New Year, New Beginnings: Creating a Life That Doesn't Require an Escape Plan

New Year, New Beginnings: Creating a Life That Doesn't Require an Escape Plan

"The best way to predict the future is to create it." – Abraham Lincoln (who never had to balance Zoom calls with workout classes)


Food for Thought:

Here we are, folks—that time of year when we all pretend we're going to become completely different people on January 1st. You know, the kind of people who never miss a workout, meditate daily, and somehow maintain perfect inbox zero while running a successful side hustle.

But let's get real: Balance isn't about transforming into a productivity robot who drinks green juice for fun. It's about creating a life you don't need a vacation from (though vacations are still very much welcome, thank you).


Why Most "Balanced Life" Plans Fail

Let's be honest about what doesn't work:

  • Trying to copy someone else's routine (sorry, but their 5 AM workout might need to be your 5:30 pm workout)
  • Setting unrealistic expectations 
  • Forgetting that balance looks different for everyone


3 Steps to Create Your Actually-Doable Balanced Future

1. Define Your Version of Balance

- Maybe it's leaving work at 6 PM most days

- Maybe it's not checking email on weekends

- Maybe it's remembering to eat lunch away from your desk

Your balance ≠ Instagram's version of balance. Take time to write down what a balanced day actually looks like for you. Be specific and be honest.

2. Create a Holistic Wellness Routine 

- Physical Wellness: Engaging in movement, have regular health checkups, proper sleep, etc.

- Mindfulness: Try 5-minute meditation breaks, practice desk stretches, or take actual lunch breaks away from doing work

- Self-Care: Block off non-negotiable 'me-time', create morning/evening rituals you love, learn to say "no" without guilt

- Prioritize Real Connection: Schedule regular catch-ups with friends/family, join communities that share your interests, and make time for meaningful conversations


Reality Check: Balance is Personal

Your balanced life might look chaotic to someone else, and that's okay. Maybe balance for you means:

  • Working hard Monday to Thursday so Friday can be lighter
  • Having dedicated "do nothing" time
  • Sometimes choosing sleep over early workouts
  • Making time for both solitude and connection


Your Life, Your Rules

Here's to creating a 2025 that feels good to live in—not just good to post about. Remember: The goal isn't perfection; it's creating a life that feels sustainable, enjoyable, and authentically yours.

What does balance look like for you? Drop a comment below—especially if your version of balance includes regular naps or pizza nights!


All the best,


Dr. Judy Wright 

Physician, Wellness & Performance Strategist




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