Team Stress with COVID-19

You made it through another week!

While the uncertainty grows around the coming weeks and months, many are struggling right now and may not even be able to identify what they are feeling or why. Are you one of thousands of businesses that are temporarily working from home?

Earlier this month I shared the fight-flight-freeze responses with one of my clients that has team members working remotely, to help her understand and identify the ways her team are reacting to stress with the Coronavirus.

Fight – to confront the threat aggressively

Flight – means you run from the danger

Freeze – you find yourself unable to move or act against the threat

I familiar with this because I've also been experiencing a state of fight-flight-freeze ever since the pandemic started. I've had my emotions around rescheduling, rethinking and reconsidering all the missed or delayed opportunities that were coming my way (fight), there are times when I want to check out and just watch TV (flight), or I find myself at a loss, wandering around aimlessly with nothing to do (freeze).

So this list might be useful in recognising these different reactions.

Fight mode:

• You cry
• You feel like punching someone or something
• Your jaw is tight, or you grind your teeth
• You glare at people or talk to them with anger in your voice
• You feel like stomping or kicking
• You feel anger or rage
• You feel like killing someone, perhaps even yourself
• Your stomach feels tied in knots,
• You have a burning feeling in your stomach

Flight mode:

• Your legs are restless
• You feel numbness in your extremities
• Your eyes dilate and dart around
• You constantly move your legs and feet
• You're fidgety
• You're tense
• You feel trapped
• You exercise excessively

Freeze mode:

• You feel cold
• You have numbness in your body
• Your skin is pale
• You feel stiff or heavy
• You have a sense of dread
• Your heart is pounding
• Your heart rate may decrease
• You feel yourself tolerating the stress

While it might feel like the coronavirus has pulled the rug out from under you, these reactions are normal ways of coping with the fear of the unknown.

And because you're here reading this, you probably want to respond in a different way.

So here’s the thing… research shows us that it is physiologically impossible to be in a state of appreciation and a state of fear at the same time.

YES you read that right... it is physiologically impossible to be in a state of appreciation and a state of fear at the same time!

So if you're in a state of appreciation and gratitude, you can't feel afraid!

Isn’t this fascinating?

When I first heard about this, I started to look at all the things I'm grateful for. It really is an effective approach for managing myself and leading others through uncertain times.

SO while there remains uncertainty for many businesses and teams, start focusing on feeling appreciation and gratitude instead and notice the difference.

I trust this helps!

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