POLITICS AND RELIGION AT WORK?

I am in the business of helping professionals, both leaders and non-leaders alike.  Occasionally, I challenge leaders since, like me, they are imperfect.  Most of their decisions or behaviors that have negative impacts are unintended.  Some are simply driven by self-preservation and the need to follow orders.  Some however are intentional, completely unnecessary, and cause real damage.  That is often the case with politics and religion at work.  Please note that though most of my work is positive and sometimes uplifting, this topic requires a different tone.  Here we go…

“Hey, did you watch the debate last night?”  If someone starts a conversation like this at work, it rarely makes work a better place.  Generally, the old saying is still true and failure to adopt it will likely harm your career:  don’t talk about religion or politics.  I don’t know the origin of this idea, but it’s sage advice.  Maybe you’re at work, shopping, or attending a social event – they are all the same.  If you don’t really know people and their basic views on these matters, it is likely offensive and possibly damaging to bring them up.  Even when it is technically your right to do so based on free speech, it’s rarely wise. 

So, let’s talk about leadership.  Sharing your views on politics and religion is particularly damaging when done by leaders.  I have personally seen many examples of leaders imposing their version of these topics on their employees.  It is an abuse of power.  Please call me out if you don’t agree, as I would enjoy examining your logic.  Imposing your views in these areas is blatantly unethical.  Employees experience plenty of anxiety and fear at work.  The biggest root cause is almost always job insecurity (fear of job loss).  When people with power over your employment wade into religion and politics, they place an unacceptable burden on their employees. One that makes them do things they don’t want to do. 

I believe that leaders need their own version of the Hippocratic Oath that recognizes not only freedom of speech, but freedom from dangerous and unnecessary opinion.  Leaders should care deeply about team member well-being.  They should respect a diversity of views on these important but controversial topics.  Anything else is a violation.  It’s an imposition that almost always had a negative net impact.  Of course, leaders must occasionally do things perceived as negative (e.g., layoffs, difficult performance evaluations).  That’s understood.  However, that’s only acceptable when thoughtful decisions have been made and need to be implemented.  It is not acceptable when the reason for creating negativity is not in any way required.  It is not required that you impose one view as “right” compared to others on issues outside of the domain of work. To do so is a failure of leadership.

I’ve personally observed leaders tell their employees how to vote (for you in the US, I’ve seen it done by Democrats and Republicans).  I have seen leaders go further and encourage employees to donate to their preferred party/candidate.  I have also seen forms of retaliation against those who do not comply.  I have seen many impose their understanding of religion on their employees as well, which is offensive and inappropriate given the power differential at play.  Has this happened to you?  Sometimes it’s shockingly uncomfortable.

One such example sticks out in my memories.  I was paid to give a speech to a group of managers at a company in the US.  I delivered the speech.  The audience loved it.  The CEO smiled and clapped enthusiastically.  He approached me as the applause started to die down.  In front of thirty or so senior leaders he shook my hand, thanked me profusely, and then did the deed.  While holding my hand for an extended shake, he said, “Todd, can I pray with you?”  This is of course wildly inappropriate in a professional setting.  I do not wish to address my views on these topics with clients.  Nor do I wish to embarrass or upset my clients. Nonetheless, I try to be kind, so I said, “Sure.”  He continued holding my hand, bowed his head, and closed his eyes.  He prayed to his god out loud in front of his team.  I did not bow my head or close my eyes.  Instead, I looked around curiously and saw most members of the audience looking at me with sad or worried eyes.  They clearly understood that the CEO’s behavior was unacceptable.  No doubt they had seen this before.  They all chose to say nothing.  They chose to do nothing.  I can’t blame them.  What good could possibly come from them speaking up?  Once again, job insecurity leads a group to silence when there is a need for action. 

If you’re a leader and you know that your view of politics and religion are right and that others are wrong, you have no business being a leader.  You’re lost in a world of simple black and white thinking that will eventually derail any group you lead.  Life is not black and white.  It is a never-ending pallet of colors with endless permutations.  Problem after problem, leaders face a blank sheet and must explore possibilities (time and resources allowing) to define a proper solution together with their team.  They know there often is no “right” answer and work tirelessly to find the most effective answer.  They know that few things are black and white.

Politics is messy and divisive.  Religion is messy and divisive.  If you have a powerful argument about why they are essential topics at work, I want to hear it.  I will listen openly, and I will consider whether I should change my views.  If you’re currently enduring improper exposure to these topics due to one or more colleagues, your supervisor, or the organization’s leadership, I sincerely feel for you.  I know that it hurts to be judged, looked down upon, and to feel like you don’t belong.  You don’t deserve to feel that way.

So. what is an employee to do?  Don’t embrace what they try to impose.  Very politely refrain. It can be as easy as a smile or nod with no comment.  Don’t enflame the situation by disagreeing with them.  Don’t increase your risk by forming a small group of like-minded people to talk about the absurdity of situations like these.  Instead, remember that with politics and religion it has always been the case and always will be the case that different views exist.  Then keep working and growing and when you become a leader, be wise and choose your own version of the Hippocratic Oath.  Start first with do no harm, admit you don’t know it all, state that you respect a diversity of perspectives, and then make a commitment to be an influence for all work-relevant matters – and not outside matters. 

Sure, some individual employees will also seek to impose their beliefs, either through conversation or through religious behaviors (e.g., praying at work, displaying political materials).  It is up to the courts to decide how much allowance for these behaviors is acceptable.  Though I usually find them suspect, this is quite different compared to leaders imposing their beliefs, or worse yet, imposing compliance.  This is simply individuals trying to be honest about who they are.  Problems might arise due to these behaviors, but they pale in comparison to leaders adopting these practices. 

No matter your personal views, at work ethical leaders are politically and religiously agnostic.  Just focus on quality relationships and quality work.  Believe me, your team will thank you. 

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