Positioning Yourself to be, in the right place, at the right time, For Others

As my wife kindly reminded me the other day, all of us, at one point in our lives, need help from others. For myself, when I need help, I am relentless in seeking to obtain it, because I know I need it. But when I am asked for help from others, do I always show the same amount of enthusiasm to help them?

I was at a red light the other day, in a situation many of you no doubt find yourselves, when a panhandler came up asking for money to buy food. Having been in law enforcement for a while, the cynic in me knows the money is probably not for food. And while the law enforcement side of me has given me many positive things, the lack of empathy for certain individuals is not one of them. I struck up a conversation with him in the brief interlude between light cycles and learned he actually hadn't eaten in a few days. I asked him what he wanted, and his answer was simple, "Whataburger" (smart man). I told him to meet me across the street, and I purchased him a meal, along with a gift card. As I spoke with him while he eat, I learned he had a family out of state, had previously struggled with addiction, and was desperately trying to get back to his family. It is these experiences that continually remind me not to judge a book by its cover, and not to let past experiences dictate future opportunities to bless people.

Which brings me to this platform. All of us have different experiences and a vast network of friends and contacts, both on Linkedin, and outside of it. We are in the unique position each day to help others make a better life for themselves and their family.

Each day I see resumes posted on Linkedin from people begging for help. Do you keep scrolling? What if that was you? What if you were laid off, had a house, a family to provide for, and bills that didn't stop just because you were laid off?

Put yourself in their position, see their desperation, see their pain. Then look at the "need" with a different outlook. How can you help them? Do you know someone in that industry who can help? Is there a position at your organization that you can refer them for? Did you know that 40% of most positions are filled by employee referrals?

Anyone who has ever been a job seeker in this market knows firsthand the absolute depression and frustration that comes along with it. You are in an unique position to help them.

Building your network allows you to continuously expand your options for potential people to help. Building it with a diverse set of people from varying backgrounds doubles that potential, if not more. Building relationships with leaders in those fields dramatically increases the chances of finding a role for someone else. Posting tips and advice across your network encourages and helps others while they are slogging through the muck of the application process.

This is a long winded article, but the point is this. Linkedin can either be a force-multiplier for you and others who come across your dashboard, or it can be the platform you occasionally log into without contribution. I highly encourage each of you to be intentional in your time on Linkedin and exemplify a servant-leader, no matter your official job title. Position yourself to be in the right place, at the right time, For Others.

Shane Wickliffe

Executive Protection/Personal Protection/Physical Security/Security Professional/Former Corrections Officer

2y

Great article.

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Susan Batey

Im on my journey to heal myself and others from childhood trauma and toxic relationships. No Bitcoin or crypto. Only positive connections rn please.

2y

My kind of person. People just seem to gravitate towards me for advice/help A LOT. Yesterday at my former job I started talking with a man. He was c/o having a hernia. I explained how dangerous it could be if he didn’t see treatment. I learned he had no insurance and severe social anxiety disorder. I looked up the numbers of two places. One he had called before but the phone was always busy. I told him to set his alarm for 6:55 and at 6:58 dial the number and get into the loop of pressing buttons then hit 0 at 7. I made him promise he’d do it in the morning through the car then it wouldn’t be so overwhelming. He said he could go to the ER and had been told that. I told him that was unfair to people with real emergencies and was terribly expensive. Urgent care was better. I wrote down the # for catholic charities as well as the address and to ask for a social worker and get some insurance and any other help he needed. I also mentioned 211. All in all it took 20 minutes but he seemed so relieved. I must have a sign on me that says questions 5 cents 😊. I always feel better helping/giving than receiving.

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Philip Goode III, CAMS

Supervisory Criminal Investigator | Homeland Security Investigations professional with leadership experience in federal law enforcement | Certified Anti-Money Laundering Specialist (CAMS) | Multiple Awards

2y

Well said. One of the most rewarding aspects of my leadership journey has been the opportunity to empower and elevate others. Sometimes the smallest act of kindness can yield the greatest reward.

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Marie Tamayswar

Security at Esteem Security Services Inc

2y

Wow .. God bless you 🙏… it’s hard to believe good people such as yourself exist anymore. As for my experience I find that when most people see you fall they would step on you and crush you , rather than pick you up . And the reason is either because they are educated or hold a position or that “ status “ where they treat you as if you are stupid . So sad 😞 Awesome Eric ! Nicely done … Thank you for sharing … God bless 🙏

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Azghar Ahmed Baig

Business Continuity Manager

4y

Eric..so well written..it’s very true everyone of us some point in time need help and assistance and guidance.

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