Uncovering and healing your worthy story

One of the core wounds I see in ALL women that hold us back from the success we desire in life is our “worthy story.”

This wound is not only universal; it’s often unconscious. We all have a worthy story, whether it’s:

1. I have to achieve success in order to feel worthy.
2. I have to take care of others in order to feel valuable.
3. I need to be perfect in order to feel good enough.
4. I must be liked and accepted by everyone to feel worthy.
5. I need to look a certain way to be valued.
6. I have to be independent and never ask for help to be worthy.
7. I need to suppress my emotions to be accepted.
8. I have to conform to societal norms to be accepted.
9. I need to always be busy and productive to feel worthy.
10. I have to be self-sacrificing to be a good woman.

Whatever you subconsciously believe about yourself when it comes to your worth becomes your set point, your comfort zone. You will unconsciously sabotage anything that takes you out of this set point because your subconscious is always working to make sure you stay safe in that narrow familiar band. Whatever is unfamiliar will feel “unsafe,” so we need to expand our capacity to feel safe. We need to energetically signal to our bodies that we’re safe.

If you want to understand your set point when it comes to your worth, look at your external world—your relationships, your finances, your health, your business. You will only attract what you subconsciously believe you’re worth.

Even after doing a lot of inner work, I had reached a point in my business where I plateaued at $100k, it had become my ceiling.

I told myself I was bad with money.

I told myself that I didn’t need to earn that much so would stay at a comfortable level

It would fly in and then fly straight back out again.

I thought it was my money mindset.

It had nothing to do with that and everything to do with how I felt about myself and my capacity to receive and hold money. Underneath that was still my wound around feeling worthy and deserving of achieving greater success.

Until you do the deeper inner work, you will always struggle in your relationships, your business, your health.

The truth is we are ALL inherently worthy. When we can bring loving presence and acceptance to all parts of ourselves, give ourselves the space to connect to the parts of us that feel unworthy without judging them or identifying with them, but rather seeing them for what they are, then we can wake up out of the trance and the illusion and tap into our true essence.

“I'm not worthy” is from our ego, our fear, our past conditioning...it’s from our mind. Yet when we are connected to our truth, our core essence, you realize that no one is better than or less than you. You understand that your worth isn’t dependent on anything outside of you.

When I work with clients on their “worthy story”, I’m working at the level of:

Mind

Body

Emotions

Unconscious

And behaviours

You have to be able to transmute that fear energy at all levels.

Start here by becoming consciously aware of your patterns and beliefs when it comes to feeling worthy in your career/business.

Business/career

1. Do I feel I need to achieve certain milestones to prove my worth?
2. Am I afraid of taking risks in my career/business because I fear failure?
3. Do I believe I must be perfect in my work to be successful?
4. Am I comfortable asking for help or support in my career/business?
5. How do I handle criticism or negative feedback in my work?
6. Do I feel being my true self will lead to rejection or judgement

Wealth

1. Do I believe I deserve financial abundance and success?
2. How do I feel about receiving money and financial support?
3. Do I think I need to work extremely hard to be worthy of financial stability?
4. What are my beliefs about wealth and financial success? Are they positive or limiting?
5. Do I sabotage financial opportunities because they take me out of my comfort zone?

Reflecting on Your Answers

• Patterns and Beliefs: As you answer these questions, look for patterns and common themes. These will give you insight into your worthy set point and the underlying beliefs that influence your behavior.
• Awareness and Acceptance: Awareness is the first step towards change. Accept your findings without judgment. Recognise that these beliefs were likely formed to protect you and can now be transformed.
• Action Steps: Identify small, actionable steps to challenge and reframe limiting beliefs. For example, if you realize you fear asking for help in your business, start by reaching out to a trusted colleague for advice.

If you’re ready to own how f*****g worthy you are, join my Masterclass “BecomeHer” where I will guide you through an experience to not only uncover your story, but heal that story but tap into your truth and power.

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