The Speakeasy: The real reason you can’t stop binge watching TV

Hi, it’s me, Al. Welcome to this issue of the Speakeasy.

 Tell me if this has happened to you…

 You’ve just finished dinner. You settle into the couch for an hour of TV before bed time.

‘Hmm, what should I watch?’ you think to yourself. Maybe you say it out loud to your partner, or your cat.

 You scroll around for a bit until you and your partner the cat agree on something you’d both like to watch. Sometimes this takes a while, because Mr. Pickles doesn’t want to watch anything with Ryan Reynolds in it.

 ‘This looks interesting,’ you say. ‘Let’s just watch the first episode and see if we like it…’

 Suddenly it’s 3am.

 Your eyes are saucepans. Your body has fused with the sofa like some sort of science experiment. Your reaction time to the ‘Skip Intro’ button has reached fighter-pilot levels.

 Mr. Pickles has gone to bed (traitor).

 But you are awake. Your mind is fuelled by a single thought…

 ‘I NEED TO KNOW WHAT HAPPENS NEXT!’

Sound familiar? I bet it does. Television has gotten insanely (perhaps worryingly) good at keeping you in front of it. And it’s down to pretty much ONE THING…

There is one thing that the most binge-worthy TV shows do that we are almost powerless to ignore. It’s the active ingredient in the recipe for keeping your attention.

 It’s also a secret weapon that you can use when speaking or presenting to keep your audience engaged and hanging onto your every word.

 All you need to do is add this element to your next presentation to create a truly binge-worthy speaking performance.

 So what is it?

It’s… tension!

The importance of tension

Building and (just as importantly) releasing tension is crucial to keeping people involved in a story. Speak to any author or script writer and they’ll tell you that they work their books, films or series around points of tension or release. Have a look at this graph from Star Wars for example:

See how there are several points of tension, each with their own phase of release? You can draw out almost any good movie or season onto a graph and you’d see a similar structure. That is: progressively increasing tension arcs, each with their own release until the final climax, and then the ultimate catharsis (release).

So how do you convert this knowledge into your speaking? First you need to find out where to put them.

Where to add tension

You can add tension to your speaking in a fundamental way by doing almost exactly what authors and script writers do to the stories that keep you on the couch until ungodly hours.

●     First, break down your presentation into its constituent parts and lay them all out in front of you. For me this works best on Post-it notes or pieces of paper on the floor (It’s easier to move them around).

●     Now look for the value phrases. The parts of your presentation that are the most important. Organise them by impact and importance.

●     Before each of those points is where you are going to want to add some suspense. This is where your tension builders will go.

3 tension builders

●     Suspense phrases. Suspense phrases are the simplest and most effective ways to build tension. For example, adding the phrase:

‘This next feature is something I'm really excited about…’

This builds tension for your next slide. Your audience wants to know what you’re excited about. They’ll keep listening. Questions work just as well…

‘Want to know the secret to clean carpets?’

And off you go… (the secret to clean carpets, by the way, is to not have carpets)

●     Use pictures. By adding images to your slide instead of blocks of text you invite your audience to first try to interpret what they are looking at (i.e. keeping them engaged), and then look to you for the explanation - the key. This creates tension by introducing an element of the unknown to your slides. You are the wizard who has the key to the puzzle in front of them.

●     Lower your voice! This is a subtle but very important element. You can use the psychology and physiology of vocal tone to create tension when speaking. By lowering your voice and slowing down your cadence (pace of speaking) you can create tension. By raising your tone and speaking at a normal pitch again, you release that tension.

Changing your vocal tone is something I go into in more detail in my online course about speaking and presenting. If you’re interested in learning how to adapt your vocal tone and want some exercises to help you master the art, check it out!

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