The one who has confidence wins

Confidence always wins when in conjunction with something else. i.e. Confidence + work ethic = unshakable academic achievement. However with a lack of confidence, work ethic alone can easily instill a sense of inadequacy in an individual who will constantly feel down and pressure themselves into overworking. Confidence + nice personality = very attractive individual. Having a lack of confidence can mask someone’s personality, no matter how good it really is - they are reluctant to fully express themselves.

Confidence by itself is quite poisonous when not backed up by some counter-part as mentioned - for it creates this false identity that you are something when you really are not. Take the previous examples. Confidence alone would result in someone believing they already know enough and do not need to put in much work, resulting in a very unstable academic life. Furthermore, confidence alone - when not backed up by a good personality - would result in someone coming off as pretentious and incapable of seeing and acting on their own flaws.

I do believe that confidence is the one thing by which you can win hearts of the audience. Confidence is the one thing by you can be a proactive personality. People easily love to collaborate with you. Confidence makes you realistic by which you can win the hearts. Confidence can be the cloak a man wears when he’s trying hard to hide his inferiority. Confidence is often worn on the outside, like a coat. Drop the coat and ask the man why he feels so confident. If he tells you it’s who he is, then you know behind that wall is a little boy wishing he didn’t lack what he just told you he has plenty of.

Confidence can be sometimes seen as arrogance or even coldness, carelessness,staidness, egoism or even …. fear, but true Confidence, on the other hand, is kind. It sees a way to pay it forward. Confidence doesn’t play on its meaning. It steps up to the plate and plays the ball without being a show pony. Confidence is leadership and admiration but it never looks down on the underdog. Confidence is in the heart. It lends a hand to those who haven’t reached their plateau yet. But most of all, confidence never, ever judges.

Basically how you carry your body with yourself and you have to believe in yourself no matter what the situation is that’s make you confident. Confidence doesn’t mean how rich you are or how expensive your clothes wear. Confidence is inside you that’s what you have to believe. I read one-hundred-and-twenty books in a year. At the end of the year, my life was the same. Why would it change? Knowledge is useful only when applied. I’d spent a year thinking rather than doing.

The next year, I stopped reading. With the extra time, I wrote three hundred blog posts and a book. My income tripled, I received speaking opportunities, and created one of the largest marketing communities. Being socially confident is about taking action. Because only action can lead to reward. When someone makes fun of you or rejects you, don’t think about it. As soon as you start thinking, you stop taking action and feel anxious. So, move forward with every bad situation while keeping a happy-go-lucky attitude and smile.

Most guys would’ve given up after the first rejection. No one sticks around for ten. I’m sure there were many times when she thought about walking away, but she was intrigued by the simple fact that I didn’t care. I brushed off rejection like it never happened by moving the conversation forward with jokes and fun conversation. “You’re super confident? Aren’t you?” “I don’t think about it. I don’t get mad. I’m just here living in the moment.” “Not even a little mad?” “Are you worried about something?”

I expressed myself as a socially confident person, then indicated her questions revealed her own anxiety. I knew the scenario would play out like this. It always does. It doesn’t matter if you’re ugly, poor, and stutter. As long as you keep moving forward with a smile and without thinking about what you do or say, then people will gravitate towards you. They can’t help it. It’s the law of attraction. And it starts with action. Cheers!