement, and build positive working cultures that consider the whole person.

We are not robots, we are not slaves, we are valuable assets and deserve to be treated with kindness, respect, and gratitude!

So rather than taking the passive-aggressive approach of quiet quitting, I encourage you to become direct in your requests about your expectations of acceptable working conditions. Unfortunately, some people don’t have other options and can’t easily move to a new role, that’s why the concept of quiet quitting has resonated so deeply.

Where possible, employees can stand up and set boundaries and participate in building better workplace cultures by becoming better leaders. Employers can play to your employee’s strengths; consider their out-of-work obligations and interests; build better work cultures; hire more people to share the load; and promote kindness, respect, and gratitude.

What can employers do to reengage employees?

Here are some of the tools and strategies that Thrive Global Global has implemented to improve its workplace culture and understand the expectations of valuable team members -

• The Entry Interview: A conversation between a new hire and their manager on day one in which the first question is: “What’s important to you in your life outside of work and how can we support you?”
• Compassionate Directness: Empowering employees to share feedback and surface problems in real time. Nobody should be quiet about setting boundaries and taking care of themselves at any time, let alone if they’re at risk of burnout.
• Thrive Time: Additional time off — from a few hours to a few days — to recharge after a period of intense work to meet a deadline or complete a project.
• Giving Days: Paid time off for employees to volunteer and give back — using the proven power of giving as another way to boost well-being.
• Thrive Pulse: A daily question for employees that prompts a moment of reflection and gives leaders real-time, anonymized insights into their people’s mental health and well-being.
• Microsteps: Small, science-backed steps to help people make changes in their daily lives around sleep, movement, nutrition, focus and connection.

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There are many actions that can be taken by both employers and employees to reduce burnout, increase resilience, and build better lives and more positive workplaces.

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