Tools for Change – August 2023
Dr. Chris Stout
LinkedIn Top Voice | Best Selling Author | Adventurer | Startup Whisperer | (Accidental) Humanitarian | APA's "Rockstar" Psychologist | Éminence Grise
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Welcome to the latest edition the monthly newsletter, Tools for Change – A Convenient Digest and Curated Collection of Information, Tools and Resources to Help You in Your Life and Work
New This Month on The Living a Life in Full Podcast, Michael Bungay Stanier on How to Rescue Difficult Work Relationships and Do Your Best Work on Living a Life in Full.
Have you ever had the experience of working with someone and they just didn't “get” you? They do all the things that wind you up, put you off, and drive you nuts. And, have you ever worked with someone, and you just didn't “get” them? You couldn't figure out what made them tick, and you know that you were underwhelming, as a manager and leader for them.
Of course you have. We all have.
So why do those situations keep happening? Particularly when we’ve also experienced the opposite – great working relationships that soar. Our working relationships are fundamental, if not critical, to our success and happiness.
Now imagine if you could keep your best relationships humming along for as long as possible. Imagine if you could contain the dysfunction of the messy ones so they’re less painful and more productive. Imagine if you could reset your solidly-OK-relationships so that when they wobble, they could more quickly get back on track.
Well, in his latest book, How To Work with (Almost) Anyone, internationally bestselling author Michael Bungay Stanier writes about a tested process that sets up working relationships for the best possible success. He understands that every working relationship, whether it’s with our direct reports, our boss, or our coworkers, will become challenging at a certain point. In this episode, we’ll discuss how to communicate about who you are, and what brings out the best and the worst in you.
Michael has a gift for distilling big, complex ideas into practical, accessible knowledge for everyday people that helps them be a force for good. He is also at the forefront of shaping how organizations around the world make being coach-like an essential leadership competency. His books have sold over a million copies, with The Coaching Habit topping the Wall Street Journal bestseller list and it is also the best-selling coaching book of this century, with over a million copies sold. Seth Godin called it “the best book on coaching” and Brené Brown said it is “a classic.”
He's also written an impressive shelf’s worth of other notable tomes, including: Get Unstuck & Get Going, Great Work Provocations, Do More Great Work, The Advice Trap, How to Begin, and his most recent book How to Work with (Almost) Anyone, which did a deep dive into in this episode.
Be sure to tune in on your favorite platform, or if you’re not into podcasts, read all about it on my LinkedIn Top Voice post.
Well Said
“Self-discipline is a form of freedom,” he remarked. “Freedom from laziness and lethargy, freedom from the expectations and demands of others, freedom from weakness and fear and doubt.” - Harvey A. Dorfman
“Write your obituary, then work backwards to live it.” - Warren Buffett
“We don’t stop playing because we grow old; we grow old because we stop playing.” - George Bernard Shaw
“Whatever you’re meant to do, do it now. The conditions are always impossible.” - Doris Lessing
Tools for Productivity
Beware the Value of “Mere Completion” - We all love crossing things off our To Do list, and sometimes that’s a problem. New research indicates that the thrill we get from “getting things done” leads us to prefer simple, easily-completed tasks over meaningful projects that take a long time. The upshot? When prioritizing your To Do list, don’t just go for quick wins. Instead, ask yourself: What on this list will help me move my career, life, relationships, etc., forward?
6 Ways To Motivate Yourself When You Don’t Feel Like Doing Anything.
5 ways to manage a busy season when struggling with mental health. - Whether you're in a stressful spot right now or not, this post that explores how to navigate demanding seasons at work while prioritizing your mental well-being and equip yourself with practical strategies to maintain balance, manage stress, and create a healthier work environment for yourself.
Tools for Living Your Life in Full
Start finding meaning and identity beyond your career. We live in a world that puts a lot of importance on career, work, and productivity, but this comes at the risk of burnout or feelings of worthlessness when work isn't going well. So dive into this eye-opening article and get thinking about reclaiming your identity beyond your professional role. Discover actionable tips and insights on cultivating personal fulfillment, setting boundaries, and nurturing your well-being outside of work, and start to recover who you truly are.
The Key to Salary Happiness -It’s not how much you make, it’s how much freedom you enjoy. A recent study found the happiest people are those whose salaries meet their financial needs and allow them to manage their own time. To optimize for happiness, prioritize freedom over the size of your paycheck.
10 Questions to Ask Yourself for a Midyear Reset.
The Resourceful Life - What does it mean to be relentlessly resourceful and why is it a valuable trait? This essay explores many shades of resourcefulness and why it’s actually a source of expertise. Pair with Dan Rose on how stunning founders operate.
Tools for Being Smarter
How Do You Know? A Guide to Thinking Clearly about Investing. An excellent discussion between Bogumil Baranowski and Chris Mayer on learning, the limits of our knowledge, and how to make good investment decisions. Pair with Annie Duke on decision making.
Tools for Wealth Management
What Does It Take to Feel Wealthy? It’s not What You Think.
8 Reasons You Shouldn't Buy a Tesla.
Tools for Your Career
How to Do Great Work - by Paul Graham.
How to Use LinkedIn to Your Team's Advantage. Don't just talk to other executives on LinkedIn, use the platform to engage your team.
How to deal with frustrating coworkers when working remotely.
Tools for Investing
The Concept That Explains Everything About Marketplaces - Transaction costs are a key determinant of how marketplaces evolve and monetize. This essay examines how and provides invaluable advice for aspiring marketplace builders. Pair with Bill Gurley about the business model behind marketplaces and user-generated content businesses.
The Blessing of Unanswered Prayers - by Gene Hoots.
Tools Just for Fun
Smart Things Smart People Said - by Morgan Housel.
Pileus clouds steal the show anytime they grace the sky.
Tools for Leadership
9 traits of visionary leaders - A helpful matrix of nine traits boiled down from the hundreds of visionary (and wannabe-visionary) leaders.
Exactly what to do when you meet your new team for the first time - Strategies to build trust with new teams as a new manager.
Leading Multiple Generations Isn’t Easy. These Three Things Can Help.
The leadership benefits of a curious mind. Discover the value of curiosity as a leadership trait in this article, and learn how embracing curiosity can unlock innovation, foster growth, and empower your team to reach new heights.
Tools for Founders
How leaders can make a lot happen with very little - A silver lining to building during a downturn is that it creates a certain kind of leader, someone who can unlock success in spite of constraints like a limited budget or a small team working toward a giant goal.
Employee Motivation Strategies - What is Job Sculpting?
The 5 New Rules of Startups - Say goodbye to the hero entrepreneur and one-size-fits-all.
7 red flags that indicate someone used generative AI on their résumé. - Do you have strategies in place to determine whether candidates are qualified?
Tools for Relationships
Turns out, soul mates aren't just a Hollywood trope or something out of fairytales. There's so much more to it than what meets the eye — literally. Uncover the fascinating research behind soulmates and the true science of love in this article. Explore the complexities of human connections, delve into the psychology of soulmate relationships, and challenge your beliefs about the existence of that one perfect match. You might be surprised by what you find!
Why “Walk and Talks” Strengthen Social Connections - Instead of “grabbing coffee,” try taking a walk with someone with whom you’d like to connect. Research shows that walking and talking can be less stressful than face-to-face conversations, providing the opportunity for a deeper connection.
Infuse your relationships with humor to stay connected. - Want to be closer to the people you love? From reducing stress and boosting immune function to fostering social connections, read this post to learn more about one of the best medicines out there and get inspired to find more reasons to laugh out loud and with others.
Discover the secrets to building a thriving and lasting relationship with insights from psychology experts who have studied couples for over 50 years combined. This article unveils a valuable 10-step strategy for enacting reflective listening to address concerns and create space for validation and communication. Dive in and gain quick wisdom to create a more harmonious and understanding partnership and grow your communication skills.
Tools for Health and Wellness
Biohacking myself to health: Future Me - Fast Company’ new docuseries delving into the world of biohacking.
Your 6 a.m. Workout Is Crushing Your Brain Health - Why frequent exercise and short sleep durations accelerate cognitive decline.
Does sugar actually feed cancer?
Tools for Fitness and Performance
You can do a lot with a pull up bar and a wall. Here's a full body calisthenics workout to try next time you want a fun, efficient workout.
Burpees + Plyos 12-Minute HIIT Workout - 12-minute, equipment-free.
Full Body Kettlebell AMRAP Workout – AMRAP & kettlebell.
264 Rep Badass Bar Workout - Time challenge & pull up bar.
Tools for Digital Health
Tools for Mental Health
Are you curious about meditation and mindfulness but don't know where to start? Truth is, meditation isn't as intimidating or strict as it seems. So dive into this beginner's guide that explores the science-backed benefits of the practice beyond the spiritual and discover practical tips, step-by-step instructions, and a new perspective on meditation that might inspire you to embark on a new path toward cultivating mindfulness and enhancing your overall well-being.
The next time you feel anxious, embrace the art of pause - Imagine if you could figure out the secret code to hacking your own anxiety, learning how to finally tame it and be more in control in situations where you feel powerless. That might sound like a miracle to you now, but look to this thought-provoking article to discover how soccer superstar Lionel Messi's approach to handling anxiety can teach us all valuable lessons about managing our own mental challenges.
Emotions can sometimes feel like a complex puzzle — one where you just can't quite crack the code. In those moments when it feels most difficult to discern what your emotions are trying to tell you, uncovering their messages are key to responding more appropriately and with intention. Explore this article that presents seven powerful questions to help you unravel and make sense of your emotions, providing clarity, a deeper understanding of yourself, and a path towards greater well-being and personal fulfillment.
Tools for Creativity
To Spur Team Creativity, Replace a Regular With an Outsider - A new study found that teams with new members generated 20% more top-tier ideas. Leaders, take note: to unlock great ideas, introduce newcomers to your next brainstorming session. Not only will they bring a fresh perspective, they'll prompt existing team members to rethink their assumptions.
The Myth and Magic of Generating New Ideas - A mathematician on how to get the mind into motion.
Recommended by LinkedIn
Tools for AI
Everything you need to know about AI.
This Is the Most Important Skill Your Company Needs in the New World of A.I. - How to make the shift from knowledge workers to knowledgeable workers.
Tools for Data Analytics
How data mesh helps you capture greater value from your data?
Tools for Your Practice
Who is responsible if Healthcare AI fails?
Generative AI is helping to shake up health research. Could it lead to a smoke-free future?
How one California health system is learning from Silicon Valley, using AI.
How often do Health insurers say no to patients? No one knows.
This drug can give us an edge in the bacteria-antibiotics arms race.
Healthcare and data. How to measure quality.
Tools from TED
The value of kindness at work. In this captivating TED Talk, entrepreneur James Rhee showcases the transformative power of kindness in reshaping businesses and workplace culture. Think about what it could take to lead with your heart, and take a few minutes out of your day today to draw from Rhee's experience and advice and be inspired to cultivate a culture of compassion and empathy in your workplace.
Tools for Technology & Healthcare Trends
Powering wearable health monitoring devices without batteries.
AI’s increasing role in the healthcare delivery system: Key legal considerations.
The impact of generative AI on medical devices.
Machine learning model predicts PTSD following military deployment.
Tools for Inclusion
The mass exodus of tech’s DEI leaders is now underway. Companies are scaling back diversity and equity efforts. What’s really behind it?
Tools for Getting Published
Join my Master Class in Getting Published – All 8 Courses are Free for a Limited Time
Tools for Public Health
Tools for Global Work and Policy
The Center for Global Initiatives Named a Great Nonprofit for 2023. Thanks to you, this is our 10th consecutive year to be rated as a Great Nonprofit. “The Center for Global Initiatives is a great example of a nonprofit making a real difference in their community,” said Perla Ni, CEO of Great Nonprofits, “Their award is well-deserved recognition not only of their work, as shown by the many outstanding reviews they have received from people who have direct experience working with them.”
Tools for Finding Conferences
Tools for Healthcare Career Insights
Curated from Medpage Today.
Tools for a New Gig
Here’s Behavioral Health Tech’s jobs board to see all of the current opportunities from the leading companies in behavioral health. If you are looking for a new job and want BHT’s community of hiring companies to seek you out, then join their talent collective as a candidate for free here.
Or, if you want access to the central place for job candidates of all levels and roles focused on mental health and substance use tech, then enroll as a hiring company here.
See who’s hiring in health and fitness here.
From 80,000 Hours - There are a variety of ways to contribute to global priorities research, including academic research, working as a grantmaker, and doing charity evaluation.
To browse or search hundreds of recent job postings, visit the job board in PND, it includes foundation, public charity, education, and nonprofit jobs.
Positions from BioSpace
DiversityMD is a Career Job Board and Information Resource for Physicians regardless of age, race, gender, religion, education, national origin, sexual orientation, disability or physical characteristics. They are a “niche” website for Physicians of all levels of practice from Medical Students, Residents, Fellows on up to Medical Directors and CMO’s.
Tools to Travel the World
Google Search’s new features include a flight price guarantee badge on what Google thinks is the lowest price. If you book with Google and the price drops, you’ll be refunded the difference.
A Gym Membership for Your Brain
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Tools for Humanitarian Intervention
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Tools for Connecting
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In Closing
And even though I know our readers are very smart, I nevertheless have to say that this newsletter does not provide medical, psychological, legal, financial, healthcare, or any other form of advice. As I have said elsewhere, don’t be a knucklehead.
Big thank you to meta-sourcing sites and folks: BioSpace, Ron Friedman, PhD, Inc., Farnum Street’s Brain Food, McKinsey & Co., Medpage, MedScape, Joe Koster from Value Investing World, FirstRound, Get Rich Slowly, Ramit Sethi, Forbes InnovationRx, The Knowledge Project - organized by theme, 80,000 Hours, The Collaborative Fund, Colossus, Sonny Patel, Unmistakable Media, Top Tier, NeuroFlow, Five-Bullet Friday, O’Shaughnessy Asset Management, Health Data Management Group, Fitt, PodcastNotes, SparkType, Budgets Are Sexy, Behavioral Health Tech, Next Big Idea Club – Heleo, Section 4, Future of Health & Medicine Newsletter, Forbes, Wired, Noah Kagen/AppSumo, Fast Co., AI and Health, The Hustle, Tim Ferriss, Sparktype, TED, Good Life Project, AI Healthcare News, New York Times, and Morning Brew - be sure to check them out. And as always, I have no financial, marketing or affiliate relationship with any of the sources noted herein.
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Chris