What If We Can Re-humanize School Again?

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want to start this article by asking a question: “When you think about the educational system, what is the first word that comes to your mind?”

School? Uniformity? Conventionality? Teachers? Discipline? Control? Sustainability? Learning? Knowledge? Efficiency? Homework? Pressure? Exams? Degrees? College? Fees? Limiting? Broken?

Those were the answers to my first circle. The last attribute broke my heart, but it speaks so much truth.

I am guessing that, like all my friends living on several continents — so that to get a global impression, no one of you would have thought of the words freedomempowermentpleasurepassioncreativityhappiness, balance, servant leadership.

People who are scripted deeply in logical, verbal, left-brain thinking will discover how inadequate that thinking is in solving problems that require a great deal of creativity. They become aware and begin to open up a new script inside their right brain. It is not that the right brain wasn’t there; it just lay dormant. We haven’t been developing the muscles, or perhaps they had atrophied after early childhood because of the heavy left-brain emphasis of formal education or social scripting. ~ Stephen Covey

What about starting from the very beginning? Sounds like a wise plan, right? 😁

This educational system I am imagining will be effective only if we raise kids in a healthy family system. We need to understand that human beings do not have access to consciousness until their 7th year.

Come on, Myriam! You must be kidding me!”

I’m afraid I’m not. If you need to blame someone here, it will be the brilliant Epigenetics expert Dr. Bruce Lipton who is stipulating the following:

The program we acquired in the first six years shapes how we live our life. From the first two years before birth to the first two years, we are in the lowest frequency called “Delta”. For an adult, Delta is like sleeping or being unconscious. For a child, it is like being behind a window watching the world but can’t respond. From two to six, there’s a higher activity called “Theta”. When we’re in Theta, it’s like imagination. That’s why children between two and six mix the real world and the imaginary world in their play. When the child gets to 6, another level starts called “Alpha” which is calm consciousness. When the child reaches 12, s/he can express all the ranges from “Delta”, “Theta”, “Alpha”, and this is like schoolroom consciousness called “Beta”. The most vital point is that consciousness, the way we think consciousness, is not available to the child until after 6! The first six years are the programmable state. Whatever goes in the first six years is the first structure in the subconscious mind. This period of our life is where we learn the fundamentals of relationships, connections, family, and community.

Pre-requisites of the educational system

Being armed with such information, how would we be able, as parents/caregivers, of raising the free spirits who would thrive in this new educational system?

  • Elevating them instead of criticizing them.
  • Actively listening to them so that to help them avoid developing a narrow range of thinking.
  • Being consistent in terms of showing affection. Loving them unconditionally, so that they feel emotionally safe, given space to create and stay connected to their inner passions.
  • Celebrating them and being their cheerleaders — even when we could be worried about the future of those passions — instead of limiting them with the “success” social lens.
  • Teaching them the value of giving, to be empathetic to others, and reinforced for their efforts.
  • Teaching them a responsible behavior by letting them make their own choices, empowering them to do so, and making sure to take note of the good things they do.
  • Reminding them daily that their worth is intrinsic and only depends on who they are as a person. They need to get the message that they will never have to prove their worth to anyone, but that they can aspire to grow and become better from day today.

The only person they would need to compare themselves to would be the person they were yesterday. We call this behavior the “Abundance Mentality”!

  • Raising them in alignment with the principles — namely respect, fairness, integrity & honesty, human dignity, abundance mentality, service, quality or excellence, potential, etc…

You might be tempted here to ask yourself “When is she planning to introduce this new educational system?”, right? 😊

I am inviting you to have a look at the cover picture, and tell me what you’re feeling? On point! A human connection.

Having such a circular layout — making it possible for each student to see everybody else — is already a great start to create a friendly atmosphere and break the ice in no time!

Now let me introduce to you this educational system big lines:

All the schools are pretty much the same

When our neighbor asks you “Which school your children will be going to?”, your answer is “The closest one to the house.”

There would be no need to plan your residence area depending on your search for the most suitable school anymore.

We need to represent the fairness principle carefully. Similar educators’ qualifications. Similar educational means. Similar pedagogy, etc. What is that supposed to create?

Nurturing the kids’ core values which have been vehiculated to them by their parents. Observing the alignment between what they were told and its execution in their schools is creating a sort of faith in the world’s goodness!

Primary school: No official educational program

The teachers who would be, most importantly, highly qualified in terms of child psychology, and have the highest level of Emotional Intelligence.

They would build the program with the students based on their interests and passions. The learning methodology would be 100% interactive — mostly based on games.

After diagnosing the different students’ strengths, the teachers would be dividing the kids into heterogeneous groups and plan workshops where the talent of every student would be required.

What is this strategy aiming to create? Not only learning to work as a team from their very early age but also nurturing the feeling of being able to make an impact.

No single kid would feel the pressure of comparing oneself to another one; simply because everyone has something different to offer to the rest of the group!

Middle school

After having collected all the unofficial educational programs from all the primary schools and consolidating them, the secondary school would be having an official program inspired by the kids themselves and centered on their passions and interests.

To emphasize again the fairness principle, all the taught subjects need to have the same weighting. Physics are not more important than Music in any case. We equally need both of them to create a balanced world.

There would be exams, but using different logic. There would be no ranking. The grading scale varies between 0 and 10 for each subject. Each student would be rated on each subject separately.

No shows, no resentment, no pressure or need to compare themselves to each other!

The only purpose of the rating is to have a global picture of the different tendencies for educational decision-makers. Also, confirming the strengths areas for the students to work on raising the quality effectively.

High school

Now that the tendencies are clear for each student, the scholar orientation would be chosen naturally.

There would be more knowledge of the material. Still, self-development and curiosity to complete the school input would be highly encouraged.

For the final grade giving college access, there would be ranking.

Instead of being general, it would be a ranking per area to keep all the chances for the students to follow their passion even if they completely suck in all the other areas:

Music, theatre, writing, magic, biology, astrology, plumbing, comedy, economics, mechanics, sports, history, accounting, design, dancing, artificial intelligence, sales, gaming, finance, architecture, etc…

The college would need to adapt depending on the number of students in each area every year. I have no clue about the how, but I’m pretty sure there are brilliant experts in the world who would have an answer to any question!

Most importantly, there would be no fees. Every single individual should be granted the right to education even when the parents cannot afford it.

The bonus about the educational content

Given how many people are abused by individuals suffering from the Cluster B classification disorders — Narcissistic Personality DisorderBorderline Personality DisorderAntisocial Personality Disorder, and Histrionic Personality Disorder — with whom we are interacting daily, who can ironically be parents, I am a firm believer it is becoming more and more urgent to introduce a psychology class from the early stages of the official educational system.

I explored the different aggressive personalities as well as the link with the kids’ sanity in a previous article. Should you be interested, you can find details here:

Shall We Take Our Kids Sanity More Seriously?

You need to understand that those disturbed individuals could be anybody in your circle: a parent, a sibling, a partner, a friend, a coworker, a manager — you name it! In other words, if you don’t have the required knowledge, you could be such easy prey. It is, unfortunately, how they perceive you!

Takeaways

This education reform might seem interesting — possibly fixing many issues and concerns of many of you. Interestingly, you might ask yourself this legitimate question:

“Why would I choose an area I know for sure the world is not taking seriously, Why would I risk struggling with paying my bills — even if this is the only thing making me feel alive — in the first place?”

The solution I am imagining is: Making sure we could grant similar entry salaries so that we could live decently no matter our passion and the industry we choose.

Two main criteria which could make a difference afterward would be:

  • Being a life-long learner and investor.
  • The balance between the life four dimensions — Mental, Physical, Emotional, and Spiritual — level, and maintenance frequency.

I hope my crazy imagination is making sense to you. My dearest wish is that those thoughts could trigger the discussion, and maybe — just maybe, start some brainstorming sessions around the topic!

With love, Myriam

Aly Jones

Holistic Coach, Author, Impact Speaker, Trainer & Founder of YBU Coaching

5y

Fabulous write up Myriam 🦋 Ben 🦋 Salem 🦋and an ideal thesis, of which I share many of your ideas for an ideal educational system 👍🙌 I’m working on a similar issue and write up - having 4 kids ( 2 failed by the education system!) I am very passionate about this !! )💪❤️

Christopher Bramley

Executive/Leadership Coach | TEDx/Keynote Speaker | Advisor | Director @Finding Shores | Senior Leader | Director of Coaching | Complexity/Flow/Agility/Ecosystems/Learning | Author/Writer/Teacher | AUDHD/Neurodiversity

5y

Myriam 🦋 Ben 🦋 Salem 🦋 - this is a vital area. I specialise in human learning and when I run classes or workshops I hate it being "classroom". I prefer everyone around a table or in a circle as equals.  Pedagogy is hugely damaging, especially given the inherent neuroplasticity of children and the lack of abstract understanding they possess. Stories and play are vital for them, as is collaboration.  I'm glad this is being seen much more widely - don't be disheartened, it's slowly changing. Love to chat more about it. 

Junie George Varghese

Co-Founder & CEO, The 5th Mantra * Training Mentor- IIT Madras * Top 10 Communication Coach (Yahoo Finance) * Trust Member, EvXprts Foundation * Trinity Exams Mentor * IIFT Alumna

5y

This is an amazing vision of an ideal academic system, where every child will find an opportunity to hone their skills and learn what truly matters- to be balanced and humane individuals! Thank you so much for sharing Myriam 🦋 Ben 🦋 Salem 🦋!!

Jill Swanson

Connecticut native recently relocated to Georgia, Entrepreneur. mom of 3 amazing young men. Standing up for humanity.

5y

Wow that sounds great. I really like those ideas💜💜

John Tan, CMILT

Materials handing and vessel coordinator at SEA Hibiscus Sdn Bhd (SEAH)

5y

Good idea of that “think out of the box”

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